[rant] My Problems with TRP

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-03-21T23:06:19+00:00

I mean come on guys... man up and put a ring on one of those post-Wall women they need love too.

Stop fat shaming and realize these 40+ women are just special snowflakes needing to be treated better... they are just really angry now because you aren't providing access to what they need and you need to man up and be the White Knight to save her.

Okay... the joke went on long enough... disregard all that.

MattyAnon · 2016-03-21T23:37:03+00:00

Contrary to many of your views, women aren't a hivemind creature based on

Yeah... they are. First and foremost they side with each other over men. The in-group bias of women is provably (as in has-been-scientifically-demonstrated) much higher than it is for men, and the out-group bias of men towards women is also higher than the reverse. (Both sum up to the famous "women are wonderful" effect).

Another point, no one on here addresses flaws in men.

Male flaws are PLENTY well enough covered everywhere else. And I really mean everywhere else. Endlessly. Everywhere. We're not trying to be fair here, we're covering male sexual strategy and that means understanding women rather than criticising ourselves.

Yes, bitches exist

Ah, but it's not just bitches. ALL girls get a free pass through life. They don't work as much or as hard, they have positive quotas galore, everyone believes that all their statements are gospel, noone believes they lie, and when it comes to dating to say that they have it easy is the understatement of the century. They got it so easy that most of them don't do shit other than accept dates with hot guys who take the trouble to both be incredibly attractive and make them feel super comfortable. Spreading their legs isn't exactly effort when it comes to relationships.

And to describe them as emotional terrorists in relationships is hardly an overstatement.

Plus the rules on marriage, divorce and so-called family courts are insane beyond reason.

OP - honestly... fuck you and your equality. Men are unfairly oppressed and women get a free pass at every stage in life. You know how good they got it because of the incredible hamstering they gotta do to try and claim victimhood for themselves.

abdada · 2016-03-21T23:03:51+00:00

You're aware that concern trolling is one of the few things against the rules here, right?

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from_the_ashes_me · 2016-03-21T23:07:40+00:00

Although you're trolling, I'll take a second and answer anyway.

Sure there's some whining on TRP. Have you read any other forums? It's no worse, and perhaps better than some forums in the fact that along with (some) crappy field reports and vitriolic rants, there are true gems of wisdom that any man can use to empower themselves.

The value in TRP comes in encouraging men to be outcome independent. TPR preaches personal growth.
The real message isn't one of anger... unless you're reading a post from someone in the anger stage.

The message is this:

Got shit on by the girl you thought was loyal? Guess what? There is no loyal. Take control of YOUR life. It's NOT about her, it's about you.
When you ingest that little nugget of wisdom, TRP tells you to:

Improve yourself.

Improve your physique.

Improve you social skills.

Improve your finances.

Learn to not put women on pedestals.

AND

Man the fuck up.

Not only does this community tell you what you should be doing, they offer a lot of resources to help you along your way. Like anything else, what you take from it is up to you. Embrace the wisdom, throw out the trash posts.

Sepean · 2016-03-22T00:01:20+00:00

Contrary to many of your views, women aren't a hivemind creature based on sex and hunger, or at least not more than men.

Men tend to, and society expects them to, sacrifice much more for women than women sacrifice for men.

And the idea that women play men to satisfy their need for sex OR hunger, and that being a good little beta who gives her food won't mean she also wants her need for sex covered by the same guy, that's a novel idea that isn't widely recognized. So even if men were "just as bad" as women, that still wouldn't make TRP wrong.

Count 1.

We should stop thinking in such dualities (good vs bad, dark vs light) and understand that every human is a grey mix of good and bad, gender aside.

Of course people are a mix of good and bad, but most people forget AWALT - that women have a set of traits that are very primal to them but that aren't widely recognized. As a result people think women are a very different sort of grey than they really are.

Count 2.

And since you're so hung up on this, yes men have their AMALT too. These are just widely recognized (and criticized). Girls know guys might pump and dump them, but many guys don't know that giving her resources and validation isn't the way to get in her pants.

Seriously, man up and see that most problems in your life are caused by yourself.

Well, last time I checked, TRP was quite adamant that if you're not attractive and can't handle women it is your own damn fault so read the sidebar and man up.

Count 3.

You're out.

jgraham704 · 2016-03-21T23:04:09+00:00

Not a fair assessment at all.

I've been reading TRP for a while, and I can only say 1/2 of it was informational, the other part was just emotional whining.

Can you really make a quantitative guess on this? It sounds like you have a problem with reddit/Redpill, and not so much The Red Pill as a sexual strategy. r/ redpill simply takes posts from any user, and they are voted for or against as those that view it at that particular time. Obviously with this design you're going to get a great mix of posts some bad, some good, some in between. If one man is in the anger phase, he's going to have a different emotional response then someone who has followed TRP for quite some time.

As I see, desperate women turn to radical feminism, and desperate men turn to TRP.

Nice straw man. At this point it's clear you're trolling.

Seriously, man up and see that most problems in your life are caused by yourself.

Straight out of the Blue Pill's horses mouth.

Entropy-7 · 2016-03-21T23:48:07+00:00

In terms of human nature, there is no black and white. There are only tendencies and potentials (qv AWALT).

It is a sociological fact that men create most of the problems in the world. On the other hand, they create about 99% of whatever is worthwhile.

I don't see TRP as being desperation. I started taking the Red Pill before it even had a name (circa 1986). That was not desperation on my part or a bunch of whining: it was a decision to change my life and live it on my own terms while improving myself.

I am not a misogynist; I happen to think that women are rather nifty. The fact remains that some are quality (even quasi-unicorns) and the rest a dumb bitches that I have no time for.

Title	[rant] My Problems with TRP
Author	SigmaQ
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Comments	20
Date	March 21, 2016 10:47 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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