Validation and emotional response

LateralThinker13 · 2017-11-06T15:15:31+00:00

You do not need to be validated, validate yourself at all times.

The fundamental difference between men and women is that men are internally validated, women are externally validated. If you let yourself think and feel like a woman, and out-source your self worth and validation, you are going to have a rough beta road.

RP works in its entirety because women are externally validated.

king_of_red_alphas · 2017-11-06T19:55:18+00:00

While I totally agree with the sentiment that needing or seeking validation from women as a source of happiness is dysfunctional, I always find these kind of declarations ironic when posted on TRP; a sub, if we are honest, that is primarily about how to get laid by women more effectively.

We can talk all we want about how TRP is about self improvement ETC, but there are plenty of subs and outlets to figure out how to lift, how to make money and how to dress. TRP is defined by its focus on 'sexual strategy'. Another way of saying 'getting laid’. Which itself is another way of saying 'getting validation from women’

The majority of people posting here derive pleasure from being desired by women, and would likely be unhappy if they were seen as unfuckable by them. Is that not desiring validation?

What we should really talk about is WHY it's so important to us to be desired by women that we come to a forum centered around learning how to game them and spend countless hours talking about this.

This existential view of TRP is not discussed enough IMO.

Personally, I've come to look at validation from women as a basic male need, but one that can be abused like a drug very easily. The rush of sex with a new girl, kissing a hot girl, even getting a number can't be denied.

The trick is understanding the transient nature of the pleasure, not in denying that such a 'need’ exists.

pohw · 2017-11-06T11:28:41+00:00

Interaction with the opposite sex should comprise 15 to 30 percent of your happiness, somewhere in between "I don't need women at all" to "I must have a woman." The same goes for validation. Relying too much on validation is bad. Pretending that it doesn't matter at all too radically contradicts the reproductive biological imperative and would only be something someone with a very low SMV would do anyway.

Title	Validation and emotional response
Author	hurklemcturklederk
Upvotes	32
Comments	18
Date	November 6, 2017 7:31 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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