Monday Field Report Thread - Labor Day Edition

TRP_ · 2013-09-02T14:52:59+00:00

Saturday I went to a local concert at a bar. Girl I know ( who was texted me earlier asking if I was going, though I didn't reply) sees me and starts talking to me. She drops the question if we were going to hangout after, I told her yes but she has to drive me home (didnt have a DD).

We leave and soon as she goes to take off I say "wait" and just start making out with her. This girl is pretty hot, use to be top 5 in my high school, but isn't as nearly as attractive due to her whole sea punk/ dark wave style.

I get to my house and a bunch of my guy friends show up also, we are all just hanging out and I finally tell them I'm going to bed, I walk down the hallway and of course this girl follows. She stands in the door frame and texts as I get in my underwear and say " are you going to come in so I can close the door behind you?" She obliges.

I have another from Saturday which ill post once I'm at my pc.

MrFunnycat · 2013-09-02T23:12:16+00:00

Interesting week. Started a new job a week ago today; way better opportunity, pay, schedule, and location. Orientation was on Wednesday. I'm 15 mins early so I go in and sit in the classroom and read through some new employee handbook while dreading the long 8 hour day of doing nothing but listening to bullshit.

Five minutes before the class starts, people start piling in. A tall 8/10 blonde walks in and we make immediate eye contact. She comes and sits next to me. Dangerous ground, I know..but it'll make the day more interesting.

So we flirt a bit and exchange glances, we're "partners" in the lame ass activities, etc. Lunch break. She walks with me over to the parking garage, asking me questions the whole time. Where am I from? Where do I live? Do I have any kids? What kind of music do I like? Where am I going for lunch? I answer her honestly and plainly as she's a coworker and being polite is necessary. Also, I don't wanna start off where I can feel this is heading. I must have come off uninterested, because I was.

I tell her I'm going home for lunch since I live a mile away and I'll see her again in an hour. Break off from her and get in my truck.

Returning from lunch, she's already back in her seat and there's a few minutes before class starts again. She just keeps asking me questions. I keep answering them plainly and not asking her shit.

The day ends a bit early, I get up and walk out quickly. Fiending for a cig and ready to get to the gym and pump after basking in fluorescent light and doing nothing all day. Got the last bball game of the season at 7, and if I hustle I can lift before instead of after. As I'm pulling out of my spot I see her walking past, she waves, I wave. That's it right? Naw.

I get into work Thursday morning and fire up the pc in my office for the first time (they were painting the new digs mon and tues and I had orientation Wednesday so it's my first real day). Enter my pw, open up outlook for the first time and aside from all the new hire bs in my inbox there's one from her at the top. Received 5 mins ago.

Telling me it was nice meeting me, she hoped we could be friends as she's new in town and doesn't know many people. Had her phone # and an invite for drinks Friday after work. I respond to the e-mail pretty much saying thanks and wishing her luck in her new job. Stored the number though..ya never know. We work in different depts/offices and will basically never interact with each other again. I may eventually call her on some rainy day, even though I know it's a bad idea. She's fucking sexy.

So back to Wednesday night. Glad I lifted before the game. Sprained my ankle something fierce on a 2 on 1 fast break (thought I fucking broke it but doc says sprains can be worse than breaks..anyway, fucking ouch). Made both of my free throws and then sat my ass on the bench while the on staff trainer examined the damage. It happened with 3 minutes left in the game. We lost by 4. Pissed off. We woulda won had I been in. And I just started a new job so can't call in and Thursday is my first real day as previously mentioned. Thankfully, a recently acquired plate who's an RN was at the game to cheer me on. I recruit her to go to my dad's for a set of crutches and get a few groceries, some ibuprofen, an ice pack, and a couple of ace bandages. I drive home with my left foot, hobble to the shower. She arrives at my place about 45 mins behind me. Good girl. So I RICE the ankle while she's telling me it's broken and I need to go to the urgent care place or the ER. Nawww, I'm good. Thankfully I'm still carrying insurance from my previous job and I call and leave a message with my GP to get in and get some x-rays during my lunch on Thursday. Pop Predator in the blu ray player and kick back and eat chicken, broccoli, and rice. Bed time. She follows me back.

I clumsily get butt ass naked and she strips down to her underwear, both standard procedure. Lay down and we start fooling around. Start rubbing her, she's rubbing me. Try to guide her head down and she resists. Okay. Pull her panties to the side and rub and make out some more when she stops me. "Is this all you want from me!?"

"What?"

"Sex. We have sex every time we hang out."

"So?"

"Well is it?"

"No."

"So we're together then?"

"Ummmm.. Can we talk about this at a later time?"

"I'm sorry, I'm not comfortable doing all this for you when I feel like you only want me for sex. I'm leaving."

"Okay. Bye?"

She hastily gets dressed and storms out. Making sure to slam my bedroom door and the front door on her way. I don't budge. Hope she locked the door cuz I'm not getting up.

