TL;DR - If you believe in limitations, there will always be limitations.

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If I had to ask you right now, what would you say women find most unattractive in men?

Is it being short? Fat? Poor? Ugly? Sexless? Friendless? Unambitious? Insecure? Hesitant?

If you think any of those are correct, you are right. The bitter irony, however, is that you are so right that you have missed the point of the question.

Every one of those conditions listed are only parts of the real dealbreaker, because they are not individually the things that repulse women.

To be unattractive, you simply need to be a man who is limited by circumstances.

Women don't give a damn about each of the individual qualities, but each of the qualities communicates a limitation. And every limitation that you have drags you further and further away from what really want - an unstoppable man.

Women already live lives of limitations by nature - they more often than not live lives of mediocrity, believing in possibility only where someone else has already showed them the way. Women are not attracted to men who they see as more limited than them. Hell, in most cases they don't even register the existence of those men. Women want someone, who is either physically, psychologically, socially, or otherwise superior than them - someone who can do things they can never imagine themselves succeeding in.

Making up excuses and believing in limitations is unattractive. That's what it boils down to. When you start believing that being ugly, short, or fat, you are buying into the bullshit that is limitations. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy, since this mindset is what is inherently unattractive. The mindset of a million closed doors. The only way to be an unattractive short man is to be one who believes that his height is somehow holding him back from infinity.

Believing in possibility and following through on that belief is what all people want. Women know there are too many things that they cannot do. They want someone who is unstoppable. If your looks don't immediately communicated that, then do everything in your power to change that and disprove people's disbelief through action. All people want a taste of infinity, but most don't believe in it until a man comes along to give them a sample.

So stop making excuses and take charge of what you can control. Naysayers are disbelievers, and no disbeliever has ever been unstoppable. Don't listen to those who tell you you can't do or don't deserve the things you pursue. If you believe that everything is possible and put it into action, then it will be. A lot is impossible in the beliefs of women, but for a man, nothing is. That is your most valuable resource. Belief in possibility.