This is a response to the general consensus of the comments on my last post.

It seems that alot of guys here think that things just happen to them. That women just cheat on them because they're bad people. That divorces happen because women have a perverse incentive to do so and feminism has infected them. That none of it was ever their fault, it's all society's problem and that needs to stop.

Two words on this line of thinking. Fuck. Off.

Here's a phrase that I've found very helpful in understanding TRP. There are no accidents. Your ex got dick from another guy either because he was better than you, or you were being such a bitch that she lost all respect for you. The fact is, if you were good enough, she wouldn't have cheated. If you were her rock, her lobster (as my mum calls my dad), she would have followed you through the gates of hell. That's what women do for men they love. And for a woman to love you, she has to respect you. She lost respect for your bitchy ways and moved on.

What was the other thing? Oh yeah, divorce. Well it's a similar principle. Does a woman have a lot of financial incentive to divorce a man? Nowadays, yes. If all you are to her is a wallet, then you're fucked. So be more to her. You have to be larger than life, bigger than your paycheck, the best guy she could ever meet. Divorced guys failed at this, they looked to their wife like an average Joe who only brings home some cash. There was no seduction, no excitement, no romance. That or it was too little too late to start trying to woo her. And that rests, not on her shoulders, but on yours. If you were good enough, you'd still be with her. But you weren't, and now you're paying a high price. You knew the stakes when you married her, but you fucked it up anyway. Your kids are suffering because of your bad decisions. Think about that.

Finally - feminism. It's cancer, it's the big evil, it's ruining society. And we're letting it. Men ruled the world for millennia, we didn't lose it because of some lesbians and their politicking. We let it slip through our fingers. Now we have to take it back. It was our fathers' mistake, and it's our responsibility to fix it. If it bothers you so bad that you can't stop thinking about it, run for local election. Start making a tangible change, don't just bitch about how bad society is, fix it.

Which brings me to my conclusion. All three of the examples above centre around power. The first two are about reputation and appearance, the cornerstone of power. If you let your woman see you as anything other than infallible, then you're going to start losing ground. Your image is your responsibility. Look after it. The third example is about power on a macro level. We can feel small in the face of it. But it's still our responsibility. Know why? Because we're men. We raised this damn species from the dirt and into the stratosphere. Civilization is our responsibility, so look after it. Become powerful, look like a titan of a man, and bloody well accept that your fortune is in your own hands.

Life doesn't happen to you, you happen to life. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

(P.S - If any of you carry on complaining about how things aren't your fault, or women are bad, or that I'm a dweeb, then I will go and get GLO. Do not think I won't. I'm the good cop here. Don't make me do something crazy. Sun Tzu and all that. Thanks.)