What is “hate”?

On the surface it seems like an obvious question. Emotions like anger and resentment come to mind. But let’s go deeper.

One claim often made by bluepillers is that men on TRP “hate” women. The counter argument by redpillers has always been that those who “hate” women are simply in the necessary anger phase of awakening. Eventually this person will observe women with bemused unattachment and see them for what they are with no judgments.

How does this transition occur? In order to answer that question we must define this emotion that we call hate.

Hate is an entirely selfish emotion. We hate things that we see as a personal attack or threat. But because people like to see themselves as not entirely selfish, a smokescreen is created. The justification of hate becomes the breaking of an arbitrary ethical code or some higher ideal. This is pure bullshit believed by people with low degrees of self-awareness and awareness of others.

Let’s look at the typical beta who finds TRP. He swallows the pill, but it’s tough going down. He learns things about the nature of women like their inability to love the way men want to be loved and gets angry. He hates women and blames them. He finds their lack of loyalty and sociopathic tendencies disgusting out of an ideal of how human beings should behave.

Or so he would say.

What’s really happening is that this person is suffering from a major perceived threat. This person wants to believe women are a certain way because it’s good for that person. They only care about “loyalty” and “honor” insofar as it enhances their own selfish desires to have a good woman by their side. But this cognitive dissonance of “I’m a good person” and the reality that they’re actually a selfish asshole (like everyone else) is too strong and so they throw it back at women.

This means there is only one cure to the anger phase, and it’s not merely time. A person must fundamentally alter their reality and experience of women if they wish to advance to a place of unattachment. Or they can spit the pill back up and go back to sleep. Those are the only two options. Otherwise the resentment will always be there.

I could never hate women. What is there to hate?

That they’re disloyal? So what. I never plan on getting married.

That they’re flaky? I’m fucking flaky. Often times when I go out I get so many numbers I just forget about them.

That they’re sluts? Welcome to the tinder generation. If you’re angry about that it only proves you’re insecure that your girl won’t be loyal to you in a LTR.

That they love violent men and get wet for criminals? You don’t give a shit, you’re just mad that these guys get laid and you don’t.

Why would I get mad when a woman cheats? I’m not in a relationship. In fact usually I’m the guy she cheats with. I love it.

As far as I’m concerned, women are just these fun toys that you get to fuck around and have sex with. They’re awesome. The biggest problem I have with women is trying to pencil all these bitches in. I just don’t often have the time. Does that make you hate me, betas? Why? No really, why?

Accept that you are a selfish asshole. Accept that everyone is a selfish asshole. This is humanity.

The difference between me and the bluepiller is that even though we both love women, we love them in very different ways. The bluepiller loves women based off an ideal of how he wants them to be in order to better himself. I have no such naïve ideas. But what I’ve done is fundamentally alter my experience of women and how they affect me so that they’re a positive in my life. If you want to leave your hatred behind, this is what you must do.

Change your perception and you change your reality.