80-90% of communication is non-verbal.
Humans are visual and react the strongest to visual stimuli.
There is no scientific basis for free will. Your personality is a result of how other people reacted towards you in the past, especially how they reacted to you during your important developmental years.
People react differently towards you, and assume different things about you, depending on how you look like.
They judge you in a split second before you've been able to speak, Just LOL at thinking you can create a different impression by means of introduction, the base level halo effect is always there regardless of whatever you do.
This judgement is felt, more than heard. This is why what others say about you is largely irrelevant, they may not say what they think about you, they may not even be consciously aware of how they feel about you and thus how they subsequently react towards you. But their reactions inevitably shape your personality and restrict your means of fulfilling your needs.
Changing your looks is the most efficient way to change your personality and behavior.
The HALO effect is literally 50-60% of the reason for my looks obsession.
There is science to suggest that the better looking you are, the more human people percieve you to be. Dogs use smell to identify other members of their species, dolphins use sound whereas humans are visual. There is a preprogrammed archetype that people use subconsciously to identify other members of their own species, the marquardt mask is the closest approximation of this that Ive seen of this thus far.
Your Looks≈Your Personality
Your entire personality and the way that people react and behave around you, your value to other people, is directly proportional to how you look like. AND THIS GOES BEYOND ATTRACTION. "Should I trust this person"? "Should I take him seriously"? ETC along with many more complex emotional interpretations that people make regarding others based on how they look like.
The range of behavior of a tall, good looking guy with a head full of hair is going to be much broader than that of a short, ugly bald guy. Not because the bald guy doesnt want to display a broad range of behavior but because people in his environment RESTRICT him from doing so by means of, mostly, non verbal communication.
Take a look around you, and ask yourself if the overwhelming majority of people around you dont have perfectly congruent personalities with their respective looks. People make a lot more sense when you judge them based on how they look like. The inner is a reflection of the outer just as much as the outer is a reflection of the inner.
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