Night with a "Beta Girl"

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-01-08T18:49:34+00:00

That was a Comfort Test.

You might read some of Rollo Tomassi's writings on it.

This is just as normal as a Shit Test... sounds like you sort of freaked out. (failed)

In the future just give moderate Comfort and be comforted you hold power over her.

It's a GOOD THING when she looks up to you, don't forget that.

Stythe · 2017-01-08T17:56:23+00:00

Seeing that does help give a good, flipped perspective to show you what it looks like from the other end. But it still has the same effect. Bottom line is nobody likes an insecure whiner, men or woman. In her case maybe she was just down and wanted reassurance, but now you know what it looks and feels like. If she gets her cofidence back maybe you'll even see what a slip up looks like and how it is when the other person gets back to normal.

Now imagine if you were always treated like that and everyone around you acted like she did. Eventually it'd go to your head and you'd feel better than you are. This is essentially what's happened to the western woman. It's alpha/ beta on a societal level. Good job on flipping the script though.

Shiva-Lingam · 2017-01-08T18:08:44+00:00

As confidence is a trait that women want to see in men, I think the reaction in women is 10 times stronger than what you felt. You still had sex with her, most women wouldn't have fucked a man after that.

_JustASnowFlake_ · 2017-01-08T22:24:59+00:00

The mistake made is that women are the same as men. They aren't.

That was a comfort test and she is submissive for you.

You got a good thing, just enjoy it while it lasts.

If you haven't already, read the sex god method

rubenbrasil · 2017-01-08T22:15:14+00:00

Not beta, just insecure. Which obviously insecurity is a sign of submissive females and beta males.

TLDR; Give her the good dick. She may be more insecure than your average already insecure chick. She verbally submitted to you and will worship your cock as long as you dont fuck it up.

NightwingTRP · 2017-01-09T00:38:10+00:00

Comfort tests. TRP Field Toolkit Part 3, on the AskTRP Sidebar. The other guy was right, this is a useful FR for newer guys to get a bit of perspective on why betas are hated so much by everyone. That behaviour is fucking annoying isn't it?

harkrank · 2017-01-08T19:30:54+00:00

There is no such thing as "beta" girls. All women are submissive to men and dominant towards whoever they think is weaker than them. The beta is simply a man that has adopted the female mindset.

Ask yourself why you are not comfortable with people being submissive towards you. That is the true role of a woman in the company of a man and if you're reacting like a woman would, then you're the one who hasn't accepted yourself as dominant.

cloudmax40 · 2017-01-08T23:25:20+00:00

This was a comfort test. Women are not children but they are very child-like. They are very emotional creatures. While you should not look for happiness in a woman, women can, do, and should, look for emotional security in men.

Carnal desires aside, and the fact that she will never love you the way you want her to aside... you are both human beings at the end of the day with human needs. Don't be "nice", but do be kind to the women you do fuck.

bigredchewinggum · 2017-01-09T03:44:07+00:00

She was probably saying all of that stuff because she feels low about herself since you're using her as your personal fuck toy.

Deep down this girl probably desires your commitment but she knows she's not worth it. So she keeps fucking you because some attention from you is better than none at all.

The words probably didn't make you feel superior to her. More likely your conscience might have been telling you you're taking advantage of her in this situation and that's what caused you to go soft. You felt sorry for her.

Personally, I'd rather be on the other end of the spectrum and just fuck hot girls out of my league if I want something temporary. Then, they have the option to fuck other guys and I don't have to feel that weird guilty feeling. I also have an excuse to exit the situation and move on to other prospects. That's just me though, I'm sure a majority of guys here don't really give a flying fuck about hurting a girl's feelings like that.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-01-08T23:16:14+00:00

Shitty Comfort tests failed. You destroyed the girl's confidence even more. Next time take charge and tell her what to do. She will fall into line and be a lot happier and pleasant, most likely. Captain Kirk showed us how. Modify it for a plate but the concept is the same.

The good news is she will probably be back for more.

Good FR with an important lesson/perspective that might make some men understand. You can't fuck her if she is on a pedestal, and if you put her way up there she can only look down on you.

MarauderFH · 2017-01-09T01:10:09+00:00

A woman who says shit like this to you is looking for reassurance. Give it to her. She looks up to you and thinks you're awesome. This is literally the opposite of my latest ex and the reason I left her.

Why should I deal with someone who treats me like I'm not the best when other women will treat me like a king.

Arie_R · 2017-01-09T02:34:38+00:00

I'd not have sex with someone who's clearly upset/emotionally troubled. Someone who repeatedly makes such statements isn't a suitable sex partner at that time.

[deleted] · 2017-01-09T03:52:40+00:00

I've been pretty "beta" most of my life.

The first time I got asked out by a girl I was initially sort of into, I said no, for the same reasons.

It's like it primes your brain to be turned off.

WhiteKnight49 · 2017-01-09T05:55:46+00:00

If you keep telling someone they are better than you are, be it verbal or non-verbal, eventually they will start to believe it.

This is true for both genders.

yomo86 · 2017-01-08T18:18:17+00:00

SMV disparity and you are not acting on the whims of her pussy. So naturally she is quite beta.

circlhat · 2017-01-09T00:35:01+00:00

i had this happen , its when girls don't have sexual success they act just like beta males. She is Nice girl(TM) and simply wants you to like her

TryDoingSomethingNew · 2017-01-09T02:50:27+00:00

Well what happened later on?

In a similar situation, I would have salvaged the situation and assured her (a little bit, wouldn't go overboard) that I was attracted to her an d point out several reasons why, regardless if I really though so or not, since this is a FWB type thing.

Play the role you need to play at times. You can't cure someone of their insecurities, but often you can distract them from it and get the train back on the tracks in order to keep the good times going.

NOTE: I do understand your points and can see how your observations ring true.

Kryptic_Knight · 2017-01-09T12:01:37+00:00

Whenever she does this just be a little sadistic. She's a female so Masochism is kinda her thing, but push a little, choke her, tell her to bend over in front of you for no reason whatsoever. Exude dominance, destroy her completely. Its quite fun.

ACaimonLizardPerson · 2017-01-09T01:14:49+00:00

"I'm not trying to humble brag BUT" Yeah, come on dude. This wasn't anything insightful or ground breaking. It wasn't even a good story. It was basically you gloating.

Title	Night with a "Beta Girl"
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Date	January 8, 2017 5:32 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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