Typed from my phone. And as standard with many of my pieces, will not be around for too long.

Our verbal finess is one of many things things that distinguishes us from our hairier primate cousins, our ability to speak about past and future events and articulate thoughts through words to relay information to others.

If you are a young male reading this, take it as gospel. Only wosh someone had drilled this in me as a teenager, as it has taken me over a decade of being an adult to fully grasp and appreciate, even live by. The lesson is: shut the fuck up.

If you ready to go through the rest of your life as your own man you too must live by this rule.

Seeking validation is in the most beta trait a man can have. Many manage to conjure a facade of alpha and independence infront of females, yet continue to seek validation from their male peers. Which in itself is a paradox because they are now only trying to get laid for the validation from other people.

To keep it short, stop airing what you do, stop telling people about what you did last night. No one needs to know about your hot lay, or your rejections. This is your journey, your persona is exactly who you wish for it to be.

Keep quiet about your grievences. Keep quiet about your achievements. Unless you openly seek help and assistance in what to do next, no one has to know a damn thing.

A story should only qualify for story time when it is irrelevant and historic. When inquired, lie or tell at your discretion. But when you have to tell 5 people about last night's lay, rejection, or interaction with your boss you are subconsiously seeking their approval. You are living for them, and not for you.

Enjoy the anonymity, with it comes great freedom to be you. If you must tell, remember, you are a beta seeking validation, face it and own it. One day you will live without having to tell.