I've been applying what I've learned here, and 9/10 times it works.

nonthaki · 2016-09-16T14:36:40+00:00

I have to keep on telling this . Donot study and apply RP rules to try to ensure that a girl wont cheat behind your back . Its uncontrollable . Instead , RP is about sexual strategy to get sex and promoting positive reinforcement in plates and LTR I.e. positive feedback for loyalty, not cucking etc . But no matter how much good u r in Red Pill strategy and in this positive reinforcement games , there is always very good chance that she will cheat even if you are an alpha and especially if she is young . Instead use RP to get what you want , which is LTR and FWB and living together relationships which are atleast partially fulfilling (as that is the most you can try for nowadays without getting burnt), but rarely are there enough marriage material people nowadays .

It is fair to say that most girls insisting marriage nowadays is doing so as to protect and pile up their resources and only to furthen their interests like security of having a family , financial security etc . This is inborn evolutionary-character of a girl and will always be there .

jb_trp · 2016-09-16T20:44:42+00:00

I hate the phrase, "It works."

I hate it.

It makes it sound like this sub has figured out some sort of secret life hack to get women to sleep with them, like we're some sort of PUA community. "Hey guys, I've been trying TRP for a week now, and it seems to be working, but this girl won't have sex with me. What do?" It's stupid and misleading.

You mean you've had other men start explaining to you how life really works, and that if you improve yourself, become more masculine (i.e. "alpha"), take responsibility for your life, stop tolerating petty bitch behavior from women, that those same women are going to notice your newfound self-respect and gym "gainz" and are going to have more respect for you and consequently be more attracted to you? Go figure.

Stop trying to "prove" that you're "alpha" (which on this sub is quickly becoming a parody), and focus on becoming the man your heart desires. This girl will come along for the ride or she won't, but your life will be 1000x better if you do, you'll be happier, and plenty of other women will want to come along for the ride.

McLarenX · 2016-09-16T21:44:57+00:00

I dig this girl and could see an LTR further down the line, so things like this are truly helping "prove" that i am an alpha, and i'm confident in assuming she's never had anybody with the charm/confidence/DGAF attitude that gives her good dick who still finds the balance with affection.

be careful women tell you what you want to hear in order to force commitment

dat_guy_11 · 2016-09-16T14:47:06+00:00

I love lines like that, not canned, natural and in the moment because it's something you genuinely believe. It solidified you as alpha in her head, it is made more beautiful because you weren't trying to be alpha, you were just being. (Was going to add you as in "Just being you" but just being just sounds more profound in a stupid way, probably more stupid than profound but I like it)

_the_shape_ · 2016-09-16T23:39:16+00:00

Glad everything is turning out swimmingly for you, but a head's up, from experience: having a girl leave you when you are 99.99999% percent certain you are the best she's ever had in every respect (looks, sex, money) can be a rather ruthless curveball if you are not prepared for such an outcome. In fact, that very experience later became the most insidious case of oneitis of my life. I wound up right here at the doorstep of TRP as a result.

Looking back, if I could do it all over, the only thing I'd do differently is remind myself every single day that this woman is borrowed and at some point I will have to give her back ("she's never yours; it's only your turn")

Edit: I'd also remind myself rise above skirt-chasing/female-validation and to stay focused on more important stuff like internal fulfillment, reaching my potential, family, becoming calm

DirtyProject0r · 2016-09-16T15:13:59+00:00

The truths spread on TRP are groundbreaking to me. It is almost against everything that is told or adviced by betas, women and mainstream media yet they are true. Every. Single. Time.

Why are TRP truths not accepted (at least by men) when there is evidence all over that they are way closer to the truth than the current paradigm reigning in the general public?

WIDE_420lbs · 2016-09-17T17:19:39+00:00

It's not just the application or when "it works" for me, really. The driving point of TRP for me, and someone said this earlier here, is minimizing losses; how to cope with rejection or cheating, or The Real World being a shitpile.

Anyone can stick with a program when they see results, no matter how flimsy the premise. Until it stops working and it comes crashing down, it doesn't build discipline. That's why PUA crap is so hokey to me, it's only 1 small part of the equation. It's like running a piece of software on a broken computer: sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, but it doesn't fix the computer.

TRP is different in that the foundation is so solid, if you really internalize it, the missteps become smaller, you just keep walking over them not looking back in your stride, and you're not a bad person for doing so. Even when you don't see immediate results, it's still helping in the long-term.

Popeman79 · 2016-09-16T13:57:45+00:00

You're doing good. Maybe this girl is worth being in a LTR, maybe not. Anyway if you do LTR, just make sure you don't depend on her in any way (she depends on you). You don't need her for sex, happiness, etc.

That way if she fails you or decide to cut her you're still good.

aanarchist · 2016-09-16T13:34:24+00:00

wait until you ltr her and then realize what a piece of shit she is.

Nootuff · 2016-09-16T23:00:02+00:00

Hey so how are you actually meeting women? Are you cold approaching? Or are you still in college or something?

Title	I've been applying what I've learned here, and 9/10 times it works.
Author	RedPillN00B
Upvotes	91
Comments	37
Date	September 16, 2016 1:31 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/531w8w/ive_been_applying_what_ive_learned_here_and_910/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/ive-been-applying-what-ive-learned-here-and-910.62338 https://theredarchive.com/post/62338

Comments