A couple of days ago I saw a somewhat motivating - advisory post here telling us to body-build, to eat a fair amount of good carbs and a good amount of fats.

Now the author of that might not have written it specifically but that popped up a question in my mind about fat. Trainers generally do not recommend eating a lot of fat for it kills gains, although they are for a fair amount of quality fats. The so called "Chadness" standards never remind us of a guy with belly, it is rather a ripped guy with vascular arms, veins popping out all over the body. The general perception of what girls like align with that too.

But here comes the story. I have a friend that I would call a Chad. He isn't particularly an alpha male - not trying hard - but have always been a magnet, never struggled to approach girls, been rejected so few, a symmetric good looking face and a good height, though not exactly has a body that you would call "athletic".

What he basically say is that, unless it is too much, girls do not have a problem with belly - chest fat at all. I am from a third world country so I am not sure if this holds on a global landscape but he claims that it (belly fat etc.) subconsciously reminds them of a protecting father figure, and that is why.

Another post here which I do not remember when was implying that "running fast is not an attractive ability for girls, only cowards run" which seems to support the idea proposed by my friend. Wrapping up all of these, mobility does not seem to be a very attractive feature for men to impress girls. But I am not sure, because this sounds a bit against what we have always been being taught so far. Really wonder about your thoughts on that.