A man who can control his sexual urges is a man who will have an unfair advantage over other men when it comes to women. He will be able to dominate his woman and get her to submit to him with a higher success rate. While other men are begging their wives for sex and doing "choreplay" to get her to finally give him the pussy, your woman is trying to be on her best behavior so you can reward her with the dick.

"Reward her with dick? Women don't like sex like us men do."

Women love sex. Maybe even more than men. They can have multiple orgasms in one sex session. They can have orgasms through clitoral stimulation. They can have orgasms by penetration. While men are trying to get one orgasm, women are having 3 or 4 orgasms to your one.

This is why I don't subscribe to the "pump and dump" mentality. If you fuck women just to get yours, sex will be more of a chore for her and it will be easy for her to withhold sex from you or even cheat. A lot of men get cheated on, not because they're emotionally unavailable like women say. No, it's because men don't focus on giving their women intense sexual pleasure, but instead have the mentality "you better get yours before I get mine".

When women enjoy sex with you, that pussy will be available to you when you want it, how you want it. The more intense the enjoyment, the more you, as Alan Roger Curie says, "put your stamp on her". Out of the many body counts she may have, you will be part of her Hall of Fame. This gives you access to that pussy even when she's married (I'm not saying be a home-wrecker, but I'm just saying that you will be the guy she can't forget).

I say all this because women play games with the men they get into relationships with. Once they're in a committed relationship, they withhold sex to get what they want. If your dick game is immaculate and your sexual discipline is off the charts, she's only hurting herself by withholding sex.

"Why not just beat off or cheat?"

These are options, but men who cheat on the women they love beg these women for forgiveness. Men who are the authority figures in their relationships don't beg for forgiveness from the actions they take This is why you don't want to take actions that will get you begging for sex or begging for her forgiveness.

Sexual Discipline Workout

How long can you go without busting a nut? A day? A few days? A week? A month? The reason why women seem like they can go forever without having sex is because they either masturbate, they're fucking someone behind your back, or they can go longer than you. If you can only go a day without sex or having an orgasm, it will seem like women are the most sexually disciplined people on the planet. However, when you can go weeks or months without sex, and she can't even last a couple of days, it will feel like your girl is a nympho.

The "No PMO (porn/masturbation/orgasm)" Workout

Going for a certain period of time without having an orgasm is not easy. You have people who can go without an orgasm for weeks, months, and sometimes a full year. I am not saying stop having orgasms for this long, but when you can go without having sex for weeks or even a month, you tend to have the upper hand because you have the power to withhold sex from your girl. Men who can go without sex for long periods of time are more bolder in how they deal with their women. They're not afraid of "rocking the boat", losing their "pussy privileges".

I suggest keeping track of your workouts. Track how many days you either have sex or masturbate to get an orgasm. Do this for a full year. As the months go by, the amount of orgasms you have should decrease.

The "Porn Without Masturbating" Workout

This is very simple, but it will drive you crazy if you use porn to masturbate. All you do is watch porn and not stimulate yourself in anyway to have an orgasm. This includes fucking after you watch porn. Do this for about an hour. Your dick might be so hard to the point it feels like it's screaming at you. Don't give in.

It's easy to not have sex when you don't have a strong stimuli activating those urges. Your woman (or a woman you want to fuck) may dress very scantily-clad around you to get you in the mood. If she's withholding sex, she may try to tease you so you can give in to give her what she wants.

If you can go without busting a nut after watching an hour of porn, your woman's efforts might not be so effective.

The first day of doing this will feel like torture. You may even give in due to how intense your erection will get. Keep trying this exercise until you can sit there watching porn without having to bust a nut.

The "Edging" Workout

"Edging" is when you are at the brink of having an orgasm and you just stop. This exercise is the most advanced because you are actually about to cum, but you stop sexually stimulating yourself. It can be like a train suddenly stopping after reaching top speed. If you can edge without busting a nut (not even a drip of cum seeping out) your sexual discipline is on the advanced level and your woman will be at your mercy. You can have sex and last longer. The moment you feel you're about to bust, you can stop and let things "reset". After doing this a few times, you can potentially give your girl multiple orgasms to your one orgasm each time you have sex. Not only that, but when you do finally cum, it will be intense. Just in case you thought you're doing all this for nothing.

To do the workout, watch porn, beat off until you're about to cum. Then simply stop beating off. Do this stop-and-go edging for about an hour. Once you're done, quickly find something non-sexual to do. You don't want to feel you have "unfinished business" being that you didn't get to bust a nut.

When You Can Control Yourself Sexually, You're Not Easily Phased By Women

A lot of men kiss women's asses because they don't want to ruin their chances with these women. However, when you're not thirsty for sex, and have the power to control yourself even at the brink of orgasm, dealing with women becomes a whole lot easier. Your whole attitude will be the opposite of a thirsty dude and you'll come off as very Alpha. You will notice women being more submissive to you. When your woman gets angry with you, she won't use sex as a reward/punishment. She will only be hurting herself playing that silly game.

What are your thoughts?