I have been the "other guy" many times. Before you get all bitchy on me, hear me out.

If I told you how many times married women have used their subtle women tricks to get into my bubble, you would hate them (and maybe me).

I am slightly above average in looks an in every other way, but I am confident and relaxed - and above all else, I am truly happy.

So if I could offer any advice to the men reading this it is to do your best to find bliss in your life. TRP basically tells you this, perhaps in a different way.

A few other notes that you have probably heard before:

  • Work out. It matters. Shut the fuck up and get into the gym or run. Do SOMETHING. It works. But more importantly it makes you a more formidable man.
  • Let go of your old notions of fidelity and happily ever after. I grew up red pilled, but this sub still taught me some shit. There are a million things I could say about this, but I will just leave it at this "read the fucking sidebar"
  • When your woman is at work - I am there. When she is at a bar - I am there. When she is hanging out at Starbucks - I am there. That doesn't mean that I am actively trying to fuck your woman. She is running into me. I am fun as fuck and I can easily make her feel at ease and not judged. Read that again " I make her feel not judged" I hate that this is true, but even I had to find out the hard way.
  • If I told you my stories, you would hate women. Do NOT hate them. They are human primates just like you. Part of the problems of the world is that BOTH sides are blaming each other. Stop blaming and make a decision - do you want to be a jealous husband, or a free man enjoying life. I know those are not the only two options, but it sort of boils down to that in the long run. Am I wrong?

Ignore me or hate me. I am a random person on the internet. But the facts remain. Do what you will, but you cannot say you weren't warned.

PS - I spent 4 years in the military and know many good men who have gotten screwed - not by women, but by the lies they were told about women. I would never wish the horrific nightmares I have seen other men endure on anyone else. Terrence Popp can give you a lot more about this than I can. Be careful men, and good luck.

Edit. Last paragraph fixed.

Edit 2 - Well, this seems to have hit a nerve for you sensitive types. A few points of clarification:

  1. When I said "other guy" I didn't mean that I fucked a bunch of married woman - I just had her attention. Yes, I have fucked more than one married woman - two of whom did not tell me before. One or two others were "going through a divorce". I don't judge - that is for YOU to do. This was a simple reminder that ALWALT.

  2. I didn't emphasize the "slightly above average" enough. My point was that I am NOT Chad. It was the freaking title. I am far from a perfect example of a man - and STILL women will play their little games with and around me. In other words, ALWALT and hold your frame.

  3. I explicitly said "Before you get all bitchy" - and a bunch of you got all bitchy. I really want to be patient, so I will just leave that where it is. I know it hurts buttercup, but I am being honest. The truth is like that sometimes.

  4. I am not posting anything new here; just maybe from a slightly different perspective. I knew I would get hate for this - I know where I am. You cannot say someone didn't try to warn you though.

PS. I miss the old TRP where you could just post shit and other men would dissect the good from bad. Is some other blue pill subreddit leaking or what?