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[–]InvisibleVisitor16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is actually true; to get over an infatuation, I just force myself to talk to a bunch of different women, even ones I'm not that interested in romantically if I can come up with interesting conversation. Not only that, I find that ever since I started talking to other women, it makes women more interested in me, which is probably pretty obvious to most people here, but it is interesting to see in action.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reduce proximity, meet lots of other women. Problem solved.
[–]captshady2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He then goes home and thinks about her and because he knows he will see her again, thinks of another clever thing to say to her. Repeat for a few days and the next thing he knows, his substantial mental investment in her has resulted in oneitis.
His problem is going home and thinking about her. If he went home, worked on his hobbies, hit the gym, or went out with friends and saw all the other hotties out in public, talked with some of them (not to mention get a number or bang one), she wouldn't have crossed his mind.
[–]hipst0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THIS
I was in in the habitrail for 5 years because of THIS.
[–]swordblade0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Now my question is; how can a married man withdraw attention in order to alleviate mental and physical stress? At times I find myself doing it by accident through methods like gaming or just doing what I want. Unfortunately, the consequences are annoying tests, such as "I don't feel like you love me anymore" and other ignorant comments.
[–]MrsStrom0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can you elaborate? It's hard to tell from your post is she's fitness or loyalty testing you.
If you're applying too much dread, she'll likely give up trying to please you. She'll sound and look sad/mopey when she asks if you still love her. That's a loyalty test. She needs reassuring.
If you've been too... well, I beta, it's a fitness test and you should react accordingly. A good rogering should do the trick.
[–]swordblade0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Okay, for example, last week we rectified the dead bedroom by me removing her from the pedestal and disengaging my focus from her to other areas. However, this cause her on Saturday to hit me with the, "I don't feel like you love me anymore." As a result, I spent the whole day trying to make her feel loved...
Then I ended falling into the same needy trap I always do when I put that much focus out there. I made advances on her which she did not desire because I was giving off a needy vibe by trying to make her feel loved...
So how can I maintain changes with out regression into old habits? These old habits were the major issue between us because I ultimately became blue pill.
[–]MrsStrom0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know what that was, but the next time she says that tell her you can give her all the attention and love she can handle, then take her to Pound Town. Screw her brains out. Don't worry if she's enjoying it or not. Grunt, talk dirty, and pull her hair. When you're done, lay her head on your chest and play with her hair. You'll be killing two birds with one stone. She'll know who's boss and feel safe.
[–]DjBottleservice0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. I just kind of realized where I fucked up on a girl I was wheeling last weekend. Investing too much on just her. Great post, helped a lot :)
[–]Modredpillschool0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Manmore-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Experiencing this shit now, as I've been putting all my time into school and haven't been out much. Fuck semi-attractive chick, give her chlamydia, fuck her friend, she says she's likes me, all is good. Start to go a bit beta, she goes stone cold. No feelings for her what so ever, but now that she doesn't want me anymore I'm starting to feel like shit everytime I think of her.
Logically, I understand this is bullshit. If I could "get her back", I wouldn't want to. So I draw the conclusion it's all about validation. I also know what I must do - fuck other girls. And I remember that these feelings decline heavily, for each new chick I cum over (quite instantly, funny enough).
Yet I fucking feel like shit until I got it sorted out, but atleast I understand it.
[–]Doomsday_-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stocks can go up or down in value; a woman's SMV only goes down.
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