How much texting is necessary?

MattyAnon · 2017-03-07T04:35:54+00:00

I'm down to talk for hours in person but the little texts back and forth throughout the day are so artificial I can't stand it and I have this sneaking suspicion that betas are the ones that need that constant contact

Daily is MORE than enough. Daily is too much.

If you're in the habit of it being daily, just tell her when she texts you "hang on... busy for a bit". Then get back to her the next day.

You want to avoid daily contact right from the start. Girls love it, but it's killing your mystery and your attractiveness.

You want her fucking pining for your messages, and you want to be going about your day.

For maximum hamster exercise answer randomly.... sometimes 2-3 in succession, sometimes don't answer for a day or two. Don't answer all texts.

If quizzed just say "Right, so when you texted I had this business client who wants my business and it's an interesting prospect but...." and distract her with good shit going on for you. Also try "oh right, yeah, I forgot to answer that" if pushed, but if you play this game well she'll be so overjoyed at contact with that she won't waste it asking dumb questions.

In fact here's a challenge for you: TRY TO LOSE A GIRL through crappy negligent text responses. This will help you find the limits.

badassbooda · 2017-03-07T04:37:11+00:00

Snapchat. Low commitment, you can get on with your life, and she can see how cool yours is.

oZeplikeo · 2017-03-07T16:26:49+00:00

My natural alpha roommate taught me a trick for IOS devices - turn on send read receipts. Then you can pull down from the top of the screen when she texts you and read the message without her seeing that you saw it. In other words you can choose when or when not to "read" her message, which more clearly sends her through loops.

Mangoinhand · 2017-03-07T13:55:58+00:00

My typical number of messages to get the phone number is 4-6: my opener, her reply, another message, and her reply.

Sometimes it takes another to segue into the task for a total of 6.

I have a handy trick I use to guage which variation and how to "move along" the conversation to the ask.

DM me if you want to know. I feel like I hit jackpot

redpillrobby · 2017-03-07T05:08:28+00:00

Your sneaky suspicion is correct. Texting should mainly be for logistics.

Mouthpiece · 2017-03-07T14:30:43+00:00

This should probably be on AskTRP.

Why do you feel obligated to respond to text messages? A guy who has things going on doesn't have time to respond to text messages all day. Tell her you're busy, and use text only to arrange your next meet up.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-03-07T18:53:15+00:00

I'm down to talk for hours in person

Which is completely stupid.

but the little texts back and forth throughout the day are so artificial I can't stand it

Because they are meant to make you into an orbiter.

Betas and orbiters are the ones who text all the time. Only betas and orbiters text outside of logistics.

When you have a woman's contact info, you have it for one reason - to arrange a meetup so you can see her in person. So your goal is to meet up with her, and in order to achieve that goal, you want to send as few texts/communications as possible.

The more you text/communicate with a woman, the more available you are, therefore appearing more thirsty and needy and clingy, and she will lose interest and attraction. This doesn't apply just to texting and other forms of electronic communication, but in person as well. So when you do meet up with her, learn how to have a good time doing things instead of sitting around talking.

LESS IS MORE.

Lovekeepsusalive · 2017-03-07T03:53:43+00:00

In the beginning id say sent one text a day, usually at the end of the day just to see how hers went. If shes into you she'll give responses that naturally provoke more conversation. Let women lead when it comes to continuing texting, but do initate more than she does

Title	How much texting is necessary?
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Date	March 7, 2017 3:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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