Powerful exercise sales people use – Do the thinking and answer the following whys everyday in order to build confidence in yourself.

vwowv · 2020-06-27T20:33:46+00:00

OPs message is good, with one Major caveat. The whys must be via subtext, not verbally. I've noticed anything someone verbalizes cancels the validity. Say you are the #1 Rock Climber in the world. Everyone knows and you have big status for what you did. As soon as said rock climber says "I am a great rock climber" peoples yearning stops. Now it's a static fact instead of a dynamic reality. If you have a big ass dick and everyone in the bar knows it you have endless unspoken status. As soon as it's talked about you transform to a caricature and people get over it, especially if you are the one walking around saying "My dick is so big". It's only when it's not talked about enough and everyone knows is gives you the legend treatment and have legend vibe.

So making her think "This guy is the best guy on the Sexual Market" by actions, by any way other than verbalizing "I am the best guy on the Sexual Market" is the winning move.

OP points out these common key thoughts woman want answered can be conscience in the man's mind. But how do you answer? It can't be verbal, the only way is by example of what you do, and how you act. That's hard to can. Have to be renowned for something and she'd think this guy is the best on the sexual market without saying any words.

I don't love my comment, it isn't as clear as I'd like. Hope it's length helped hammer my thoughts through.

Traubster_ · 2020-06-27T19:59:01+00:00

" ERASE ANY DOUBT OR UNCERTAINTY that you are one of the best choices in the Sexual Market and you provide a valuable service to females and also to find some things that you need to improve. "

That's absolutely terrible advice. Men need to be cognisant that they always need to be working on self-improvement first and foremost or they are doomed to fall into a cycle of mediocrity. The confidence should come from KNOWING you are doing everything you can to be the best version of yourself, and that alone makes you more desirable than 99.9% of people. Not from some misplaced view that they are god's gift to women by the very virtue of having a dick and a pulse.

TheRedPillRipper · 2020-06-27T22:52:48+00:00

The goal of this exercise

First grammar; helps.

resolved and certain about their cause

Sales people are resolved about one thing; selling. Their “why” is money. In The SMP the correlation is sex. Men who don’t bang simply want one thing too.

A STRONG WHY

The strongest “why” is your mission. Want to bang a girl? Make it your mission. Want to make 100k this quarter? Make it your mission. Banged her? Nice. New mission. Banged 10? Sweet. New mission. Made 100k? Great..

Your mission regardless of what it is should be independent of others. It’s solely dependent on you to set your mission. Then achieve it.

Godspeed and good luck!

yomo86 · 2020-06-27T20:23:35+00:00

This sales pitch works only when you have a good product for instance an average car with nice gimmicks and an uncertain buyer. In the SMV you most likely have a shitty product and a very much certain buyer. As plain text this advice is nothing but an encouragement for rationalization.

LiveAFTSOV · 2020-06-28T03:13:32+00:00

Great psychological rewiring technique.

Also reminds me of an old Red Pill tenet "do not give women reasons to avoid sex with you, they will do that on their own."

If fat slobs and ambitionless losers can get laid so can a red piller.

Most of you average TRP nerds watch porn daily, so take a look in the amateur section. 9 out of 10 videos will feature a guy with an out of shape dad bod, or huge gut. Yet he is still fucking. That's your competition and he's getting laid while youre jerking off to it! Come on, if THAT GUY can have confidence that he is worthy of sex than you have no excuse.

Simple but effective post homie.

rockyp32 · 2020-06-28T03:13:04+00:00

I’ve read thousands of posts like this and I’ve wrote a few myself. We all come to epiphanies and think we found the secret! Nah man just gotta do whatever u gotta do. just do it for yourself not some strategy. Just telling your I’m the fucking man everyday makes a difference.

rjb_1990 · 2020-06-27T21:12:06+00:00

I agree with your mindset. Being fixated on females is a problem though. You give a woman power over you by being too fixated on her. How can you be assertive to a female if they already have power over you?

bodyfreeoftree · 2020-06-27T20:55:47+00:00

Internalizing prize mentality and enlighten self interest seem to be the crux of what you're getting at.

Those concepts should lead to a path of self-improvement, and truly accepting and internalizing those concepts will lead to sustained growth and development.

Women are accessories to your life, not the goal of your endeavors. It's best not to use them as some yard stick to measure your ego against

alphakari · 2020-06-27T22:12:45+00:00

· Why playing the love/sex game is funnier and healthier than being alone (for her)?

You think these hoes are single? Most bitches worth fucking ain't alone.

assa_ssin · 2020-06-27T23:28:54+00:00

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assa_ssin · 2020-06-27T19:12:01+00:00

The true magic of the method is in the interactions with the females while trying to close the deal.

Also I have a lot of fun trying to convince women that is their best interest to have sex with me.

You become outcome independent and you see it like a sale and not something personal.

Also you make progress with every interaction and learn new things and try to acquire better services that matter to the Sexual Market Place.

ThePermanentGuest · 2020-06-27T21:07:49+00:00

"You are perfect just the way you are, and there's always room for improvement."

I think we can split OP's advice and the criticism by recognizing one's inherent value while also improving one's social value. Thinking in terms of being the "best" value isn't helpful or necessary. Generic products fly off the shelves daily. They are hardly the best, but they are great options for many. If they focused on being the best compared to brand names, they would fail/never take off.

Believe in yourself, and be confident in yourself, and do not compare yourself to others. You're important, and you're a great option for somebody (but not everybody, and that's ok).

proactive-defense · 2020-06-27T21:43:59+00:00

I see what you’re saying. Self-reinforcing certain frames is useful. But to me, it’s obvious why I’m valuable. I like to take the frame that women are lucky if I bother with them, considering how not worth it they are.

rjb_1990 · 2020-06-27T22:30:47+00:00

I'm a high achieving salesperson I can say that this topic is completely accurate. If I had a nickel for the amount of times that I was uncertain on a cold call and lost a sale I'd be broke. The more certain I am the more sales I close. If a girl was uncertain about us or herself it would completely turn me off and go in the other direction. But the girl should be selling herself not you.

ToraChan23 · 2020-06-27T23:30:40+00:00

Why should we care what’s best for her?

We aren’t the same as salesmen selling a product; we shouldn’t be “selling” ourselves. A woman would willingly buy us on her own fruition if you’re good enough.

Correct me if I’m wrong, but this sounds like you have to convince her that you’re worth her time (lol) rather than have her decide for herself that you are. Some of the most successful products in the world have the fewest amounts of advertising, because they don’t need to be advertised and place under the guise of what’s best for the customer.

If you’re the best, she will erase any possible doubt or uncertainty in you herself without you doing anything besides being who you are.

Title	Powerful exercise sales people use – Do the thinking and answer the following whys everyday in order to build confidence in yourself.
Author	assa_ssin
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Date	June 27, 2020 5:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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