Vermillion-Rx AMA

Yarmanite · 2025-04-04T08:07:07+00:00

I don't give a fuck to talk to anyone, I just want pussy, how get?

madxxvv · 2025-04-04T14:48:08+00:00

I've got a bunch of questions:

How has the TRP community evolved over the past eight years? And do you think it's right like how it's very popularized nowadays with all the weird ass content on the internet, the Tates and shit. And guys who haven't even read the sidebar once in their life going on in their life saying "I'm redpilled".
What were the biggest realizations that helped you go from struggling socially to mentoring others?
How did you train yourself to improve conversations and build a commanding presence with both men and women?
How do you balance TRP lessons with real life situations?
What are the most common mistakes guys make when they've just taken TRP? (basically new guys who just hopped into the sub, read a bit of the sidebar, took some action).
What would you say to a guy who's struggling with confidence and establishing dominance? (basically how can a pussy who gets ignored and shit go from that to giving commands, being respected etc)
What are the biggest myths about women and dating?
How do you personally handle long-term relationships vs casual dating?
How do you maintain frame in relationships without being overly rigid?
What’s your philosophy on mental toughness, discipline, and dealing with setbacks/ruts or failures?
What’s one thing you wish you had known earlier about personal growth and masculinity?
What are your top book or content recommendations for men trying to level up? ( i think you've answered this already)
Same as 12th one, what are the things you wished you knew when you were at your teens-young adult age (18). or What you wished you knew before turning 18.?
How can a guy stop overthinking so much of the possible outcomes when approaching a girl etc?

Ur_X · 2025-04-04T13:19:44+00:00

I see plenty of women in the street that I want to meet but for some reason I freeze about it. I don’t know what to say to them or how to break the ice. I come up with excuses like “they don’t want to be bothered” but I feel like I don’t take chances at all. How do I get out of my head? I have the skills to do it in a social setting but never on the street..

SuchAGoalDigger · 2025-04-04T08:57:06+00:00

How much do looks matter in cold-approach pickup?

swingjazz88 · 2025-04-04T13:27:55+00:00

Not a question really. Just wanted to share my experience.

I suspect myself to be on the neurodivergent spectrum, with mild Asperger's symptoms in my early 20s. Since I found out about the RedPill and the Game, in the first and second years of monk mode, it took a lot of trial and error for me to read social and emotional cues from anyone. I was skinny, had severe acne, social anxiety. But I forced myself to work in a front-line job since my third year, meditate daily, do shadow work therapy, and do regimented fitness and nutrition. I started practising day game in the fourth year.

By the end of the fifth year, I can pretty much mask myself as a normie, gained 35 lbs, and safe to say can do low-intermediate level games after years of unlearning unhelpful mindsets and habits. Mind you I live in a third-world country where Muslims dominate the population. Looking back, I seriously can't believe the darkness and hopelessness that I went through just to be "normal." My biggest hurdle was probably getting out of a "sperg" and logical headspace into a playfully amused one.

I can't even imagine how much more will it take to be top 20% in terms of LMS tbh. My sticking point in terms of the game now is the push-pull verbal game, the overdelicate dance between qualifying and disqualifying women, teasing and comfort, when to show Alpha and Beta qualities.

mister_k1 · 2025-04-04T16:41:34+00:00

the work you are doing is appreciated

_Montague · 2025-04-04T10:42:43+00:00

Hello, which authors except for Rolo Tomassi would you recommend, and which books? Are there any YouTube channels or other media you would also recommend? I already have my sources, but always like to expand my knowledge and get other opinions and perspectives on this subject. Greetings.

GivMeLiberty · 2025-04-04T21:08:20+00:00

My understanding of autism in short is that across the spectrum there are varying degrees of ability/inability to comprehend/process social/psychological cues. I’m not on the spectrum and just haven’t been exposed to autists very much in life, forgive me if I’m way off there.

If my understanding is generally correct, does that serve you any benefits socially? Either with women or life in general?

If my understanding is incorrect, please correct it. But then same question, does it serve you any benefits socially?

