Let's talk about sisters.

VasiliyZaitzev · Sun Jan 29 8:37:58 2017 UTC

I have older sisters. They all have sons, so they all had an "A-Hah!" moment when they realized why little brother is the way he is. They all married high-functioning betas, so for the two nephews who are basically embryonic Red Pillers, I wind up explaining How To Handle Shit to them, from decking the schoolyard bully, to university stuff, career stuff and with the Ladyfolk.

One of the best kept secrets in life is that women don't understand men any better than we understand women. They are always trying to find a more complex explanation that doesn't exist. Or as I tell them, "When I tell you something, there is little to no subtext. So 'I'm not hungry' isn't a secret message that you need to lose 20 lbs. Although that's probably not a bad idea.". I have a well-developed survival instinct so I usually leave that last bit off. Usually.

I taught the younger of them some 'Man Speak' to make her work life easier (she is the only woman in Sr management where she works). So she was having a problem getting her boss to understand something abt her dept and so I told her how to explain it to him.

Her: "I don't understand what you just said."

Me: "You don't have to. Your boss will."

Short answer: He did, and she got what she needed.

Spongbeb · Sun Jan 29 6:53:12 2017 UTC

Be masculine, have masculine polarity and your sisters will appreciate it and be much more receptive to you, and you control them.

Be beta and have no masculine polarity and your sisters will not respect you, therefore you are controlled by them.

Nothing sexual about this by the way.

mypatchiswhite · Sun Jan 29 5:21:22 2017 UTC

Talk to her like she is a dude. You're not trying to Fuck her right? So don't sugar coat it. Be honest with her but don't try to save her feelings or what have you. Whether or not she listens to what you have to say is her problem but when she inevitably screws up and comes back to you after being burned you can always say "Told you so." I have two sisters so I can empathize with wanting the best for your siblings but at the end of the day you're not super man and you can't save everyone.

TrimPot · Sun Jan 29 7:16:12 2017 UTC

I talk to my sister like she's one of my close guy friends. We get along really well and hang out pretty often. It's cool having a sister because we can talk about our problems without much judgement and we share a lot of the same traits and experiences. We are only a year apart and when we were young we got in a lot of fights and I had to protect her from her own stupidity a few times, but now she's settled down with a decent guy and they have a kid so she's really mellowed out.

adam-l · Sun Jan 29 7:50:11 2017 UTC

If she has a personality disorder, be it a woman or a man, there is practically nothing you can do to help her. She will eventually go down the drain,.pulling along everyone that is attached to her. You should detach emotionally, and accept the big possibility that she will be fucked for life.

Again, this is not because she is a woman - it is because she is disordered (if you used the term with its scientific meaning).

Poofysmoof · Sun Jan 29 13:58:16 2017 UTC

What about daughters? I've raised one and she's out of the house now extremely strong willed. Reading through the redpill idk how she'll be in life. I know she runs over her man because I've made her so masculine. What should we do when raising our little girls? I don't want to raise them to be stepping stones. Any insight?

adw12311 · 2017-01-30T13:35:59+00:00

Let me guess, you are subscribed to all the Youtube channels on how to fuck ladies the first time you meet them and sex tractics that you mentioned. Have they ever worked? I say this, because I have had sex with more girls being genuine and having fun than my friends that tried to use tactics that made them look like creeps. Anyways, this is not a good start to build a human relationship.

Your sister just as well could be a brother. People are people, they behave based on emotion, habits and what they think is right. Nobody is so fucked up to sit down and think of how to manipulate someone else. Even if they do, this is fairly obvious to any observer, and they should seek treatment.

To answer your question, your sister is a sister, a woman on the street is a woman. Not an alien. You can interact with them without fear of turning into a frog.

SeemedGood · Sun Jan 29 17:46:09 2017 UTC

Glad you chimed in with this.

I'm dealing with my sisters right now on some very serious issues surrounding our aging parents whose health is failing and I made some serious mistakes in how I started treating the interactions (began a few years ago before I had become aware of the RP world). As a result of my mistakes things have gotten so out of hand with them that I may have to hard next them out of my life entirely, which is really devastating for my entire nuclear family, but unfortuantely they have gone beyond regular crazy into dangerous crazy land.

As I see it, the main mistake that I made was trying to include them as equal partners in the decision-making and really trying to respect their input even though I'm doing almost all the heavy lifting. I made matters worse by not shutting down the BS when it started and getting emotional about it (hard not to when parental health and imminent death are involved).

Given the experience I'm currently having, I would suggest that you stay firm with the core RP principles, especially staying very cool and emotionally detached. You suggested that her behavior was similar to that of an addict. Bear in mind that as the loved of an addict the last thing you want to do is be an enabler. It's painful, but usually you have to draw your supportive line and once the addict crosses it you have to let them "reach their own bottom" even when they are endangering themselves. Doing otherwise only prevents them from reaching the point that may trigger the decision to change their behavior.

NibblyPig · Sun Jan 29 18:09:35 2017 UTC

This isn't really red pill theory, it belong in asktrp

The relationship between you and your sister has nothing to do with red pill, it operates far outside of that. You can't apply red pill to your relationship with your siblings, that's stupid. You can only use it as a frame of reference for her interactions with other people.

Just cut her out of your life and keep her at arms length if she's a problem.

Some people are just dicks, some have sociopathic or narcassistic tendencies.

Coming up next, let's talk about red pill cat game, how do you control your kitty with red pill?

Tittycommander420 · 2017-01-29T06:22:52+00:00

You're all sexist and doomed to a sad life. Treating women like people works much better. Inb4 beta.

Title	Let's talk about sisters.
Author	swifter_than_shadow
Upvotes	30
Comments	29
Date	January 29, 2017 4:59 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5qs5lh/lets_talk_about_sisters/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/lets-talk-about-sisters.40468 https://theredarchive.com/post/40468

Comments