This post got removed from a different sub bc I used the words hoe and slut. Thought maybe you guys would be a bit more willing to give me some relationship opinions.

sadomasochrist · 2017-04-27T19:48:42+00:00

I think of my girlfriend as the diamond in the rough.

Your girlfriend is playing you. Her friends are the real her.

H42 · 2017-04-27T22:46:47+00:00

Count of only 3? I busted my gut laughing on this. That bitch of yours has had at least 30 cocks bumping her cervix.

If she is exhaling, she is lying. And you have swallowed her shit hook, line, and sinker.

-PalmerWoodrow- · 2017-04-27T19:53:20+00:00

This does not end well for you.

elcarlosmiguel · 2017-04-27T20:06:10+00:00

Dude do you think she just watches all her girl friends making out and fucking guys while she just stays there doing nothing lmao

Ask yourself, ir she has a boyfriend why does she go out all the time to a place where the objective of everyone is to fuck?

RedPillStoryTime · 2017-04-27T20:00:57+00:00

Birds of a shit feather u/[deleted]

She's a low key ho, use the American pie rule here bud. Whatever she tells you for that N count, multiply it by 3.

Bill_Shiva · 2017-04-27T20:04:45+00:00

Leave her. Plain & simple. If you don't like her friends than leave her. Don't try to be the "White Knight" and save her. It will not work out for you. It seems like you are more emotionally invested in the relationship than she is. That is not good. Your focusing on her friends and that is just a waste of energy. You can't control her friends and you can't control who she hangs out with. Don't put so much thought into something that you can't control.

Native_of_Tatooine · 2017-04-27T20:04:24+00:00

I can already see it, this is going to hurt.

Bambam22bam · 2017-04-27T20:42:03+00:00

Number one thing a man should never do in life is get cucked. You're on cuck highway right now. Fortunately, there are still a few exits coming up before you're a total cuck. But if you keep going, she will cuck the shit out of you if she hasn't already (she most definitely has already cucked you bro).

Get the fuck out of this relationship. It sounds horrible and you sound like someone who has no self esteem. Maybe go work on that part of yourself for awhile before dating again.

Also, don't go around punching other dudes for hitting on your girlfriend. If you're dating someone that repeatedly puts herself in that position it's your own fault and nobody else's.

420KUSHBUSH · 2017-04-27T21:16:45+00:00

It's been scientifically proven your friends influence how you behave. If she isn't acting like them now, she will soon.

cuntrolbot · 2017-04-27T21:51:20+00:00

She would fall asleep when we had plans

This is the lamest excuse. The thought of you believing this makes me cringe. Next her and never look back.

max_peenor · 2017-04-27T22:02:08+00:00

She ended up cheating on my friend and had sex with her boss which is a 35 year old balding man which is very odd given the fact that she is 18.

No. It isn't very odd. Most 18 year old males are awkward and terrified of women. He isn't. Plus she knows he probably won't get all dopey and try to start some sort of romance with her. It's all pound-town when at his place.

Fragems420 · 2017-04-27T20:29:21+00:00

This is occupying a lot of your time and peace of mind. It sounds like this is a very stressful and toxic relationship from your end. Ask yourself, is this the kind of relationship you dream of? Whatever your answer is, ponder on the reason why.

No matter what, this is going to end with you getting hurt. Think of your relationship as a wound that has gotten infected. Are you going to allow it to fester and spread more, or cut it out and cauterize it?

When you're going through the pain of whichever decision you follow through with, I suggest working out (weight lifting / cardio) to relieve your anger.

SanjayMethylPump · 2017-04-27T20:43:53+00:00

If I were in your position I would dump her. She is more than likely just like her friends, and she really isn't in a relationship with you to begin with. Disregard her comment about having 3 sexual partners. Look at her actions. She surrounds herself with friends who have sex as if it were shaking hands. You are naive if you think she's only had 3. Perhaps 10 is closer. You are also not in a real relationship. She may label it that, but the level of immaturity on her end and your level of naivete would make me think this isn't a committed, monogamous relationship.

Since it is taking your peace of mind brudda remember you cannot change anyone, much less a woman. Since her friend's antics and the situations your "girlfriend" chooses to put herself in, such as getting shitfaced in a grimy bar, are bothersome to you, be a man and dump her. You won't convince her to be something she isn't.

The fact that it is occupying your mind so much and you are so bothered by it suggest to me that you want to control her or get her to change, and that suggest she is stubbornly stuck in her (let's be honest here) slutty ways. You are on the losing end, more emotionally invested, and if she were to dump you, you'd be very hurt and she'd not shed a tear. I would read the sidebar, too. It's useful.

great_artists_steal · 2017-04-27T21:05:40+00:00

You can't change other people. You can only choose whether to keep them in your life or not.

TRPmc117 · 2017-04-27T22:13:29+00:00

Get out now before this sinks any further. Trust us, it will suck at first, but then one day you won't miss her and you'll look back and realize you made the right choice. There is no possible scenario where this ends happily ever after.

She blames all of those problems on her not wanting to get too attached to me because she was afraid of getting hurt.

Even if this is valid (it probably is to some degree), it's not an excuse for her to disrespect you. End it.

SpanishDdoc · 2017-04-27T22:24:10+00:00

Dude this post is a collection of red flags

iFuckedJohnOliversGF · 2017-04-27T22:37:04+00:00

She's already cheated on you. Look up Tom Leykis on YT, girls calling in admitting to cheating on their bfs, no remorse and the bfs never know. You are that bf.

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