Plate gets into LTR practically a day after I dumped her ass. Decided to confront the guy.

TRPendgame · 2016-12-22T18:19:11+00:00

Lessons NOT learned:

-Keep your evidence on file for worst case scenarios. In this instance you initiated the discourse therefore you opened yourself up. You might as well have painted a bullseye on your chest. The new guy may not care but if he ends it due to your communications she will be pissed at you and may retaliate.

-Women and betas may be good entertainment passively but they are not there for your entertainment. You watch this entertainment on the sidelines...laugh in your head...and move on. What you did was throw popcorn at the beginning of your pre-engineered drama narrative. You could have moved on and washed your hands clean. You have no obligation to another man that's in a LTR with someone you fucked. You should have just accepted this for what it was and move on to bigger and better things. It's not your duty to spread the "truth" or whatever you call your own narrative of reality.

-Not giving you a hard time...but some may agree that you went too far and should have just moved on and focused on getting an upgrade from the plate that went the LTR route or self improvement.

waylandertheslayer · 2016-12-22T18:32:59+00:00

The 'Blue Pill Example' in this post is you. You have a scarcity mentality if you're chasing after every plate like that. What reason do you have for getting involved in the other guy's relationships? I don't know what country you're from, but in the US you can't know if he might not have a gun or something and a short fuse.

Try meditating and analysing your emotions. You're clearly upset or angry if you're going out of your way to track down your ex-plate's new bf, but it doesn't seem like you're aware of it.

I met this girl through a friend of mine who was fucking her at the time. She was pretty thick and so I decided to go for it. Been my plate for a couple of months but felt she did not respect me anymore so dumped her ass.

This is where the story should end. You dumped her because she didn't respect you - that's fair enough - but then why do you care where she goes running for comfort?

I decided to hit up the guy to confront him with the truth, man to man.

Maybe understandable, if you know the guy or want to help him. If it's a stranger, why get involved?

I added him on Facebook and explained the timeline.

No need to be so in-depth. Just tell him that she was sleeping around on the 4th still.

He asked why the fuck he would believe me. I said to him I could send him screenshots that proved my point.

Why do you care if he believes you? He thought you were full of shit because you were acting like an angry ex rather than a cool, collected guy who's fooled around with her.

I explain to him discretely that my needs are currently fulfilled by other women.

Again, if you were really confident and had abundance mentality you wouldn't need to boast about it. A guy who adds strangers on facebook and talks about 'Oh yeah, I'm getting my needs met' sounds like a loser, right?

At this point I just start spamming him with a couple of screenshots that proved my point.

He clearly doesn't want to know, and there's no point telling him. It's a complete waste of time and effort. Go and do something productive instead.

s_sik · 2016-12-22T19:25:38+00:00

The post + comments were a good read, thanks for not deleting.

WeightsNCheatDates · 2016-12-22T18:46:48+00:00

Looks like you're the BP example....

GamerJay423 · 2016-12-22T19:14:07+00:00

It sounds like you're the beta here, man. When you ended things, that should have been the end of all involvement with her (unless you planned on hooking up with her again). Instead, you saw she got into a relationship and decided to go meddling, and acted like a fedoralord in the process. Her new guy doesn't care if you fucked her a day before he did, and he certainly doesn't care if you're fucking anyone now.

I explain to him discretely that my needs are currently fulfilled by other women.

That makes it sound like you're an angry ex trying to prove that you're not bitter, and it makes you sound like a loser.

u/TRPendgame said it best: it isn't your job to spread the "truth" to strangers. Just move on.

PonFarJarJar · 2016-12-22T18:35:07+00:00

LOL yah why should he care, he's banging her and you're not. If you didn't care you wouldn't share. Sorry bro. You can call him a beta, but beta is trying to tank her branch swing. It reeks of weakness and jealous to everyone but you.

Stythe · 2016-12-23T04:02:31+00:00

Not your business. That was stupid on your part.

matthewbroderdick · 2016-12-22T19:27:10+00:00

You are jealous of him because you're still Blue Pill, running on feelings. IDGAF and men with ABUNDANCE mentality don't need to prove they're right. Why would they?

Andgelyo · 2016-12-23T05:22:17+00:00

No need to meddle with peoples' business. Who cares, let the slut and that guy do what they want. You being a dipshit and ruining others happiness makes you look like an insecure, power hungry, asshole.

IVIaskerade · 2016-12-23T12:21:22+00:00

Lessons not learned:

Actually letting go of a plate when you're done

StillHigh09 · 2016-12-23T14:47:34+00:00

Why would you care about a girl,which YOU dumped? It seems like you were butthurt,sorry man.

aanarchist · 2016-12-22T22:26:07+00:00

well, you at least deserve some sort of ribbon for trying heh, lotta guys would probably just cuck him and have a laugh about it.

i had a dude in a similar situation where nutjob ex went full mangina mode on me. i think if there were no manginas left then society could actually make some progress. as sad as it is, it really is the best option to just move on, i've yet to have an experience where a dude i've gone out of my way to help out didn't just have massive cognitive dissonance.

kevin32 · 2016-12-23T01:19:27+00:00

A woman generally won't branch-swing until she's in a solid LTR. And there's a good chance she was seeing both of you in October, getting a feel for his LTR potential while having sex with you in the process.

Some may not get this but I understand you were simply warning him that she had a slutty history and probably wouldn't be good LTR material. I personally agree that men entering a new relationship should be aware, because it would help explain a lot when she cheats or branch-swings and divorce-rapes him in the process.

Whether you dumped her or she left you is up to speculation because we're not certain whether you did this out of concern for him or out of jealousy, but your case would have been much stronger if say, you two were still seeing each other for months into her new relationship.

If you genuinely did it for his benefit, then the Red Pill seed has been planted in his world, even though it was done somewhat forcefully.

pleasehelpkpopme · 2016-12-23T13:13:42+00:00

Why would you waste time fucking a fat chick in this day in age? One they smell like shit, they are ugly, and two they have low self esteem and tend to be crazy. You took a huge risk for no reward. You lowered your own sexual market value if anyone finds out you were fucking a linebacker for the Detroit lions. In addition to rape hysteria.... jesus don't you know how to jerk off?

newName543456 · 2016-12-24T09:31:32+00:00

No good deed goes unpunished.

Moral code is irrelevant when a guy sees a pussy for probably first time in a good while.

Let them go to hell as they please.

freshbassmanman · 2016-12-23T01:10:10+00:00

I had the means to do similar to this a while back to my ex. I took a deep breath and left it alone. What do you gain from it anyway? If I was heading into an LTR, but the girl said "actually Ive been seeing someone but its done now" then I wouldnt actually have much objection, it isnt unusual to be seeing other people before you commit. It's naive to think youre exclusive until you actually put that rule down.

And if the guy contacted me in the way you did, all that would do would make me want to fuck up his face if I met him in the future (no offence). Or, Id just think you were jealous, and Id feel pity for you. In most senses, he has come out the winner here. At least in hs own mind; he probably thinks he got one over you, and you couldnt handle it and went after him in a jealous and sad rage.

Nothing really to gain from this kind of thing, just walk away. I erred on the side of leaving it alone, as you dont want it to escalate when there is zilch to gain from the situation.

Title	Plate gets into LTR practically a day after I dumped her ass. Decided to confront the guy.
Author	DirtyProject0r
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	December 22, 2016 6:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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