I have been recently seeing alot of posts whining about having to actually put effort into getting girls. Holy shit, stop the presses, you mean to tell me you actually have to put effort into things to get what you want? That's fucking crazy right?

Alot of people act like what I like to call "sideline crybabies" aka pessimists, quitters, losers and the just plain lazy. They are the ones who use words like "Thirsty" to shame guys who try to get what they want out of life. Notice how a guy is never "Thirsty" if he successfully gets a girls number. But as soon as he fails, it is OH that thirsy motherfucker, beta cuckold loser! Like how about you try talking to people instead of just playing goalie for your ego?

And people like this are usually the result of feeling massively under powered and saying things like "oh the game is rigged so I am not playing" or "why should I put so much effort into getting this girl, while she just sits their and does nothing!". Here's why.

I don't know why but people seem to forget that not only do good looking men have an easier time with women but an easier life in general. Have you ever heard of the "Halo Effect"? People tend to treat attractive people wither man or woman better. Now wither a woman gets better treatment then a man for being attractive is debatable but frankly pointless.

Because once again people get all butthurt about the power disparity between sexes and etheir give up or just chronically make circle jerk posts about how terrible women are.

Things to remember when you get butthurt:

"No one cares". Absolutely no one cares. You can thrash around in your room. Burn all your Yugioh cards. Even break your gorgeous 4k monitor that your Aunt Louise got you for your birthday. Once again no one cares. And you shouldn't ethier. Life is tuff and not just in dating. We are rarely just handed things. And I also rarely see posts here about guys whining about how they didn't get a job and how their employers standards are too high so it is not even worth it so they are just gonna go MGTOW and live in a garbage can. Because for some reason it is okay to do the same with women?

Yes dates are like job interviews, Yes getting a girls number is like making a sales pitch at a job. And Yes dating is like having to do all the work while your boss just sits their waiting to find the best employee possible. Most people here spend sooooo much time thinking about and writing about and planning on how to get women. It is dare I say like a FULL TIME JOB!?!?!! So treat it like one.

Be better then the next guy who wants that position. Be prepared to not get that call back or an email given out going unreplied too. Deal with it. No one cares and you shouldn't etheir.

Lesson Learned: Don't be a sideline crybaby who is perpetually climbing victim mountain for the rest of his life.