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The-Peter-Principle · 2017-07-31T11:03:04+00:00

Good luck buddy. Glad you found someone who is a good fit for you.

Just beware that as sure as day follows night she will begin attempts to manipulate you once you're married or in any long term relationship. If she's thinking about kids she WILL try to make you more beta. It's is inescapable biological hardwiring.

Stick to your principles (frame) and you may just make it through the other side. When the kids get beyond a certain age she'll suddenly be craving the old alpha you back. If you never caved in to her nagging you should be golden.

Frigzy · 2017-07-31T10:52:44+00:00

Thank you guys. When this relationship explodes I'll be back I'm sure, but I actually rationally think this may work. Weird.

I think of it as becoming a top tier performer in any 'dream' activity. When you start out it seems impossible, when you attempt it it seems insurmountably hard. When you learn how to do you it quickly realize you're for the most part clueless and incapable. Yet when you do the work, when you stick to it, when you discipline yourself, when you grind through the months and years of effort, you suddenly find that what you first thought to be impossible has now become attainable.

I'm not in your position yet, but I also believe it's possible.

One could say our Western culture makes it harder, but I disagree. In fact it makes it easier. ~~Our environment~~ unbound hypergamy forces us to be the best man we can be. There simply is no alternative. If you value quality female company, you can not rely on the crumbling archaic structures that allowed former generations of men to slack off and still feel entitled to it. I'm not saying the work itself becomes easier, I'm saying aiming for the top does. The punishment for mediocrity has become a sexual death sentence.

Kidterrific · 2017-07-31T14:33:10+00:00

You should check out MRP. Full of good advice to keep yourself from becoming comfortable, which leads to beta, which leads to the relationship falling apart.

SkorchZang · 2017-07-31T18:07:11+00:00

When a guy simply understands that it's "when it explodes, not if", everything falls right into place. And this "when" may not happen in years and years especially with good "bitch management", so why not enjoy it to the fullest. All the best man!

max_peenor · 2017-07-31T13:59:29+00:00

She had to prove herself in at least 10 different instances to be "worthy."

This just makes me think of someone that puts a revolver to their head and pulls the trigger five times, and since nothing happened, it must be safe to pull it one more time. bam

I am in an LTR

Do what you want to do. Just keep in mind that while she may have graduated to being a serious thing, that doesn't mean you can relax. Even if she stays as you have seen, if you can't maintain attraction, it'll be fucked.

Ainitux · 2017-07-31T11:29:52+00:00

of course it can be done for some time. but she is not yours and she will move on eventually. Until that, enjoy.

NotAnotherSJWAgain · 2017-07-31T23:52:53+00:00

Call us back in 10 years when you have several kids and a mortgage. I sincerely hope you kept your momentum. It's not easy.

whatsthisgarg · 2017-08-01T18:01:50+00:00

Good luck, man. I am twice your age and the story is very, very similar. Almost every detail. I could probably tell you many things that are going to happen to you. Here's just 2 for now:

You say in other comments you're both child-free. Yeah, my woman and I were as well. To the point where SHE recommended a vasectomy when I was in my late 20s. Things change, and while I wasn't really enthused about it, I was okay with it, and a few years later we had a kid. And it was fine.
I think you know this, but you can never relax. A lot of fags on TRP have a real problem with this, and that shows they haven't really internalized the principles. Personally, I don't want to relax, I want to be ON all the time.

I know it's a tiny minority opinion here, but I really think you can have any kind of relationship you want with TRP principles. And I'd go further and say that you CAN'T have a successful relationship of any kind WITHOUT TRP principles.

BestSC86 · 2017-07-31T17:32:07+00:00

This isn't going to end well.....

Clue stuck in the following comment:

"Things got dicey when I had made out with two girls at her house and went to bed with her within 30 minutes after a party"

That will tell you everything you need to know.....

victordmor · 2017-07-31T16:43:52+00:00

Good luck, brother. Congratulations on your achievements.

redpillrobby · 2017-07-31T16:38:54+00:00

Good for you, but don't stop spinning those plates. Or at least still pick them up every once in a while. LTRs last a lot longer, and both parties are a lot happier, when the man still acts like a man (and that means spinning plates/cheating).

Good luck to you.

OneRedYear · 2017-07-31T13:13:54+00:00

Very few men with their shit together go Mgtow. Pay attention mgtow bros. .

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