Teach me the Dark Side

CoupDeGrace22 · 2017-07-30T03:03:21+00:00

You come off as fairly young OP.

First things first, you need to ditch the fantasy of "dark side manipulative alpha" many new guys(myself included in the past) fall for and be a realist if you want any of the things TRP teaches you to work.

There is no such thing as "NLP mastery" to make people your slaves,there are indeed social skills to work and master individually, but every situation is different and there is no one-answer to all approach, you can't always get what you want from people, rejection is inevitable, what separates the wheat from the chaff is TRP teaches you to analyze,learn and transcend the reasons that got you rejected.It won't make you rejection proof, but you will be at a better path than if you hadn't found it.

But for all that to begin, you have to start getting the aforementioned experience,which means you have to intentionally put yourself out of your comfort, lose, and lose again until you grow.Whether you're losing in the gym by pushing less weight than the other guys, losing in the bars by getting rejected, losing at work by getting the shit-shifts / rookie duties, what matters is you keep faith in your plan, NOT yourself but your plan.If you don't have a plan and are just drifting on in life, there is nothing about yourself to have faith in,you're lost.

That's the very difference between every average chump who thinks "ONE day" he's gonna make it big and the guy who put in the work and is successful, the plan. Many people don't even have a plan but without realizing it work towards it, they still end up successful. The chumps that go half-way through self-improvement never make anything out of it, their confidence and faith is entirely misplaced, for they have nothing to show for it. Millennials are full of these type of people, sold the "snowflake" dream thinking one day they will be really important, don't be one.

You mention lots of money and manipulation. Ask yourself and be brutally honest:

Can you read people? Can you sell to people? What separates and makes your social skills superior to an average Bob on the street? What can you do to improve them? Can you handle numbers with your head faster than others? Do you have the skills that recruiters list at high-paying jobs? If not,can you get them?

You need to ditch all fantasies, embrace the ugly reality, and start the grind.What that grind is, only you can know and decide.Getting a sales job for example can help improve your people skills while providing money, so it serves both of your goals.Start from the bottom and keep working.

You are what you do and CAN do, nothing more or less, as far as the world is concerned,no one gives a shit about anything else about you.Don't be the guy that thinks the world owes him respect for going through a rough childhood or for being a single mom or whatever shit people conjure to elevate their ego, be brutally humble and realistic.Keep that in mind, and work on a plan.

Dojolow · 2017-07-30T06:08:13+00:00

I'll teach you the dark side right in this post: Start lifting, and get your diet straight[Keto], 5x5 stronglifts, into madcow, (should take around 2-3 years) then go for straight aesthetics. This takes a lot of work, you will be cooking All of your meals. The meals are easy to make and can be fairly delicious but you'll be eating the same things over and over. (you'll get used to it) oh an no more Sugar ever.

Concurrently, learn one of these two instruments (Guitar(first priority) Piano(second priority)[If You learn piano, make sure you learn Jazz piano after you get a basic education in classical - the basics - Learning Jazz piano and how to improvise is a skill that will follow you for your whole life Monetarily, and pussy wise and this is nearly anywhere in the world]) and learn how to sing[At least enough to carry a tune].

Next, if you're in school, Look into being a sprinter and try being one of the best, (basketball team can work too) This will get you fame/and help train your body (look at Usain Bolts body. right).

Next, get some good pictures take of you every year, by a professional photographer, put those pictures on Tinder, get Tinder Plus, and Buy 10 boosts.

If you've done everything right, you'll have women knocking down your door to be the next person to ride the carousel, except the horse will be you.

Also, try and figure out some kind of business for you, if you have interests, work on those. If you are in college, GET AN ENGINEERING DEGREE. Either Electrical Engineering, or mechanical engineering. This will keep you financially solvent for the rest of your life no matter what, AND you can move to make places around the world (first world country)

It you've done all of this, then you will have so many women, that Red pill knowledge will come to you naturally.

Don't get married in the U.S. check whatever country's marriage and divorce/family court laws are the best for you and get married there, although I wouldn't recommend getting married and having kids untill you'r early to mid 40's. If you have been doing everything right, you will have more than enough energy health wise to have 3-4 kids with a young 20 year old hottie.

(This is the advice I wish My father gave me when I was young. He did give me one somewhat useful advice: never get married. Of course he probably meant never get married in the U.S.)

zayelion · 2017-07-30T15:23:01+00:00

Love leads to a fear of loss,...

“Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”

Suffering leads to knowledge, knowledge leads to freedom...

