We were together for a long time. And one day I discovered she was messaging other guy online - frequent dates after work hours, naked pics, she even brought him to the party she had with her female friends last week. Even worse I know this guy, I met him once in public library.
Now I am ready to beat all shit out of both of them. I am so shocked I trusted her so much, now I want to kill my self.
Pretty generic story. And I am sure many guys know that feel when you caught your gf\wife in cheating, you are so angry and confused, adrenaline and violence rushes through veins. I know that feel too.
Fun fact that she does not even have to be your gf when you see her with someone other - but that reactions pops out and you start to feel anger.
So what you have to do? Kill her, kill him first? Kill yourself?
Do you have solid answer for that question? If no - you will have to chose one when it will happen to you (again), and of course adrenaline is not the best adviser.
But sometimes(rare) some guys don't feel like that. They don't feel anger. They accept it with poker face. In rare occasions it is the same guy from first paragraph but with other girl(or with the same).
Why reaction is different?
Fact of cheating is the same. She was fucking behind your back, you trusted her(why would you date someone you don't trust), you were kissing and licking particles of someone's other sperm from her lips when she comes back home and she was smiling in your face. But reaction is different.
There are also two usual post-reactions that need to be mentioned. Cuckold starts to hate or becomes envy to his gf's lover. Third post-reaction is unusual - man becomes MGTOW and starts personal development, becomes able to think and starts to analyse.
The key to answers these questions is nature of relations between so called man and woman. In both cases man is emotionally manipulated.
Logical analyse of these two types of reaction are posted in video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5_iFJjHDG8
Enjoy.
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