I'm utterly frustrated

yearlydying · 2015-03-31T03:37:46+00:00

Wanting to be a misogynist because some women think "the world would be better without men" is not unlike thinking the world would be better without men because some men commit violence; both are taking some selective data points and extrapolating to the extreme. You see the problem here? Don't sink to that level.

TheCrimsonMonk · 2015-04-01T17:36:21+00:00

The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around and what do you see; businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save, but until we do these people are still a part of the system and that makes them our enemies. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged and many of them are so inert, so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it.

You need to stop getting frustrated over what other people say. The fact of the matter is that the red pill is a minority, and as such, shunned. Focus on important things like lifting weights, pursuing your own hobbies and growing intellectually.

Eventually the bullshit will turn into background noise.

yearlydying · 2015-03-31T03:37:09+00:00

You need to realize that people are below you and you shouldn't care what they say. For example,

You are walking down the street and a crazy hobo screams at you "YOU ARE UGLY". You laugh and don't give a shit.

The next night you approach a girl at a bar and eventually she says "You are ugly" You laugh and don't give a shit because both of their opinions matter the same.

JP_Whoregan · 2015-03-31T03:47:16+00:00

Hate to sound cliché, but you sound like somebody who needs to do a whole lot more sidebar reading. Women don't want you to solve their problems. It's not about the nail.

Women love the victim state. They know how to own it. Attempting to drag them out of it kicking and screaming is an exercise in futility. What you need to do is stop trying to change women and start adjusting your expectations of them. Once you realize that women have the emotional capacity of a 16 year old, that they are liable to break into tears over shit that you will never understand, and that despite all of the "independent womyn" bullshit they spew, they need and require the presence of a strong male, then you will stop being so frustrated.

Adjusting your expectations is far easier and far more pragmatic than trying to get a child to act emotionally like an adult.

DanG3 · 2015-03-31T11:13:33+00:00

"I recently met the most fucking annoying chick ... she said 'The world would be a better place without men."

Obviously you haven't met any real Men. My name is Hugene Thundercock. You can call me Huge.

[deleted] · 2015-03-31T05:30:42+00:00

"well maybe you shouldn't drink so much soda throughout the day." She broke down in tears and I felt like a fucking asshole.

Women hate hearing the truth. Don't ever feel like an asshole for it. If they can't handle it then you know where you stand with them.

[deleted] · 2015-03-31T14:17:32+00:00

Dude, the world is filled with misandry. Men are the manipulated and shit on sex. There are plenty of resources to learn about this and find comradery. I think you're angry because people are crazy and call the abuse of men normal and equal. It's ok to have righteous rage...but don't wallow in it. Anger is a gift; use it to fuel change in your life. Learn, learn learn if you're the analytical type. Do something useful and stress-reducing if you're not.

TheAtomicOption · 2015-03-31T06:12:58+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

cock_pussy_up · 2015-03-31T08:44:14+00:00

When women complain... ignore them. When women are 2/10's and don't even have tolerable personalities... ignore them in general.

R1fle · 2015-03-31T13:39:23+00:00

Take what 90% of people say, and 100% of women say with a grain of salt.

LadyLumen · 2015-04-01T04:52:18+00:00

This society is full of pussies, soft easily offended people who haven't had to deal with any real problems.

So of course they make some big social campaign out of issues like "fat acceptance," or discussing a world without men. These are people who are so pampered that they are basically inventing causes because they don't have any real problems.

If all the men in the world suddenly disappeared these women would be begging to have them back. Let's see...a majority of the people who build our shit, people who defend our shit, people who farm the food and people who clean our shit are gone. Well fuck.

And if these ultra feminists women want to go off and make their own female only colony I say good riddance.

Philhelm · 2015-03-31T16:42:41+00:00

I'm not misogynist, I'm not sexist, I'm not racist.

