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Something I've noticed from hanging out with 2 unemployed buddies: one attractive, one not. Girls say different things to them. Why?

trpcounselor

October 1, 2014
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Title Something I've noticed from hanging out with 2 unemployed buddies: one attractive, one not. Girls say different things to them. Why?
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trpcounselor

Upvotes 12
Comments 21
Date October 1, 2014 6:18 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2hyvmj/something_ive_noticed_from_hanging_out_with_2/
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[–]Iupvoteforknowledge 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Spreading alpha seed I guess.

[–]noteventrying 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Better looking people are treated better than normal or bad looking people.

A lot of people here will tell you looks dont matter but theyre simply wrong.

[–]arcanehobb 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with this post. Most of those post are talking about how only women treat attractive guys better when men do the same thing. Attractive people on average are going to treated better than the rest of the general population. Heck, a man's more likely to put up with an attractive woman's shit than an ugly woman's.

[–]whystoppnow 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hot girls tend to associate attractive guys as wanting sex more than unattractive guys. They only see 10% of men in their reality the rest are just noise. And because of that I feel like they backward reason that unattractive guys don't or more likely shouldn't want sex with lots of hot girls.

Just saying if you're unattractive friend answered the "what kind of job do you want" question with "The job with the most hot girls" the girls would be disgusted: "How dare this genetically deficient beta want casual sex!? Know your place!"

[–]bbidabbong 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You are not over looking. Girls see everything through sex. If they like him or think he is sexy and they want to fuck him, they will help him, regardless of the fact that other guy is maybe much better for that position. They simply do not see things that we see. They see everything through dick and pussy. Their horizons end there. Other guy can be experienced, great working ethics, professional, and loyal, but she will help the better looking guy.

That is why they are women and why many men consider them disgusting. That is why we threat them like are 10yr old sister. Besides other reasons.

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[–]bbidabbong 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No. This is where man differ. We do not see everything through sex. Let me explain.

If I had to employ someone, what I would be looking at? Qualifications, experience, working ethics. I would look how much I can believe to this person and how loyal is he. Depends on the position, I would look how he gets along with people. I would try to see and tested him can I take his word for granted. And so on.

Women? I would bet my left ear that they would simply employ better looking or more charismatic guy. Of course, as professionalism goes up, woman do as well, so from female CEO or similar I would expect less shit then from local lounge bar manager.

Another example is politics. Last year in my country, won a guy who was far the worst candidate of them all. But he was Clooney - looking, really handsome. Nobody with sane mind would vote for him. However, statistics later showed that 93% of women voted for him. Later, he did really bad and dstroyed half of fucking country.

You are right, majority of us see everything through sex. But if a men can not be more then that, if he have no rational judgement, it is not because of his nature, it is because he failed. When a women is irrational, it is because it is her nature.

I do not find this insulting or sexist for woman. But there are reasons why in all positions where you actually make decisions you will find man.

[–]4io85 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Alpha goggles.

They see your attractive friend as a human being and do what you do for people. They treat the way you treat a friend.

Your unattractive friend is not really a full human being in their eyes.

[–]1cover20 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They wouldn't do it for other women. I think the "unattractive" guy gets the default treatment they would also give other women. Distant, nonsexual.

The "attractive" guy gets special, better treatment.

If the unattractive guy somehow turns the girls on through game or other means, he can probably get the attractive guy treatment too. But currently they don't notice him.

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[–]1cover20 -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This seems right to me. I believe shit tests. I don't believe female camaraderie.

[–]trpcounselor[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

how do you see this as a shit test? I'm VERY curious

[–]1cover20 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's explained to another guy. Why would a woman you have no history with try to set you up with other women, women they are competing with in the sexual marketplace no less? They want to see what you'll do. One way to enter the shit test is to try to prove yourself by getting that other woman. That's OK if you want that challenge. But it's not the only way forward, you can deflect it, laugh at it, or turn it back on her. Because you don't have to jump over hoops for her or prove yourself to her.

[–]trpcounselor[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good explanation.

Coincidentally (as posted elsewhere) my friend just routinely turns it into a joke, as if it's hilarious this girl thinks he should work some place "because of the oooohhhh so hot girls" who work there.

[–]trpcounselor[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

it's a shit test.

wait what? how is this a shit test?

[–]1theoctopuss 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You shouldn't need a girl to get you a job. Every girl needs to know that you can get the money regardless of whether or not she helps.

The shit test is that if you accept her offer, or go along, you fail. A response like:

"That's alright, I've got it under control. Say, where do you work out?"

It shows that you don't need her to tell you how to get things done, as well as changes the subject. You can change "work out" with any other disarming question, as long as you've established that you don't need her help. Besides, men who have their shit together don't need to complain about money or work to women.

[–]trpcounselor[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

interesting. I saw him reply one time:

"wow hot girls work there? you have me sold, sign me up" in a completely sarcastic tone.

[–]dotrar 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd say two things that are pretty much entirely speculative:

  1. "being attractive gives you higher gains in life" -- I'd say its a fact but I have no sources, being attractive gets you more respect / raises / and in this case, more job offers.

  2. "innate need to better humanity" -- women like attractive men, women know this and share access to the more attractive men.

the lesson to learn from this?

work on your appearance.

[–]redpillghost 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same thing happened to me years ago but a bit different situation. My alpha 'jerk' friend went to Europe and met up with our local mutual friend over there. She introduced alpha friend to her hot model friend and other girls. I (ultimate beta at the time) make the same trip a month later, I don't get to meet her hot model friend or any of her other friends. The only time she ever contacts me is when her bf (now husband) confessed to her that he fucked the fat neighbor. She came to me on tears and stayed over I guess to revenge fuck although I never caught on what she was trying to do at the time.

[–]JohnGalt316 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

read Malcolm Gladwell's "Blink"

[–]trpcounselor[S] 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Malcolm Gladwell's "Blink"

Could you give an idea of how this is relevant? Or a brief synopsis of how it relates?

inb4 just read it. I have one other book found on/from TRP that I'm reading already

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