"You can love women or you can understand them"

Become mentally Alpha via benevolence

The darkness is in the light,... if you have a religion I suggest you get rid of it with bleach and nukes. All modern major religions are the fossilized bones of ancient redpill. You are looking at the bones, you need to understand the flesh. Sexual strategy is amoral!
The darkness is in the light,... learn to "properly" love, learnt o be selfish. Learn to love yourself, no matter how long it takes no matter the mistakes you make you have to learn to love yourself first. Have confidence in that love for yourself. Next learn to love your group. Identify the people that you care about. Male or female. The ones that influence you. Next invert that influence
The darkness is in the light,... you are king now, you are RESPONSIBLE for everything that you touch, ever person you interact with. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEM. No one can help you, you have no equal. You are alone a tiny spec in an ocean on an island with people running around panicked and you have demi god powers. So get to work. Everyone is a child, not just women, every fucking body.
The darkness is in the light,... Everyone wants something, find what it is and give it to them at no cost. It will make them extremely docile. This is the core to social understanding. Every interaction is an expression of need. Information you can use for manipulation but the goals of your manipulation must always be benevolent. Win-Win. Understand the reasons that people do fucked up shit and forgive them for it. Do not judge them for it. Do not hold people to "a standard", male or female. Men just wanna have sex, women just want to have healthy babies and be protected. Money boils down to this, dating, religion, morals, what clothes you where and what politician is in office boils down to this. Know your enemy know yourself, and defeat your enemy with friendship, they own loyalty, or their own goal.
The darkness is in the light,... as buddist and taoist teach, learn to meditate. You will gain the ablity to DECIDE, what you feel at any given time. Like bullet time in the matrix, except for your thoughts. You will see a stimuli and react to it before it acts on your "self". You will learn to be and react only to what you wish to react to. Harmed by only what you wish to be harmed by. Meditate daily.
The darkness is in the light,... Agree and amplify, if someone insults you agree and build on the observation. Show them their opinion is valid yet worthless as a tool to harm you. Use the free information against them.

Become physically Alpha through your own suffering

Water Fast. Our ancestors did not eat everyday, they did not have to. Shred all that excess body fat at a rate of 1/2 lb per day. Your gut bacteria will die down and stop pumping your brain full of the equivalent of Celexa, Lexapro, Prozac, Luvox, Paxil, and Zoloft. ~30% of your fecal matter is dead bacteria. There is SHIT inside of you, more cells than your brain telling you what to do. Kill them. Fast till you are shredded or your body tells you to stop. If you cant do that go into ketosis via diet. Reach day 5 for extreme mental clarity. Get down to a body fat percentage where your abs show.
Lift. End of story, gain muscle mass. If you are not sore at least once a week in some way you are doing it wrong. Get to a point where you can lift a female of your size up and carrier her for about 15 mins, because this is what you will be doing nightly.
Go 94% vegan (optional). Go see how long it takes you to kill a bird, rodent, or a deer barehanded. Our ancestors didnt have meat everyday, insects at best. Go see how long it takes you to dig up an onion, bush root, or collect some clover. Sorry this is science, humans are primarily hebivores. I dont give a damn about animals.

Become physically Alpha through your possessions

If you are still in school get an engineering or information technology degree. Actually you can get an art degree also, it doesnt really matter what the degree is about 75% of the time its about application. Find a career field paying well over 100k and target it.
If you are not in school get a basic degree via CLEP; dont sacrifice your current job to get a degree.
Half of Americans make under 30k/yr, if you are making 75k/yr you are in the 80th percentile. In technicality this is the the female threshold for "reliable", its also the threshold for happiness. Per person this is the income needed to live comfortable approximately. Women see men as tools on average so this zeros out. If you want a child make 120k/yr, two kids 195k, etc.

Pay = ((75 * offspring) - (child-bearing-woman * 30))

Make sure you have a reliable vehicle
Buy a home as soon as possible
Keep your bills paid and your credit inline.
Keep everything in your home inline. WOMEN DO NOT BELONG IN THE KITCHEN because children do not belong in the kitchen. Dont trust women to do any household stuff, even raising your children. Do everything yourself, assume you have to do everything yourself. If she is doing anything or has sole responsibility over anything, you've done fucked up. OWN YOUR SHIT.
Develop a style, specifically smell "not bad", and wear proper fitting clothing. Keep your hair cut into a proper style so either learn how to cut your own hair, or have a regular barber. Learn to shave.... everywhere.

Verify your Alphaness with her

Learn to fuck
Women(people) are children. Love them as such. They dont known any better. Children constantly ask why, you have to know the answer. They will whine for attention, they will say mean things for the sake of saying it. Would you be mad at a child? Then why would you be mad at a woman. Benevolence is key.
Being yourself is a trick answer form of advice. Women want to be able to easily judge you. Be yourself by mastering being the person you want to be.
The darkness is in the light,... You decide what is reality, for her. This can come off as gaslighting, so dont do that but its the little details. Do not let her decide how to envision you. State what you are, dont allow her to question it. Dont give in to her questioning your decisions. Dont let her decide your actions. Know the answer to something before you ask her a question.
Sex before friendship. If you are attracted to a woman you need to be casually conversationally clear about that based on what ever level of "between the lines", you to have going on.
Dont let people shame you.
Dont cheat, partake. Women are adverse to lying, so dont do that. Dont commit to her because you are as king, commited to everyone. What she gets from you everyone gets from you just as easily, and also take deep to heart what you get from her (because women are nurturing creatures) everyone else gets just as easily that includes sex. Fuck her, fuck her friend, fuck her mom, fuck her sister, fuck the bitch down the street. Just be clear about it. This does many things. It makes you comfortable with sex, it assures you of your ability to get sex, it lets her know you can get sex from anywhere (and because you own your shit) and she has zero control over you. This alone fixes so much. Cheating is saying she controls you so you have to hide things from her. This is why men are not "slut shamed", because we SHOULD be fucking whoever. Just dont get shot by another dude.

