Ok so this has been going on for the whole relationship near enough but it only occured to me last night that it could be a red flag.

My LTR is ongoing now for about 11 months, things are good, my physical attraction to her is probably the only minor niggle since she refuses to join me at the gym and get in shape. But she makes up for it in other ways which add value to my life.

Anyway, the sex is actually pretty good, despite her size she's (Now) reasonably comfortable getting on top, happy to try new positions where possible. Cant do anything too off the wall, tried backdoors the other week and she ran off crying, wont be getting an invitation in there again. Anyway what im saying is that she's not opposed to sex at all and has literally withheld it once in the relationship when she wasnt well, which obviously was fine.

She tends not to initiate all that often, maybe 30% of the time. But as i say, she is almost never opposed, just rarely starts it.

Except when shes had a drink. She doesnt often drink outside, occasionally she'll have a "Day session" with her friends where they'll go out to a bar and have a few during the day and chill on a night. But she drinks a fair bit in the house, likes a few to wind her down after work.

Heres the thing, if she's got a few Smirnoff in her, she's fucking. Thats just how its going down i can predict her actions down to the minute. She's initiating and shes (Within reason) not taking no for an answer.

This got me thinking though, if alcohol has such a pronounced effect on her sex drive... Am i the only person she would initiate with, if i werent around at the time.

She's dating up, she cant really do a whole lot better than me (other than for maybe a 10 minute before closing time last option fuck) but im beginning to wonder if she can be trusted when shes had a lot to drink.