Long story short, I've found myself sexually involved with both butch and feminine lesbians on four different occasions, the first when I was 15. Most recently, a few months ago ( I am 21 now) I dated a girl for 2 years before she came out of the closet and broke up. We kept sleeping together afterwards. Is this unique? The other three girls were out of the closet long before I came along and according to them I was the first guy they had sexually contact with. It's worth noting that while I find this confusing, i find myself very much attracted to many lesbians as well. Sometimes I feel like this is a very strange gender identity issue, does anyone have any insight into or experience with this? Kind of hilarious to admit but this issue has me feeling like a lesbian trapped in a man's body. Any questions feel free to ask I'm happy to talk about this