Required Reading

"How not to Die", "The Obesity Code", "The 7 Habbits of Highly Effective People", "The Rational Male", "The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine", "The Evolution of Desire", "The Dictators Handbook", "Games People Play"

Philosophy

What is Satan but an Angel, a dragon, or a Jinn... that rules over Hell after being cast down from Heaven to Hell. He rules Hell over demon kind, cast down angels that only sought love from women, children of their own and to give poor women cast out a trade in each example given. If you seek women you are like a demon, if you rule men women will seek you, if you seek women you seek to be like Satan, God of of this system of things. To seek women is to seek godhood like Satan. It is not that women are divine, it is that you are. You are a God now. You are her Alpha, ..., never her Beta.

Balderdash77 · 2017-07-30T07:05:46+00:00

Ended up at NLP as a result of sales training.

Sales is the art of persuasion.

In persuasion, all roads lead to NLP.

You aren't going to "mind control" people or some other tv bs.

NLP is the dedicated study of methods to lower a prospect's sales resistance by the use of non-verbal cues.

Anyone who wants more pointers or wants the names/locations of specific media, PM.

blorgon416 · 2017-07-30T06:24:19+00:00

Since I'm not sure many of you are providing value, I'll post something that I've learned (in my admittedly young) life that I wish I learned sooner.

Phil Stutz has a great book called The Tools. And if there's any tool that fits trp, it's the "reversal of desire":

"A few rare individuals refuse to live in this limited way. Their secret is an ability to accept the pain of everything from failures and humiliations to the small, tedious pain involved in personal discipline- eating right, exercising, staying organized, all the things we know we should do but often don’t. Because they can accept pain, they can move beyond their Comfort Zone.

They manage this because they live in forward motion. Nature is always moving forward into the future and as part of nature we have to do the same. If you watch an infant learning to walk, no matter how many times he falls he’ll pick himself up and start again until one day he succeeds. Unconsciously, he’s tapped into a universal force that allows him to conquer pain. We call it The Force of Forward Motion.

This force derives its almost magical powers by taking advantage of what we call the The Secret of Pain. The “secret” is that your experience of pain is relative. When you move toward pain it shrinks; on the other hand, if you try to avoid pain, it grows into a monster that pursues you. Try this: stand next to a swimming pool on a breezy day and put your big toe in the water. You’ll shiver with anticipated cold. Now dive in – in just a few seconds you’ll feel warm. The dive put you in forward motion. And this is just as true of emotional pain as of physical pain."

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-tools/201205/through-the-pain-barrier

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-07-30T11:46:04+00:00

Right Hand Path : Beta male, rigid, literal, honest.
Left Hand Path : Female, fluid, manipulative, deceptive.

You must understand the rigid / fluid dynamic is more complicated than simply switching from honest ("moral" by beta standards) to being deceptive.

To truly be a psychopath (fluid, female, deceptive) you tend to lose touch with objective reality and get nihilistic and overly egocentric. You fall into all the vices which women are prone to fall into.

The "ideal" is stoic masculinity.

In that ideal you hold onto parts of the Right Hand Path which is able to hold a constant view of reality. That's the side that keeps you "down to earth". This is a masculine Frame.

The fluid side is your Game playing ability.

In the end you want a strong Frame while playing a strong Game.

However... I suspect the Red Pill is creating a lot of psychopathic devils too and that's fine. Better you do that than be another beta slave.

"Kill the Beta".

Then choose what fits you best.... masculinity with it's Amused Mastery or psychopathy which is the 50 Shades of Gray thing.

You have Free Will to decide.

greyhouse22 · 2017-07-31T03:17:10+00:00

If we are in heat?? We aren't animals, we think and have morals and make decisions, such as men do. It's not like we're just a bunch of animals that when they get heated they just stick whatever available dick is around. That's so idiotic for you to say

shakespeareSMG · 2017-07-31T07:20:11+00:00

There's a lot of grey area to work within which isn't a bad thing. The 48 Laws of Power are good to use in a certain context but to do that all the time sounds like a recipe for sociopathy. And plan on meeting others that are better at it than you: bankers; producers, executives

Family and dealing with your mom is tricky. I came from the Crazy Mom's Club myself and she is fucking difficult.

I keep the peace though because my dad is a cool guy and if I tell her how I really feel he will suffer for it.

dkretsch · 2017-08-01T12:33:04+00:00

Start with less desperation.

ArchieJJohnson · 2017-07-31T03:30:39+00:00

"There is no such thing as "NLP mastery" to make people your slaves"

I can't even begin to tell how wrong are you. You keep believing that. We need more slaves.

Title	Teach me the Dark Side
Author	blorgon416
Upvotes	14
Comments	31
Date	July 30, 2017 2:15 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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