Summary: White knights, betas, male feminists, whatever - remember that some of them just get their rocks off by having a woman dominate them.
I posted this in the "Treating Women Badly" thread, but this was just too absurd not to have its own post.
This is the Internet. People you're arguing with will say all kinds of things. I'm always kind of in awe at things like that guy with the "Manboobz" blog, or white knights, or why guys sit there and defend women even if they're acting like total lunatics. A lot of times people post here and seem to think they're brainwashed, or still "plugged in," or whatever. I thought that for a long time, too.
But I want to point out something that's probably equally common. Some guys just get sexually aroused by having a woman boss them around and treat them like crap.
Exhibit A is this guy "MuzakNinja" posting here in the sub. Here he is explaining the Red Pill, and how to be a real alpha and a real man:
"I'm also kind of sick of TRP acknowledging that alphas are leaders while shunning any concept that could be construed as good leadership. There's being a man, and then there's being a fucking animal. Reality is going to come crashing down hard on a lot of these kids when they get older and find themselves sad and lonely with no heirs and no one willing to take care of them in their old age. If getting laid is the only value you take from TRP, you're doing it wrong.
Time will reveal the difference between the posers and the true leaders. Then again, I suppose making a beast out of yourself gets rid of the pain of being a man."
And here he is a few days earlier, posting on a thread he submitted in the "cuckold" subreddit where he submitted a picture of his wife holding another man's dick, while his dick was locked inside some weird metal cage:
"I take pride in being a good husband! We've been playing with chastity for about 5 years now, on and off. Over the past year we've really progressed more and more into femdom in general, and have finally moved into cuckolding in the past few months. The longest I've been locked up has been three months, but we find it works better for us if I'm just locked when we aren't together. It's easier for her to tease me that way. She also pegs me and is dead set on making sure I can orgasm anally."
So this "alpha" and "true leader" gets off sexually on (a) "femdom," (b) his wife locking his dick inside a metal cage so he can't have any kind of sexual activity, (c) his wife forcing him to be celibate for months at a time, (d) his wife openly cheating on him in front of him, and (e) his wife fucking him up the ass with a dildo.
Now, I have nothing against people's fetishes. Whatever floats your boat, that's great. But I'm betting most of you didn't come to this sub to learn how get a woman to lock your dick in a cage and fuck you up the ass with a dildo. Yet here this guy is, posting away and giving people advice on how to be a real live alpha male.
So when you're out there on the Internet, arguing away about beta males and white knights and why they do what they do, or fighting with some idiot who just keeps saying "yes mistress" to every crazy thing a woman says, or listening to advice from random people, just remember: this isn't an uncommon thing.
Cuckolding is the second most searched for porn term:
http://www.playboy.com/articles/why-do-men-fantasize-about-wives-cheating
And 53% of men have fantasized about being dominated sexually:
http://www.businessinsider.com/which-sexual-fantasies-are-normal-2014-10
So a lot of the guys you're arguing with, or possibly even taking advice from, are sexually turned on by having a woman treat them like total crap. They aren't "plugged in." They WANT women to be in charge of them. They WANT women to fuck them up the ass. That's what gets them off. That's the society they want, and the world they want to live in. And that's fine, I guess. But you ought to think about whether you want to live in their world, too.
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