TRP Difficult to Digest Due to Disability

redsorceror · 2017-05-07T15:34:13+00:00

Dude. You're not disabled. I suffered a badly separated shoulder in high school. I made recovery my top priority and now I'm OHPing 185. You may have trouble recovering and figuring out how to solve your physical issue, but for fucks sake. Change your goddamn attitude first.

This is the problem. You're not in any goddamn stage. You haven't digested shit. Because you haven't realized that it's not women that suck; it's you. You're on the internet complaining about a "disability" which literally is a solvable common high school football player injury. Could take 6 months to three years. Up to you. But I digress. You need to realize you have quirks and problems, and address them. Realize them. Make goals. SMART. And do something about your predicament.

Change your outlook on life. Improve yourself from being a loser. And maybe you won't even give a shit about girls at that point. You'll be at the level that they'll be coming to you.

Downvote me if you want. But I'm just telling you the objective truth as I see it. You need to take action. More than you already are. Make a difference to yourself before blaming others. When you're perfect and you still can't get pussy, come PM me and I'll get you a beer for me being wrong.

Auvergnat · 2017-05-07T09:24:04+00:00

You are right. The reality of the sexual market place is particularly bitter to those who are naturally at the bottom. Fortunately for you, you were born a Man. Which means you can put your mind to work hard on overcoming obstacles, like this guy or these guys. Of course, there are still very few chances that hard work and dedication will entirely compensate for your issues, or allow you to go even further like those rare guys that are easy to use as examples, but the message is clear: there is no such thing as "no chance". And in any case, hard work and dedication to overcome will always leave you better off than giving up in the first place.

thisisscaringme · 2017-05-07T14:17:32+00:00

Being injured =/= being disabled.

I can't drive, I haven't been able to find work in my field due to my disability (yet) and live with my parents (for now).

Girls want me enough to drive to me and drive me around. Girls comment that climbing in my window and trying to fuck quietly "reminds them of being in high school." Nothing makes a girl happier than getting her face shoved in a pillow to mute her orgasm because shame and judgement are sleeping in the next room. I promise.

I had to stop lifting for a year. You know what it feels like to squat 65 pounds in a public gym? I did it two weeks ago. But I did something.

You're injured. It sucks. You won't be injured forever. Use your recovery time to read, develop skills etc. Start a GoFundMe or leverage your representative to help you find assistance for your surgery (healthcare is hot on Capitol Hill right now).

Stop making excuses for yourself. I lost that battle too. All that's going to happen is you're going to look back and regret all the time you wasted feeling sorry for yourself. Keep doing your exercises and making progress, even if marginal, toward your goal.

BargainBinBoyfriend · 2017-05-07T13:54:08+00:00

Dude, I've known paraplegics who are pretty alpha and bang hot chicks. Don't count yourself out of the game; you're not. Your life situation sucks, but you aren't doomed or anything. But you're going to have to work hard and fight, doing everything you can, including getting seen and properly treated for depression, which is your biggest problem at the moment.

favours_of_the_moon · 2017-05-08T03:14:20+00:00

I was spastic, hunched over and unable to walk under my own power for TEN YEARS. It's all how you carry yourself dude.

MisterRoid · 2017-05-07T11:07:59+00:00

It's a difficult life to be disabled, and it's nothing I would wish upon anyone, but it sounds like you are not actually in a wheelchair and have a real possibility to repair your body, since your worst problem is a separated shoulder.

Using a combination of testosterone and nandrolone would help you greatly in the healing process, and it's not that expensive. It would be even better if you could add HGH on top of that, but that shit is expensive as fuck.

PrimaxAUS · 2017-05-07T09:51:25+00:00

People with actual disabilities should point and laugh at this post.

nonthaki · 2017-05-07T06:44:47+00:00

Nothing is permanent (your gf, car, wealth need not be around you tomorrow or in the future And this goes for Chad and successful people too). You take what you can and leave (cut your losses and move forward). Men are entitled to nothing, not even sex (unlike majority of women who are sore losers and are spoonfed since birth and expect everything from us and the world, whether it be sex, commitment or money).

fuu999 · 2017-05-07T06:27:20+00:00

It is like being small, ugly, asian, whatever.

Successful people here (e.g. beautiful attractive people who are too lazy to lift) will tell you to lift and magic will happen.

Endorsed TRPs will tell you to "compensate for your genetical deficiencies"

In truth, I'd say, if you have not an attractive base, you are pretty much fucked.

Of course you can slay, even a very beautiful woman. You have to work very very very hard on yourself. You are still young and a lot of positive things can happen to you if you chose to.

rhyst13 · 2017-05-07T10:54:49+00:00

Yeah man, I have crohns pretty bad and turn down way too many opportunities, and it truly sucks but at the end of the day, medications, anxiety and everything else that stems from having issues, you've gotta sit down with yourself and slap some motivation, and self love back into you. It's hard to get to that point, but ultimately you've gotta find a way to not hate yourself everyone knows it's hard and deals with their own shit, but because no one has your experiences only you can make the changes

Merwebb · 2017-05-07T14:17:54+00:00

TRP is not about getting women. Is about improving our attitude, and you have a bad one.

No money for doc? Get your ass up and do something about it. No self loathing in this place, that's what gets you.

Work on yourself, women come by themselves. There is this dude no legs no arms and he has a wife and kids. Think about that.

Its ok to feel like you feel but not to dwell on it. Small steps, move forward. Forget bitches for a while, work on yourself.

