If I were to ask you guys what distinguishes Todd in Accounting from Trevor the Lifeguard, what would you say? Looks? Height? Race? Money? Dick size? What if I were to tell you all these factors are irrelevant? Turns out there's one that means more than all the others combined, and that's attitude. When Todd hits the club (which he hates), he grabs his light beer and heads straight for the corner. "I hate seeing all these douchebags acting stupid," he thinks. Meanwhile, Trevor busts the door down at about 11:30 with his bros and heads straight for the dance floor. After about three hours of Fetty Wap remixes, Trevor has made out with three girls and is already eyeing a shacker for the tailgate tomorrow. He came here to have fun, and his entire life has been about having fun. I can't speak for you guys, but every beta I've ever met has this self-defeating attitude that repulses women and men alike. One of the most productive changes I've made in my journey is learning how to seek fun in everything. I guarantee you guys going through a rough patch can break it if you start radiating positive energy outward. Treat everyone as a potential friend (but don't trust everyone), and crack stupid jokes everywhere you go. Wake up loving yourself. What we feel like we deserve in life is what we get.