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[–]1DRMMR763 points4 points5 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
In theory, I am totally fine with going the old school route of waiting to have sex...if her sex has value. Meaning very low N count or virgin, tons of other redeeming factors, ect. Waiting and giving her the attention of dates and the like is paying a price. The more you do, the higher you're paying. Again, in theory, that is fine if her pussy is worth that high price.
The problem is when it's not and they still they can drive that bargain. And in this modern feminized era of the sexually liberated woman, the chance of finding a girl who's worth that price is next to nothing. Maybe, just maybe, if you happen to stumble upon some 18 or nearly so country girl in some small town of 400 people where her father still calls the shots and the social shame of everyone she's ever known calling her a slut of she sleeps around keeping her from doing so. That might be worth the price of going the traditional dating/courtship route. But again, these days even those girls have iPhones and can take a quick trip to the next county on some friday night after she's done cheering for her high school team and gobble miles of cock. So the chances of even finding a girl like that are slim. Pretty much unrealistic for most of us unless you stumble into it.
For every other chick, they are trying to drive up the price of pussy that is not worth it. Pussy is like a car; it loses half of its value the moment it leaves the lot for the first time. It's almost as if there is a reason the female body developed to have a hymen. As all TRPers know, every cock knocks down that value, just like a used car trading hands and racking up miles. You wouldn't spend full retail value on a 2001 Toyota Tercel with 188,000 miles on it and 2 accidents on record. Why the fuck would a guy be willing to spend top dollar on a woman that is in the same shape? And yet, the closer they get to the wall and wanting to settle down, they all seem to get it in their heads that if they just pretend their body, mind, and emotions are just as brand new and unblemished as they were when they were a young girl, guys will be willing to play along and spend full price for them. And unfortunately, with as many BP guys as there are, too often they are right.
Online dating is a pure haven for those types. Single moms abound. Jaded 29 year old career women with pics of them doing shots at a party in high school trying to seem like they're fun and still good looking but with "DON'T MESSAGE ME IF YOU WANT SEX. I EXPECT A REAL MAN TO WINE AND DINE ME" all over their profiles. Never mind the fact that the same old part pics they use to make it seem like they are still young and hot reveal the fact that they were very likely party sluts in high school and college and have a 20+ N count. Online dating is where they know the desperate guys are, so they flock their trying to cash in their last few chips.
[–]TheDialecticParadox0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I disagree. A woman who's a virgin or with little sexual experience doesn't make her any more sexually valuable. If she's young and attractive, it doesn't matter how many cocks she's ridden, in fact, that will probably make her a better fuck. But I agree that online dating is just a disgusting perversion for ugly, fat, irresponsible woman to receive plethora of validation from men they have no intention of meeting.
[–]SexistFlyingPig[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honest marriages are messy, with ups and downs. One of the things that drives men here (it drove me here) is when you find yourself in a dishonest marriage that ends in divorce. You want to know why it ended in failure.
There are plenty of things that would cause a legitimate divorce, but being angry with your partner isn't one of them. A marriage is supposed to be a different level of relationship. A woman who has a low partner count can still put in the necessary work to make a relationship work, but statistically speaking, a woman with a high partner count simply won't. She'll say "I can find someone else." for even small issues.
The woman in the original post went on dates with 45 different men over 2 years. She is self-described "somewhat attractive" and "fit". So the problem here isn't that men don't find her attractive, it's that she doesn't find the ones who will go out with her attractive. Let's say she's a 7. She's dated 7's, 8's, 9's, and maybe had a ONS with a couple of 10's. Rest assured she's never spread her legs for a 1-6. The problem now is that she doesn't find 7's or 8's attractive anymore because she's always mentally comparing them to the 9's and 10's she's had. They just don't give her the tingles. She's an alpha-widow.
Men and women are COMPLETELY different in this way. When I was a teenager, I dated a girl who was awesome. She was smart, thin, pretty face, and huge boobs. I mean ridiculously smart. Hu-u-u-uge boobs, but still thin. Sex whenever I wanted it. Everything I could have hoped for. My current GF has big boobs, but none of the other characteristics of that teenage romance. Do I have a problem being interested in my current GF? No, not at all. She treats me well, and likes sex as much as I do. It's great. Is she smart? Not really. Is she thin? No, but since 'thin' isn't my type, this isn't a big deal. Does she have big boobs? Yes. Well 1 out of 3 ain't bad. I'm happy. If she found someone better than me tomorrow and ended the relationship, would I be wrecked? No. I'd be sad, but not wrecked.
I'm rambling at this point.
TL;DR: Partner count in women matters a LOT. More is worse.
[–]The_BeardedGentleman -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think it comes from how you can sort of mold a virgin into the woman you want them to be, without all the baggage, and the severe lack of trust because shes got a lot of "experience" in life.
[–]TheDialecticParadox0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahh I see, I never thought of that. Relatively new RP'er here. Thanks for the perspective.
[–]alpha_buffalo6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She can hang out with lots of women who don't want to have sex with her. So why a guy? I think she has become addicted to the attention and validation
I'm dealing with too many girls who are like this.The key is to have the abundance mentality. Escalate and if she is not party, exit immediately. Attention is not for free.
[–]SexistFlyingPig[S] 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. This is probably the biggest blue pill mistake that gets made: hang out with her to get close to her, and maybe someday she'll like you enough to have sex with you. You end up giving your attention away for free, when there's probably someone out there who will reward that attention with something that you actually want.
[–]u-r-silly2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just want to text chat and chat online You should message me if "you are a good-looking generous gentleman"
This place is a goldmine. If that wasn't for the occasionnal laugh and the educated women I can find on it, I would be out. (mind that the userbase changes a lot on other sides of the world.)
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Link her up with this thread and ask her to come spin her hamster for us haha :)
[–]redlightspecial 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She sounds like a tired, old, used up slut.
Oh, and she's a "regular" posting with a throwaway, how delightful.
I'm sure her forthcoming dates and fuck buddies will provide her with a lot material to regale the other post-wall slags, losers and chumps in r/OkCupid
Just a dumb bitch that doesn't know what she wants, and thinks she can fuck her way to finding it out.
[–]cmiovino2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You also have to wonder if she was alpha widowed ~2 years ago. Can't find someone better than that. Life is now fucked for her.
[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Put the summary up top. Follow the format instructions in the announcement.
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[–]KylarSovari-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Slightly related question for online dating—has anyone had success passing the "maybe" shittest? I couldn't find anything on it. I've had some limited success with "You seem interesting. Let's go out." And variants, but often I get "maybe" as a response or something similar.
How do I convert this to a "hell yes?"
[–]The_BeardedGentleman -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I typically just respond to a maybe with "Ok Bye".
[–]genericmetahub-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why does she want to date a guy without sex?
because she wants a relationship you dense motherfucker.
She can have a relationship with anyone. Why a guy? If you buy into the feminist propaganda, then the only difference is the plumbing. If she's not into playing with the plumbing, then why a guy?
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