Five minutes later, as I'm dozing off, the text assault begins. I put my phone on do not disturb and crash out. Wake up Thursday to a dozen or so texts. No replying. Bad girl, unacceptable behavior.

I go to work. Around 9am the texts start again. She says she's sorry now and she knows I'm a good guy but she just can't let herself get hurt anymore like she has in the past.

I finally reply (shouldn't have). "Sounds like I'm being blamed for others' behavior. I'm not okay with that. This is over. Too many red flags popping up. Be well, [name]."

Oh boy. The onslaught continues. I never reply again. She calls. Crying (fake crying?) on the voicemail. I can't believe I fucked this up, blah blah blah. Give me another chance you won't regret it. BPD fo sho.

So, fast forward to Saturday night. I'm out with a couple of buddies and one of their long term gf's and some of her friends. Karaoke night. I'm on some nice painkillers for the ankle/foot so I get loose pretty quick. You get lots of attention doing Dynamite Hack's rendition of 'Boyz in da Hood' on crutches. Fun stuff. Anyway, who walks in? Yep. Her. Prob found out through mutual friends we were up there. Was thinking someone probably tagged me on a Facebook check in but naw. Icy stares from her, distance kept by me. So I end up wrecked and not driving due to drunkenness and injury.. So instead of tasking my buddy who picked me up with driving me home -- he lives in the other direction and it's late and he's drunk-- I finally approach the plate (bad idea, but I was thinking with the little head..I blame the whiskey) as the evening is winding down and ask if she'd give me a ride since I'm on her way home. I also tell her she's welcome to stay with me as I know she's drunk too and her place is a good distance away. She accepts.

Bring her home, fuck her brains out. All is well. Until Sunday morning. She had the regret in her body language immediately. I was up cooking eggs and getting ready to head to the gym when she got up (about 10:30).. She walks in and stands there.

"Good morning, want some eggs?"

"No, I'm fine. What is this?" One hand on her hip, the other placed on the counter. Aggressive posture.

"What is what?"

"Ugh. I can't believe I let you do this to me." She storms out. I head to the gym after eating. Phone stays in the truck while I lift, it's me time.

Return to the truck after a decent enough bis/tris session considering the ankle, expecting 20 texts. Nope just one:

"I realize you were drunk last night but to lie to me and expect me to sleep with you. Wow so wrong. I don't deserve this and we're not friends. Goodbye."

No idea what I lied to her about, I don't respond. Haven't heard from her since. I've not yet been charged with rape and today's my first day off crutches. Kind of a weird week. Fucking women man, shit. Bout to grill some chicken and chill out with a 2 month old plate, get a blowjob and turn in early ready to head back to the grind tomorrow. Sure was short for a three day weekend, but they always are. I miss leg day already, doc says 6 weeks but I'm thinking 3. Godspeed, gentlemen and happy Labor Day! Until next time.

RedditRebirth1 · 2013-09-02T19:48:45+00:00

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xaxr · 2013-09-02T15:15:04+00:00

Got fired from my job on Friday and camped out with my family all weekend. I challenge someone to give a shittier FR than that.

puck_mar1n · 2013-09-02T15:02:50+00:00

Thursday I had a date with the 22 year old I talked about in last week's field report. We just went to the local bar for a few drinks. Nothing super exciting and after getting to know her a bit better I found myself becoming less and less interested.

Eventually a friend of her's shows up and joins us. She's super cute and it seems like I have a lot more in common with her than I did with my original date. Eventually my original date leaves to go to the WC and get another drink. I use this opportunity to exchange numbers with the friend and have something set up with her later this week.

Things do get a bit interesting when an annoying male friend of the two ladies shows up. He's no threat - he's just annoying. He continually tells stories from his job which aren't appropriate on any level. Literally he just won't stop so at one point I turn to him and say "Could you just shut up for a bit. We're not interested in hearing about how you mistreat patients (he's a nurse)." He gets huffy, walks away. The girls laugh and thank me for getting rid of him.

Saturday I had a date with one of my plates. Just dinner/drinks. Again nothing super exciting to report. Eventually ended up back at her place and stayed there until after breakfast on Sunday morning.

kingoftheheap · 2013-09-02T16:38:47+00:00

On Saturday night I went to a lock and key dating event at a local club. This place has an all female wait staff and the bartenders are not only hot but all wear corsets, so I'll definitely be going back here for the views.

Anyway, these events all women get a lock and all the guys get keys, and you have to find your matching lock and key by talking to as many people as possible.

I arrived a bit early and found a small group to talk to before heading into the event room. There was a girl my age, plus her best friend and best friend's mother, and a guy in his 50s. The ladies ask all about what we do (I say I make sure the computers work so the scientists can do science or cure cancer - just testing out this answer). The older guy says he does all kinds of research and spends lots of time telling us about it. Yawn. 50 year old mom tells me and the older guy she's going to use the bathroom and asks if we would watch her drinks. I say no and tell her I'm going inside, and then I go inside leaving him with the drinks. (This reminds me a young intern at work asked me to watch her drink while she went to the bathroom despite the table being filled with coworkers. I told her no and she pouted).

