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[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rape is maybe a bit out there, it's emotional abuse and could/should fall under domestic violence. Hen pecking will break you down just as surely as you will break a Woman down by punching her everytime she texts another guy.
Tell her to stop being insecure and behave herself. Shame her for her childlike behaviour. Don't get emotional, just say it like it is.
[–]throw174537 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
How do you handle these stupid questions?
Pressure flip - turn the questions back on her. Then depending on how she responds keep the dynamic very much her focused on you. So for example, after flipping the "Did you miss me question" back to her - assuming she says yes, you can respond "How much?" "Show me" "Prove it" - this can quickly escalate to good things - and enforces a good dynamic for your relationship (one in which she is proving herself to you, not the other way around)
You can also simply ignore them - silence is potent.
You can blend jokey answers with body language that opposes - so she says "Have you missed me" - you can respond "Of course not" "Hell no!" - but also initiate contact, ass slap, bring her to you etc etc.
You can jump direct to sexual - "Have you missed me" - "I've missed those cute lips... Missed that sexy ass" (again delivered in a way which borders both "jokey" and "serious".) Women don't actually want to be missed, or needed. But they do want to be desired - and sexually wanted, so if you focus your responses in a way which keeps it very much on that, and that dynamic, it could work well.
[–]EveryoneIsGod0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
Those are good ass ways to handle it! My problem though, is i get pissed/emotional immediately so i never get to the point where these different strategies pop up. I will definitely incorporate these in the future.
Thanks buddy.
[–]Blunter-S-Thompson1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
My problem though, is i get pissed/emotional immediately
Good. So you just identified your own problem.
That's over half the battle. Now go fix it.
[–]EveryoneIsGod points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That's what i'm doing, if you haven't caught that.
[–]Blunter-S-Thompson2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I could care less. Don't talk about it, let alone to me.
Go fucking do it.
Some of the dudes in this subreddit, jesus... 😂
Why are you here if you don't care? Fucking sucker. Your only agenda by commenting here is trying to convince all of us including yourself that you have this RP shit down to a tee. Pathetic.
[–]Blunter-S-Thompson2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awww that's cute. You're still here? I see you're still having those emotional problems.
Isn't one of the local favorites - "ACTA NON VERBA"
You keep talking about "doing it".
HAHA. Best of luck with that.
[–]SetConsumes0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Stop letting your emotions control you/being a bitch? Be more stoic?
Do you even frame?
-_-
[–]Eastuss5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Those are comfort shit tests. I personally am pissed everytime I receive one and am tempted to be honest and stop her in her bullshit, but I think we're advised to just tell her what she wants to hear. And then the trick is to recognize comfort tests from fitness tests because they must not be addressed the same.
Those aren't female equivalent of rape, at all. Female equivalent of rape is a female forcing someone to have sex with her.
Also, divorce rape is theft.
[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shit Test = She doesn't think you have your shit in order and is looking for a strong alpha response.
Comfort Test = She knows you got your shit in order and is looking for a beta response to soothe.
You need to know what kind of test it is and respond accordingly. If it's a shit test and you respond like it's a comfort test you're going to friendzone yourself... or if you were already boning her then you end up with a dead bedroom. If it's a comfort test and you respond like it's a shit test you might push her to leave (of course that might be exactly what you want depending on the situation).
[–]RedPillJohnny1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Bitch, you're raping my time!" - Patrice
[–]lolpaulontheinternet points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Just tell her whatever she wants to hear and stop worrying about it.
[–]SetConsumes0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right? Oh you want to emotionally rape me? Two can play at that game.
I like giving them inconsistent answers.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't co opt female language. They already diluted rape into errant gazes on the subway, and made it so actual rape victims are always assumed to lie.
Why double down on that? Patrice is funny, try not to treat him as chocolate jesus, he aint' coming back
[–]PharmacyThumbprint0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Patrice ONeal in the house.
[–]mikesteane0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did you miss me?
No, the gun jammed.
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