http://redditlog.com/snapshots/664713

Thought this was interesting as a demonstration of the difference in the response between words and actions

We have a guy who

  • posts to ladyboners

  • aggressively goes after this woman

  • great at sex (so obv. lots of experience)

but

  • tells her he's shy and self-conscious

  • tells her he has low self-esteem

  • tells her he doesn't get enough attention

Pretty much the game here from this guy's perspective is to tell her he's giving her what she believes wants while actually giving her what she actually wants

It turns out he's married and has a child, which, well, there you go