TheSlicemanCometh · 2017-05-07T14:31:44+00:00

Dude you are in a bad spot but you have to fight your way out. Do anything you can do to keep your mind from spiraling into a negative pit. It starts with putting your mind a positive spot then your body will follow.

MattyAnon · 2017-05-07T14:43:29+00:00

Not only am I unable to lift per the doctor's orders

You can't lift with that arm, but you can use the rest of your body.

I have been unable to find work (telemarketing included) for four months with my health defects to blame

Why not.... the chronic pain or other reasons?

But who am I kidding? I couldn't fuck even if I had the opportunity, as I live in a cramped 2 bed 1 bath with my parents.

Car.... park.... her place....

Is there any hope for me and other disabled in The Red Pill world?

Not with this attitude.

Quit blaming, quit making excuses, and start making the best of your life.

You are being negative to avoid failure and to try to elicit sympathy from others. This is causing a victimhood in you and making failure in life a certainty.

Your health issues sound really tough... the chronic pain especially. You need to find a way to deal with that. So you FIND A WAY TO DEAL WITH THAT. Nothing we can say here can change your life, only you can change your life. And your outlook.

You don't need confidence, girl skills, or even to swallow that good ole' red pill. You just need to get on with it. That's all there is to it. Just get on with it. Stop whining, stop indulging yourself with negativity, and find a way to keep moving forwards. Drop the negative self talk. Get a job so you can get medical help. Hell get a loan if you can.

It's tough. I'm not saying it's not. But your options are only to get on with it, or not.

atraw · 2017-05-07T17:26:06+00:00

The only option is to become rich or die trying.

SerKevanLannister · 2017-05-07T19:15:59+00:00

OP, I agree with other posters here that you really need to work on your attitude, and your immediate situation FIRST -- and this is critical. At your age it is ridiculous (imho) to make statements like "in a female's eyes I will always be near the absolute bottom of the barrel." You can change your own situation, and significantly, with some solid, focused worK.

I am twice your age, and I know that life changes DRAMATICALLY as you move through your twenties and your thirties. Making absolute predictions now about the future of your romantic life, when you are still living with your parents and not (apparently) working on a career yet, is honestly self-delusion. You are indulging yourself, and you need to take steps towards your future before you start worrying about girls. Do not think about success or failure with women until you have put some serious work into yourself.

You have presented your situation as though your entire future has been decided and it is hopeless and impossible to change. It isn't -- and other posters here have mentioned their own disabilities. Also, we know guys with severe injuries and lifelong disabilities who are happy with girlfriends and/or wives they acquired AFTER the injury occurred (see military guys who lost limbs and/or suffer from extreme ptsd after Afghanistan/Iraq who got married well after and to girls who weren't already girlfriends). Again, as someone who is old enough to be your father, I can assure you that things will change and that you will have a much different (better and more secure) outlook on life. Living with your parents is probably not helping you psychologically -- you should only live with them if you can save $$$ and tolerate the obvious problems that you point out. Otherwise you should plan on living at college and/or with roommates your own age as soon as you can afford it. You are very young, just starting life!

I don't know why you have not done so but you should have applied for Medicaid and/or any disability benefits for which you qualify. Medicaid should be your top priority (if you live in the US). Your first goal is to get proper treatment for your shoulder. Don't waste time farting around when you have an untreated shoulder injury! You don't want to ignore an injury that can be treated and develop a long-term problem unnecessarily. First, chronic pain is very nasty and it has a profound effect on a person's personality not to mention issues like depression (this has been well-studied and anyone who suffers from chronic pain knows this very well). You need to get medical treatment asap. You can't afford NOT to get proper treatment -- you live with your parents so can you be covered by their insurance for example and/or can they help you financially as you deal with this injury? Also, are you going to college? If you aren't attending college you need to be planning for your future in some other significant and rational way.

Do not waste time as it gets much harder to build a career from the bottom up when you hit your thirties and forties (it can be done but working on a degree or some sort of vocation is much easier when you are in your twenties). Also, of course, success in your chosen field, and I don't mean money in a simplistic way but all-around success and personal fulfillment, will naturally attract women. That is what you need to focus on now. Get as healthy as possible (inside and out) and get motivated. Women will follow naturally -- trust me as I know from lived experience.

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2017-05-09T13:53:23+00:00

One of my frat buddies has MS or something he's in a wheelchair and can't hardly talk or move, and he fucking SLAYS.

Get off your fucking lazy ass and WORK

aboynameddrama · 2017-05-09T20:43:59+00:00

The only disability is a bad attitude.

sebwiers · 2017-05-09T21:36:56+00:00

I've known multiple disabled guys who were pretty alpha.

One is missing and arm and a good chunk of his lower leg from some sort of accident (no idea why, never asked him, but he's never mentioned being in the military and is a physics researcher & machinist).

Another is actually a wheelchair user I worked for, who has muscular dystrophy and even needs help getting dressed. He's a successful journalist and playwrighter, as well as an activist for disabled folks who has been to Washington (and been arrested) multiple times.

Self confidence goes a long way, and if you are actually disabled, you can get enough SS to help you claw your way up.

The persistent stress and agony has caused my eyes to become hollow and sunken

You could rock that SO hard in the goth scene.

El_Serpiente_Roja · 2017-05-07T06:35:13+00:00

Fine..if you're ugly then pay for pussy.

Title	TRP Difficult to Digest Due to Disability
Author	Leomentheus
Upvotes	10
Comments	23
Date	May 7, 2017 6:21 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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