Visual_Relative_3984 · 2025-04-05T09:06:42+00:00

Is college education important

megamorphg · 2025-04-04T13:47:27+00:00

Do you have a heuristics (in nested logic format) for going from approach to sex? Really need to build one of those out, kind of similar to the chart in Daygame Blueprint.

j-mac-rock · 2025-04-04T15:46:47+00:00

How do i get out of my depression and start working again

kyle_fall · 2025-04-04T18:25:08+00:00

What's your favorite transformation you see in yourself as part of you red pill journey so far and if you could give 2 pieces of advice to the guy you were on Day 1 of that journey what would it be?

Ok-Imagination-2308 · 2025-04-04T19:59:20+00:00

How can I build confidence and game if I am seemingly constantly getting rejected?

Ive started working out recently to help with confidence and all that stuff but man my social skills just suck and I cant seem to get any wins with any girls. Do I just need to approach more until I start getting some wins?

dark108 · 2025-04-07T11:52:47+00:00

Dude you had ASD and bipolar? Crazy man, mad respect to you bro for what you have achieved and continue to…

senordustball · 2025-04-04T16:45:12+00:00

In your experience, what's the easiest place in the USA for pick up, what place has been the worst? I'm assuming you live in the USA, if not then wherever you've been.

jyqxeoba · 2025-04-04T19:44:50+00:00

Greetings from Eastern Europe! Why do you guys think this is some kind of pussy heaven? It is very westernized, just with somewhat lower quality of life.

bewdaj · 2025-04-05T07:05:34+00:00

How do I go about closing with a girl? I have no problem chatting with girls and being somewhat flirty I just have a big problem going from casual friendly to actual romance territory. Should i just be frank and say straight up "lets hook up" when she gives the good signals? And once you hook up how do I go from there to actually get her in bed?

I get kino is important at this phase which I feel really lost at. Do you have any good tips on how to initiate and escalate kino without it being weird and forced? I mean sometimes girls get all touchy on me in these casual situations like they just want me to feel them up right then and there but I just dont know how to respond accordingly.

I have come so far from not being able to even look at girls to now being very attractive to them and I feel like i am so close. Also an autism spectrum guy as you can probably tell so you know the struggles. I love it though! The struggle makes you strong. Oh and btw I only do day approaches since I dont drink alcohol so no night game. I have been considering trying night game though since it seems a lot of people have it easier there but I have a history with substance abuse so I dont really know if that is a good idea. What do you think?

Peace brother.

thotshavenopoweronme · 2025-04-05T20:09:09+00:00

How do i overcome approach anxiety

Desperate-Newspaper3 · 2025-04-06T18:33:16+00:00

What do you believe is an underrated method of improving yourself as a man?

jacobindigo · 2025-04-07T11:08:18+00:00

Man, what the fuck do I say when, a hot girl is standing infront of me, and there’s just that awkward moment of her expecting you to engage and pursue her?

I’m great at holding conversations but pretty bad at getting them started. At least in a really fun and intriguing way.

Broader question I suppose: how do I engage a conversation with women when there’s barely anything to go off and how do you direct it in a way that keeps the chemistry building and creating more attraction?

rpumike · 2025-04-11T01:21:44+00:00

What do you find most entertaining about being a mod?

Vermillion-Rx · 2025-04-04T07:05:03+00:00

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itscricrii · 2025-04-05T09:41:53+00:00

what do you do for work?

papertowelfreethrow · 2025-04-05T15:02:32+00:00

Not sure if asked already. I have consumed and integrated a lot of TRP principles over the last 8 years as well. I have had much success with women over the years. However, it seems like I have neglected gaming people in general. As in, when I go about my life in work and in leisure, how can I best game people, men or women, for them to like me and to want to be friends with me? I feel like this is a lot easier when you are trying to pull women because they fall for the jedi mind tricks. But I would like to apply these concepts with making friends and having a vibrant social life and not just getting laid, which fell off the wayside for me after leaving college a few years ago.

