Too much red pill?

misls · 2020-12-01T23:51:34+00:00

You haven't experienced what you're shunning.

You're not working on the aspects you're lacking.

If you've gone around and been with girls, then you can make an informed decision that you don't want anything to do with girls. You have some "mommy issues" which are causing you to seek exclusively "love" and commitment from females.

Are all girls sluts? No.

This is where too much red pill comes into play. Guys come here for a reason, it's because they're butthurt because they got dicked around by a girl. They project their experiences and insecurities as gospel. Maybe rightfully so, it's not like they've had other experiences. I don't say I can blame them.

There are many men who met girls who are loyal and have good relationships.

Do you buy a car without test-driving it? Presumably no, if there's a problem with the test-drive you don't buy it.

How are you going to find a good car without test-driving?

You need to figure this shit out on your own. Figure out what the problem is and find a solution to it. Don't let some internet stranger who imitates GLO with his e-knowledge give you advice.

Physical health.

Mental health.

Relationships.

Goals.

Etc...

You have a problem somewhere there. Fix it and this crisis you're having will solve itself.

Don't forget to respect Father Time.

I myself am lacking in a lot of shit. Is it because of covid? Maybe. But I was lacking in shit prior to covid too. Sometimes I look for external solutions without knowing the solution to my problem is maybe internal. Me giving you this advice helps me figure out some of my own shit. All the problems we have are in our own cache.

I wish I could write more but I got an assignment to get back to. Goodluck with life dude and I hope you figure your shit out.

RPU_mike · 2020-12-02T05:05:23+00:00

Your problems are exactly that - your problems. You can’t reasonably blame it on the Red Pill because you haven’t put any of the lessons into action.

strikethrough123 · 2020-12-02T10:19:38+00:00

Sometimes it’s hard to distill actual content from all the rage-filled content in the main sub. All the absolutes are in the sidebar.

When it comes to women, TRP is basically this: This is what women can be like, here’s what you can do to protect yourself. Here are the tools you can use to achieve sexual success. Here are some extreme examples you should be wary of, and here’s how to avoid them.

You can either use TRP as intended, or you can use it as a reason for your warped hatred and bitterness..

ModernDao · 2020-12-02T00:41:49+00:00

If the red pill is taking you to nihilism, it's because it's incompletely digested, and/or because that's what's in your particular combination of nature and life influences.

Eventually you may find that nihilism is replace with meaning. You will find it especially when you go looking for what is meaningful to you.

Hit, it's in the last paragraph. All women have the capability to be sloots, but not all act on it, nor act on it equally. It's your job to find one that has actively chosen not to engage in that lifestyle. It's possible. They're out there. Unicorns? Maybe. Rare, for sure. But they do exist. Don't blackpill yourself unnecessarily.

New_Guard · 2020-12-02T02:48:57+00:00

You sound like you're going through a quarter life crisis.

Bravo to you for backing away from your job that made you unhappy and finding something else. Don't expect nursing necessarily to be perfect - you might find the need to keep searching and go on to another career eventually. But stay in touch with whether you feel satisfied by your work, and keep your mind open to options that might be a better mission if you're not satisfied. Don't be trapped by the idea that you need to just stick with the work that you happen to be in when you reach __ years old.

Clearly you also need to do a bunch of active thinking about what your religious beliefs are. That might be a scary road to go down for you, since they might, heretofore, have been the guidance that gave your life meaning. Maybe you'll decide that your religion was actually right, and you'll double down, maybe you'll decide that your religion has some things right, but is too restrictive about certain issues, or maybe you'll decide that it's all wrong. People have been struggling with these issues for many generations, and there's no shortage of nonfiction and fiction books on the topic, as well as various articulate speakers holding forth on the issues on Youtube. Explore a diversity of opinions open-mindedly for the next year or two and see what rings true for you. Don't expect a quick solution.

When it comes to women, it seems like you probably should do some exploring there too. I can't tell you what the right approach is for your situation, but I can say that most adult men who look back on years of self-imposed chastity regret it as a foolish waste. Explore what women have to offer - they're running a funny operating system that has its bugs, but they're fellow humans on this journey, and if you pick them carefully for friendship and romance, they can add value to your life. This forum is perhaps unnecessarily nihilistic about women, but it's definitely correct that in order to have success with women, you have to have a lot of experience with them and effectively "be over them". Obviously, each new sexy woman in your life is exciting and tempting, but if you've already "tried all the things" with other women, they'll recognize your experience and wisdom, and they'll have limited power to manipulate you, and be easier to manage. You can't possibly expect to luck your way into a successful relationship when you're new to the game.

Be forewarned though: don't get into a really serious relationship with a woman while you're on this journey of self-discovery. Women want you to be something specific and definite, and most of them aren't really tolerant of male journeys of self-discovery. So have easygoing relationships with women as a fun side event as you figure out what your adult beliefs and values are going to be.

ManguZa · 2020-12-02T08:34:16+00:00

You didn't understand anything. You don't have to fuck anyone nor to applied "every tactics in the book". Just learn the rules of men/women interaction so you don't fumble for whatever you want to do with them.

CloudDunker · 2020-12-02T09:59:06+00:00

You need a purpose my friend. Now that you’re out of the love fantasies fed to you by the mainstream you became nihilistic which is normal. Accept the fact that women aren’t there to make you feel happy or fulfilled. You should do that for yourself. When it comes to relationships you either keep abstaining in the hope to secure a nice christian women who can contain her self or you get plates. Either way your source of happiness should come from within.

DareyFathom · 2020-12-01T23:44:49+00:00

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Skisoris · 2020-12-01T23:59:33+00:00

"I’m abstinent for religious reasons" ... "I think marriage is a scam". Could you elaborate on your religious reasons then? If you are saving yourself for marriage that's fine but redpill is incompatible with this idea. The best thing you can do is use redpill to learn as much as possible about women through experience and choose one that is maximally loyal for the right reasons. Still not bulletproof because AWALT but at least its a goal. Get a prenup/legally enforceable parenting plan to prevent yourself from getting screwed in case of a divorce. The legal aspect of marriage is definitely a scam. If you are looking for a spiritual bond to absolve you from the sin of adultery then pick wisely and cover your legal ass.

Beyond that, hobbies, career and male friends are the meaning you are looking for. Keep up the grind

Sumsar01 · 2020-12-02T13:19:36+00:00

You need to find out what YOU want. Sound like you are burned out from doing things your not interrested in.

TrenWarrior · 2020-12-02T21:16:21+00:00

"You need a fucking girl" is proof you're not red-pill.... what you NEED to do is better yourself as a man and continue personal development and improvement in all aspects of life. This post reeks of dependency... and is not even clear as to on what either... you my friend need to go outside and grab your balls and yell as loud as possible... I AM A MAN.. and never write something to fucking needy ever again lol.

lagomorpha1995 · 2020-12-03T01:21:40+00:00

Here's some less nihilistic redpill stuff you might find valuable.

It's Good to be a Man

1942eugenicist · 2020-12-02T03:10:28+00:00

Nihilism is Normal.

It should take you to the black pill and solipsism and you focus on the hyper individual and know yourself best.

Title	Too much red pill?
Author	meerupls
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	December 1, 2020 11:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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