The girl I'm into talks a bit about work but hasn't told us what she does yet, when she mentions that a cop drove her to work during the blizzard I correctly guessed that she worked at a hospital which surprised her.

Heading into the event I approached the first women sitting inside and introduced myself, they made some small talk about the event and asked if I'd ever gone to one of these before, which I hadn't. They'd gone to a few. This seemed to be a common theme for many women there. As I tried one of their locks I had to inform her there was a key broken off in it and she would have to get a new lock (this happened to a bunch of women throughout the night.

Talk to a few other hot chicks, others not so hot and possibly a feminist who thought the whole idea was cliche and just made for easy pickup lines. Yes, that would be the point my dear. Why did you come if you were just going to complain about the very premise of the party?

I head over to check out the appetizers and the girl from the beginning is there looking at the food. She asks me if I see onions in it because she's allergic. I say I don't know but I'll try one, I do, didn't taste any. She tries one and before eating it tells me to sue someone for her if her airway closes up (because surprise, she's a nurse). I kind of stare at her blankly and then say "No, but I'll call 911 for you." I saw her shortly after and asked how the airway was, all good on that front.

A really hot chick showed up with her Asian friend so I approached the Asian who was not in conversation and got to know her. She was in town visiting her friend (who it turns out is Brazilian, big surprise there). We talked about my having lived in Asia and what she thinks of the city here, then introduced me to her Brazilian friend, who it turned out was hosting her while visiting for 3 weeks. I've been learning salsa and danced some with them once the DJ came out. Lots of guys were all over the Brazilian chick, I even watched one step forward to push her back into a wall between 2 tables to box out a guy who was also waiting to talk to her (this guy had terrible BO, looked to be from India or some country where that possibly may not be so important. Who comes out looking to meet women smelling like that?). She removed hands pretty quickly which was definitely interesting to watch. I kept dancing with the 2 of them for some time and the guy who had boxed her was to my right but I ignored him and he made no move (intimidated by dancing prowess??) despite being taller and better looking than me.

As the event closed I got the nurse's number before she left, then invited the Brazilian and Japanese girl back to my place for drinks so the Brazilian could meet my Brazilian roommate, but they told me they were going to meet a friend for dinner so I wished her luck with law school and told the Japanese girl to enjoy the rest of her trip. Here I feel like I could have done more to get myself in there, maybe invite myself along "Oh I'd love some food, I'm starving!" but this was more a case of staircase wit than anything else.

I plan to call the nurse tonight to ask her out this weekend.

notaPUA_yet · 2013-09-02T18:05:38+00:00

Saturday, went to a fun club where they play mashup songs. I have been really working at sober game, which has been challenging, but rewarding.

I walk in, order a red bull scope the crowd. Open the first hot girl I see and make a point to leave. For me this was huge because it did two things: 1) established the tone for the night that I wouldn't be scared of approaching hot girls 2) maintain abundance mentality that there a lot of girls

Although I'm still working on physical escalation, I know I can dance well by myself and grinding with a girl.

I made the focus of the night having a metric fuckton of fun. BE THE GUY AT THE PARTY THAT IS HAVING THE MOST FUN. Bitches automatically flock to you! Several times I had girls come up to me and grab be to start dancing. Which only makes me wish I had been even more aggressive. A few times I was dancing with a girl when some guy would come over and be like wtf dude, this is my gf. The girls are drunk and just engaging in their biological imperative to ride the most confident cock.

The hottest girl of the night was a blonde (9) who was super into me, given that she would come up to me whenever I danced through her area. Every physical approach I made she was drawn to but would back off with a guilty look on her face. I assume this was because of a bf. Had my game been better, I would have at least k closed her.

Anyway, ended up dancing with about 8 girls, which was a new record for me. All in all, I'm really finding my way in dancefloor game, where body language, confidence, and eye contact are of the utmost importance. Now I have to push the sexual aggression a little more.

HansJuan · 2013-09-02T14:38:20+00:00

Isn't labor day like the first of may in the entire world?

JamieValentine · 2013-09-02T15:17:51+00:00

Friday Night:Did way too much coke, then went sarging - got rejected at least 3 times - didn't care - couldn't feel any AA - or rejection pain or my tongue.

Saturday Night:#Closed a 6 at one of the worst house parties I've ever been to - deleting that # now - just did it to regain some kind of pride for myself.

Sunday: Slept and Slept and Questioned my life, wow, it's been 4 months since I've used anything naughty like that - writing this now - I hope I never touch that shit again.

Title	Monday Field Report Thread - Labor Day Edition
Author	puck_mar1n
Upvotes	15
Comments	34
Date	September 2, 2013 1:19 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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