Is our relationship truly finished?

MagicGainbow · 2016-11-23T21:59:19+00:00

I'll be blunt, she never saw you as a viable long term thing, you are an emotional tampon/distraction, she does not want you to come over and probably never did, cut contact and move on.

chris_sydney · 2016-11-23T22:00:20+00:00

It never started. Move on.

Girls say they like to be called every day and spoiled but in reality they will lose attraction towards you as soon as you start doing this crap. Try this instead: whenever some girl calls you, answer like you haven't saved her number yet. Or end up call in middle of the sentence saying 'gotta go, I'll call you back' and then never return that call. Or put her on hold for several minutes.

Of course she says she hates it yet gets attracted to you.

B055AN0VA · 2016-11-23T23:47:01+00:00

So basically you only have this one option, and she's so precious to you that you have to see her after she's flat out letting you know that she has 0 respect for you?

Either you're 14, stupid(because you can't tell she's using you for validation) or the biggest cuck on earth. Or a troll, in which case, well done, because I'm triggered.

And yeah, I'm not only going to shame you. I also have some advice - focus on yourself, forget she ever existed and get on with your life.

Auphor_Phaksache · 2016-11-23T21:59:51+00:00

Quick question, how much money have you sent her and what items have you purchased for her?

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-11-23T22:05:29+00:00

She might have been just doing this all for fun and games.

Never do long distance relationships.

He or she might be Catfishing.

https://socialcatfish.com/what-is-catfishing-online-dating/

TheFamilyAlpha · 2016-11-23T22:18:08+00:00

Let it go man, the girl you want you'll have a relationship with in person.

You're being a woman, remove the feels and look at this objectively.

boomscooter · 2016-11-23T23:11:03+00:00

This is a troll post, right? Never met her? Why are you investing any time in that? I seriously don't understand this type of behavior out of a guy. Are you a teenager? If not, get checked for autism, seriously. Because you are missing some major social ques and this bitch is taking your dumb ass for a ride. I see you posted something to the effect of, how can someone be so cold? You must live in the most specialist of special snowflake towns duder. People are evil, they have committed genocide, cannabilllism, murder, rape, on and on. And you think this is some thoughtless shit? A girl using you for attention and validation, to you, is unheard of because it is so bad... This is common place and happens every day. Why do you think this sub exists in the first place? Because women are all so nice? Really, what were you expecting out of this? The Disney ending where you guys meet, fall in love and live happily ever after? That shit isn't real and it never was. Live for you, lift some weights because you sound like a massive pussy. You won't have a girl respect you until you can respect yourself, and you are waaaaay the fuck off from that happening. Now, go read the sidebar, and start lifting heavy weights like your life depends on it. I suggest starting strength, or stronglifts 5x5.

It's all your choice what happens from here. Maybe try finding validation out of your life and actions, and not in someone else. Especially a fucking a woman. It is all your CHOICE from here. Fuck yeah it is hard, as it should be. Otherwise everyone would have huge muscles and a fat bank account. Dont do it, I don't care. More for me after you take yourself out of the alpha gene pool. Which you kind of already have by being in a ldr with a person you haven't so much as met. Still not convinced this isn't a troll because it really is that sad. Its cringe sad... So bad. I hope you listen to the people commenting. If not, you are going to doom yourself to a life of disrespect and subservience to women. Sounds terrible to me.

PaulAJK · 2016-11-23T23:11:41+00:00

"Long distance" and "relationship". Chose one.

You never had anything with her. She was a long distance cock locker who was probably banging guys to her hearts content while you fantasised about her. You caught the adicitive oxytocine buzz called "new relationship energy" and that's going to take a little time to get over. Go lift and met other girls, you'll recover.

ThatHoeOverDere · 2016-11-23T23:42:27+00:00

Long distance never works for this reason. It's harder to control a bitch when you're not present in front of her.

Let her go and make sure you dont make this mistake again.

aurelius_shrugs · 2016-11-24T00:15:26+00:00

For future reference, any woman you are not fucking in the first three "dates" is not a relationship. All of this is entirely your fault.

Long distance is no relationship.

Title	Is our relationship truly finished?
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Date	November 23, 2016 9:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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