I've been lurking here for about a year now. During this time I absorbed pretty much all you guys write and read several books recommended by you.
It fucking made my life so much better
First of all, learning who I am and how to be alone with myself is something I never considered being important and it made me have such a positive outlook on life
I've dealt with my LTR masterfully, when I started applying TRP to my relationship the results were instant and pretty good. She took notice something had changed. Now I was the one putting pressure on her. Never once after the Red Pill I felt jealous (oh jealousy fucking hurts), if she did betray me I could just leave with a strong frame and be fucking someone the same night if I wanted. Guess what, my bluffing proposition about opening my relationship to polyamory made her flip her shit, she was sorry for not treating me right and making me jealous and I never been so well treated by someone ever since. Sex also improves a lot when you perspective changes from "she let's me fuck her" to "I am going to fuck a girl tonight and if you want me around, then better be you".
I hit the gym solely because of the Red Pill, today I have a six pack and can lift more than any of my friends. The gym feels like therapy and I can't live without it.
I get a lot of attention from women after applying several tips to increase my SMV, hitting the gym and improving my game and, specially, mentality towards women. At uni they are asking me out.
I started meditating. After a lot of scepticism, it made sense why it's so important, helps you to focus on what is really impostsnt for you and you stop thinking about pussy all the time.
In parts because of the meditation, in parts because now I didn't spend so much time on pussy, I could focus on studying software engineering, my life long love and never been so productive ever. These are consequences of the Red Pill for sure.
Not only that, but after TRP I took up reading again. It started with literature, than books like "the rational male" and finally to nonfiction and self help. Books like homo Deus or books about artificial intelligence are my fucking favorite pleasure in every day life. I can't believe I was missing this out.
And the single most important help from the Red Pill for my life: drug use. Took a long and hard look at my drug use: weed everyday, lsd twice a week, mdma once or twice a month plus all the alcohol I could chug. Damn that's a fucking lot. It took away time from what I really cared about: my family, friends and study/work. The Red Pill was the single most important important reason that made me reduce my drug use to just a little on weekends to take the edge of and relax and on raves once a month. Suddenly I had so much free time, money, my memory came to normal, my thinking became a lot clearer, my hppd reduced, I felt happy sober again, like I did when I was a kid. The only thing I fucking can't quit is tobacco, but still working hard on it.
The only thing Red Pill took away from me is innocence towards relationships. I miss it, but it was absolutely worth losing.
The tools you acquire here are for life and they will help you a lot if well applied.
I wish the best of luck for all of you. TRP changed my life for the better, much more than therapy or money or almost anything could. I have focus, I am happy by who I am, I love my life and I don't need any validation anymore, be it from women or social media.
Seriously thanks.
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