If you're a beta, your needs, knowledge and interests don't even matter to your own family in some cases.

TL;DR: A beta male being neglected by his wife isn't exclusive to marriage; it can happen even with family members.

BODY: Just want to let this out. It has been over two years since I swallowed The Pill and even though I have fallen down and failed numerous times when it comes to my personal goals (physical fitness, NoFap, personal finance, etc.), at least I now have the balls to admit how the world and the social structures within it actually work.

Many posters on here describe the scenario where a beta husband is left without sex (let's be honest with ourselves, sex is pretty much a basic need like food and shelter for us men) from his ex-CC wife. Not only is he left in a blue-balled dry spell, she brushes off his other needs as well. I remember a while back a redpiller was describing a situation where his wife deprived him of food for a long period of time and there was an instance where his lunch was jalapeño-flavored pickles, just to name an example. The beta's words are also non-existent to her because women only care about what comes out of a top 20%er's mouth anyway. If you believe that your mother, sister and other feminine family members are exempt from this idea when it comes to a beta male relative, you are dead wrong.

When I look at my family with Red goggles, everything falls together and makes sense. A little background about my current family: my older sister (25) is a batshit-crazy (has multiple tattoos, is $55,000 in debt from a social work degree, is a raging feminist and enjoys "travelling") ex-party girl that is stepping off of the CC, my thirty year-old brother is gay yet there is nothing masculine or peculiar about him (engineering job, is skinny-fat, plays computer games in spare time, eats like shit -- basically a typical beta), and my mother is broken (my father divorced her because he basically realized that he was being beta-bucked and not respected by her. Now she brags about being "strong", literally stays up until 2:00 A.M. watching romantic Hallmark movies, eats probably less than 800 calories a day, takes about 4-5 prescribed medications, and only has one method of enjoying herself: beer and gambling).

As a recovering porn addict, former geek/bully victim that wasted his entire childhood and adolescence on video games, I have begun making changing for myself. Teaching myself discipline, perseverance and good habits is an uphill battle for me and I am still struggling even after two years. Nevertheless, things are taking shape. But I digress.

Since it was the holiday time of the year, my sister, mother and older brother all decided to do the one thing they like to do to have fun: party at the casino and drink. That night, I made the mistake of going. I was so hungry and dehydrated that my stomach was burning, I was dizzy and couldn't think straight; a state you should never reach according to a pre-med plate from a year ago. At the bar, I order some water and say, "I'm going to grab a salad." My brother and sister start saying shit like, "what happens if you stop eating? You need to stop being a brat/baby and order a fucking beer. You just want attention, so shut up and drink."

My mother comes home from work every day and is always complaining about how she is "tired/stressed." Remember earlier I told you how she gets like 4 hours of sleep each night, is on 4-5 medications, eats less than 800 calories a day and stays up until 2:00 watching Netflix/Hallmark shit? I politely tell her that she should just get to bed earlier, eat more food and stop watching so much television (all of this would probably fix like 70% of her problems). Was she grateful that her son is caring for her and giving her some basic health advice? Nope. She just ignored me. Later that night, she kept bugging me on how I should "take out [even] more student loans" despite me telling her that they are the ticket to a financial Hellhole.

Another time, I was driving and my sister was riding in the passenger seat. I'm a fan of bands like Rammstein and Eisbrecher (I love the German language), so I decided to put some of their tracks on. My sister then started boiling up a shitstorm: "You're just doing this to make me mad. You need to start liking different stuff and stop being a weirdo. That's probably why you'll never make friends." When I held frame and resisted, she then hit me in the face while I was driving on the interstate. My right ear was ringing. She then called my mother and started telling her that I'm "a brat" and "need to grow up." Of course, I got yelled at for everything.

These weren't the only times where things like this have happened. As a child, my mother dragged me along shopping for hours-on-end without any food, she literally punished me for getting bullied on the playground (because it made her look bad), my older sister has even slapped me in public simply because I didn't even buy her hair dye.

Where is my father in all of this? Of course, my feminine family (mother, sister and brother) all hate the shit out of him because he is a "cheating bastard." My father was beta-bucked by my mother. I know because when they divorced, he poured his heart out to me how she pushed him away and got pissed at him because he wouldn't put up with her "strong woman" shit. Fed up with this, he did cheat on her with a woman in another city and they are now happily married because they meet each other's needs. Needless to say, my father isn't exactly a strong father figure, but I can see a lot of broken dreams in him. After swallowing The Pill, I am working on building a strong relationship with him. It is even as far as to say that "I am his favorite kid out of all of you three" because "we can connect" by playing golf, playing music and helping me with my job search (FUCK MINIMUM WAGE).

LESSONS LEARNED:If you're a beta, your needs, knowledge and interests don't even matter to your own family in some cases.** Let that sink in, gentleman. A beta male doesn't even deserve to be his own person according to some women in their own family.