So what if you were? Who are you seeking to please? The problem with SJW's is that everyone has a reason, rational or irrational, to hate someone for some reason. The SJW's simply cherry-pick certain pet issues and run away with them, particularly subjects such as racism and "homophobia." We're at a point were a racial joke is akin to burning crosses on peoples' lawns. One of my friends started dating an Asian woman, so I told him to be careful not to fuck her too hard, or she might become disoriented. The SJW's would flip their fucking lids over something like that - fucking pussies.

[deleted] · 2015-03-31T03:55:05+00:00

Most people who complain don't want a solution, they want empathy. So yea, your gf just wanted empathy. You say, I'm sorry dear, and that's the end of it. She's not stupid, she knows how to loose weight, but for what ever reason she is failing (will power, etc.) So she is sad, wants comfort, etc.

To the person who thinks the world would be better off with out men. You just got to shut that shit out. Some people are stupid as fuck, and as long as they aren't the majority, it isn't a problem. You just tune them out and keep going.

boscoist · 2015-03-31T05:24:43+00:00

This was going to be its own post after I'd worked on it some more but here's the draft:

I had an interesting date the other day with a social justice worker at domestic violence agency:

Things that existed that I didn’t know about: -mens circle support group, which nominally focuses entirely on “i will not commit violence on women” but in practice functions to help victims, because there are more male victims than abusers

-men’s shelters - not many but apparently they exist.

perhaps most happily, because i was worried when she said she worked in that field, that she had been quickly disabused of the high minded ideals of the political and internet feminists who are.. fucking things up.

So, as I should have expected, we (internet people/debaters) have our heads in the clouds and the people on the frontlines have any high minded ideals quickly replaced with pragmatism and reality, that PEOPLE are shitty to each other.

oldredder · 2015-03-31T08:17:07+00:00

Since you came here, here's what works: re-shape your life. Cut out everyone from your life that is toxic and those beliefs and actions supporting those beliefs are all toxic.

hamstercide · 2015-03-31T09:52:01+00:00

Ignore them. Who cares what they say.

[deleted] · 2015-03-31T13:35:44+00:00

When I hear a problem, I want to find a fucking solution and solve the fucking problem. More often than not, the women in my life just want to fucking BITCH about shit.

Welcome to the 21st century of Feminism and me-me-me entitlement culture. Everyone wants to bitch, moan, and complain (women, men, betas, doesn't matter) but no one wants to offer solutions because that would involve critical thought and effort, something Feminists want no part of (and political extremists but I won't go there). People, especially women like this, have a self inflated value that they believe their opinion matters when it's less than dog shit (you know, opinions are like assholes and what not) but nothing infuriates me more when someone criticizes me, a friend, something going on and offers no real solution. Not a single person in this world gives a fuck what you think unless you BRING value. In this case, that value is an achievable solution or at least a door to begin a solution.

But then again, RP men don't complain. Sure we'll internally complain and then promptly smack ourselves in the face to get shit done and let our actions speak for us.

Hank711 · 2015-03-31T21:15:38+00:00

I guess you're in school and don't have the opportunity to avoid her. That sucks man.

You know, from her perspective, the would probably would be better without men. Life is a competition, and this wildabeast is going to have a hard time keeping up with her non-ugly contemporaries in terms of male attention. Maybe she doesn't even know what it feels like.

thewrightstuff88 · 2015-03-31T12:41:44+00:00

You told her what she needed to do regarding soda and she didn't like that. It's just like telling a kid they can't donor have something because it's bad for them, they will just cry. Women are the worst when it comes to being called out because they know what the truth is, they just don't wanna hear about it. Also, you lost frame by feeling like shit and giving in to her crying. Hold firm and make it known what your view is else a woman will know that all it takes is some tears and a whimper to get you to do what she wants.

copralalic · 2015-03-31T13:06:50+00:00

It reminds me of my first girlfriend, who was skinny but had a little belly. She always, ALWAYS complained about it, saying she wanted a flatter stomach. She asked me about exercises and shit. One day, after she was going on and on, I said "well maybe you shouldn't drink so much soda throughout the day." She broke down in tears and I felt like a fucking asshole.

