Just like the title says. I have pretty bad self confidence in my looks, and it's affecting me in unhealthy ways.

Lately it's been me stuck on thinking "Why go work out? I'm stuck with an average face and irish pale skin, no reason to even try" or "Why go talk to that girl, she'll probably be grossed out by your skin anyway". I realize that this is a really terrible way to think, and I'd like to hear what you all think about it. I'm not looking for a pity party or validation, I'm just curious how to get the fuck over it and move on. I've internalized a lot of rp material, but it's just this stupid self image bullshit that's holding me back.

So, that being said, what are your opinions on how much looks affect guys, & what ways have you found to overcome the problem (If you're in the same boat)?