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KhaDori · 2025-04-13T20:44:34+00:00

For a pretty long time I’ve been wondering why do overwhelmingly vast majority of posts here, recent notable example would be the "Everything (and I do mean everything) you need to know about how to approach women" post by therealwoujo, take the “from the general to the specific”, or “top-down” approach to explaining how to interact with and seduce women, for the following reason -

In my job, part of my duties for a long-ish time was customer support. This wasn’t a simple “just restart your PC” support, but a place where I was contacted by people who had real problems with a complex system they paid money for, which in turn caused them to lose money, time etc., which caused many tense, contentious and difficult interactions. By the end of my time in that role, I’ve gotten very, very, VERY good at navigating these interactions, reading subtle cues which tell you “how far you can push”, reading someone's wording choices to know how much it will take to appease them etc. I started at the bottom, then became the manager of that department, then I basically “cleared that stage” and was moved to a more analytical role thanks to my skill at this, at the end I easily was the best in the company at this. I’ve never done anything like that professionally before. However, the way I learned to expertly navigate these interactions was directly opposite to what TRP offers re: interacting with women, meaning there were no general/philosophical guides that had loose rules which you had to read and “off you go buddy, figure it out”.I would break down my learning process into 3 stages:

Stage 1 - You don’t know anything. You have to rely on your more experienced friends. They tell you: In situation A, THIS IS EXACTLY WORD FOR WORD WHAT YOU SAY. In situation B, THIS IS EXACTLY WORD FOR WORD WHAT YOU SAY. In situation C, THIS IS (...)

Stage 2 - After a while you’ve learned all known/important situations, your pattern recognition starts to kick in. A new situation D occurs, oh no, what do I do? Wait a minute, this is just situation B with a slight variation, so let me just do the same thing. A new situation E occurs, oh no, what do I do? Wait a minute, this is just situation C with a kicker, if someone verbalises that kicker I have to give more concessions but otherwise I can proceed exactly as I do with C etc.

Stage 3, the final one - By clustering the patterns I learned in stage 2, I now have a set of general rules that I can use as a baseline for navigating each situation very well, with necessary adjustments made on the fly to achieve optimum. Example general rules - “do your best not to engage the customer in an intellectual debate”, “do not bring up the TOS unless the situation gets extremely adversarial”, “Do your best not to lie, but there are exceptions where it is the better solution” and such.

As I hope you can see, this is perfectly translatable to the world of interacting with women, however - it would seem that all? posts we’re getting basically amount to just dumping “stage 3” common-sense rules, with zero actionable advice, which makes them be of questionable usefulness. In order to finally change that, I wonder if something like the following idea could feasibly be organised:

Let’s take 20/30/50/whatev members who attained mastery at pulling women, and that we know for sure aren’t LARPing (I definitely do not believe that commonly flung detraction, however some posts here do make my faith waver a bit lol). Let’s have each of them write up let’s say 5-10 pulls they made and remember well. However, with the focus on the following: What did you say as the opener, EXACTLY? What did you talk about, EXACTLY? If you had some shit tests and you passed them, what were they and your answers EXACTLY? If you remember some notable lines you used, what were they EXACTLY? How did you frame the interaction sexually EXACTLY? When it came time to escalate, how did you do that EXACTLY? (...)

To create a kind of a book of examples, from which everyone can learn and pattern recognize on their own.

I wondered whether I should make it a standalone post or ask you here first, went with the latter for now, what do you think?

edjohn88 · 2025-04-19T13:14:38+00:00

Is there still a discord? I need a bit more social contact with clear heads...

Pleasant_Tie_1953 · 2025-04-05T05:49:55+00:00

Hey Vermillion, I remembered awhile ago I made a 1 and a half hour voice memo to a girl I messed up with. I explained why I liked her and apologized for scaring her but I decided to no longer contact any further to not let the pain get even worse. I really liked her, I was very pushy, reflecting..I was even very impatient with how I went through with things and it’s embarrassing to even reveal on here..what critique may I get from this dude? My mind and heart hurts thinking about not having her in my life and I even sometimes cry about it..

Title	Vermillion-Rx AMA
Author	Vermillion-Rx
Upvotes	57
Comments	108
Date	April 4, 2025 7:05 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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