Classic 2nd degree manipulation. 1st degree is defiance, 2nd degree is guilt, 3rd degree is submission. They cycle through the degrees sometimes, especially if you fail two shit tests in a row. You have to be unaffected.

coffee_and_lumber · 2015-03-31T15:01:07+00:00

Most Western feminists have never encountered a legitimate example of the oppression they scream about. It's mostly straw man arguments and anecdotal examples they pick up off their toxic blogs. In other words, modern feminism is a circle jerk. They've already won. Society is now quite pussified, dumbed down, PC, safe, mostly non-offensive, but that's not the point. Most seem like either 1) ugly women who nobody wants to fuck who want to artificially level the playing field for themselves or 2) are in it to be deliberately outraged and stir up shit. Or both. I am sure there are legit examples of unjust treatment of women out there, and that should be addressed on a case by case basis, but it nowhere near justifies the level of drama and noise they are throwing at it.

[deleted] · 2015-03-31T17:34:46+00:00

When people say something like that I just remind them that tampons were invented by men. And I say "you're welcome".

batfish55 · 2015-03-31T17:53:36+00:00

It reminds me of my first girlfriend, who was skinny but had a little belly. She always, ALWAYS complained about it, saying she wanted a flatter stomach. She asked me about exercises and shit. One day, after she was going on and on, I said "well maybe you shouldn't drink so much soda throughout the day." She broke down in tears and I felt like a fucking asshole.

Shit test. You failed. Women will turn on the water works to end a fight/discussion/argument/etc. "You don't like being a little chubby? Quit the soda. You're crying now? Well, you might lose a little water weight, but probably not enough to make a difference."

Her: The world would be better off without men.

You: Really? Tell me, who are you going to call when you need to go to the doctor? When you need the police? When you need someone to change your oil, build your residence, or help you move your couch?

....but mostly....why bother arguing with someone who just wants to argue? She's never going to give up an inch of ground, regardless of the rationality of your argument? You can't have a rational conversation with an emotional being.

Smile internally that you have a clue to what's going on. You know the rules they're playing by. If you start smirking around the table at the other players and start shuffling your chips, they'll know that you know that they're bluffing. Work your poker face.

dicklord_airplane · 2015-03-31T18:38:37+00:00

I asked "well what do you propose we do to solve these problems" and her answer was "Well I don't know, I just like talking about the problems."

the hyper-left zeitgeist. pay no mind to it and do what's good for you and those you love. my life got so much better once i stopped caring about the silly OPINIONS. they are just naive opinions.

TekkomanKingz · 2015-03-31T23:26:41+00:00

She's a 2/10 of course she hates Men because no Men want her!!!

[deleted] · 2015-04-01T01:29:33+00:00

People say all sorts of stupid shit all the time, just ignore them. It's just their opinion.

cascadecombo · 2015-04-01T05:59:26+00:00

t makes me WANT to be a misogynist.

Lets use real language, so you want to be a woman hater? That just sounds silly.

"well maybe you shouldn't drink so much soda throughout the day."

And here you said the right thing, let her cry. Who cares?

the women in my life just want to fucking BITCH about shit.

Most all want to bitch, any advice you give will be ignored, So just ignore their bitching. You can influence a conversation as well. When people start to complain to much, I just start talking a bout something more interesting and then things get better.

madrealworld · 2015-04-02T09:55:35+00:00

my reply to the ugly chick would be: hahaha aight, cya.

then i'd never talk to her again. no need to let anyone get to my nerves.

sterlinghtsmi · 2015-03-31T12:27:32+00:00

Just walk away and repeat namaste...namaste....and a totally hot chick will soon appear.

Orflarg · 2015-04-01T17:31:09+00:00

Does this post provide any insight into anything or is it just you complaining?

Title	I'm utterly frustrated
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Date	March 31, 2015 3:06 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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