Virgin here, need help.

isthatyourdaughter · 2014-07-17T13:24:17+00:00

i never had a long term girlfriend, still a virgin, and never kissed before.

No matter what else you do, don't tell anyone any of this information, especially girls. Keep it to yourself, under pain of (social) death. When you do manage to get rid of your v card, don't tell that girl, either. And DONT commit to anything with that first girl, either. She's practice.

Listen, if it happens with a hooker, that's fine. You won't be the first guy in history. Or you could find yourself a friendly shy girl who's cute enough to fuck. Unless you're a complete social outcast, there's probably one or two girls you know or your friends/family knows who likes you enough to do something. But try to remember, sex isn't supposed to be a big deal. Just relax, find somebody, and do what you have to. It won't be spectacular for you or her, that's how that first time goes for everybody. Don't make a big production out of it or apologize. Just smile and go with the flow.

And for God's sakes, remember to bring and use condoms.

Maaahoney · 2014-07-17T13:27:22+00:00

I wouldn't suggest sharing that with women. Share with your guy friends, they might be able to help you.

If this is bothering you, which it appears to be, get a prostitute. You'll realize sex is no big deal and not worth any form of stress or depression. Just wrap it up, and have fun with the experience.

Vendetta36 · 2014-07-18T12:49:14+00:00

I was in the same boat as you so I can share some insight. In my experience, it would be wise not to tell girls you are a virgin if you just want to get it over with. I was rejected outright multiple times simply because I was a virgin; that's the truth.

Looking online might work for you. It worked for me but it took awhile to find someone. Don't be discouraged if it doesn't happen right away, with enough time and effort it will happen. Also realize that if your first time isn't great, it's ok. There will be other girls. I'd say the biggest thing I learned when I finally had sex was that it is really fun but it wasn't as big a deal as I'd made it out to be in my head beforehand. Afterwards I felt much more confident and was able to seal the deal with another girl that I started dating.

Another piece of advice I'd give you: use condoms, especially with girls you meet randomly or online.

TRPCypher · 2014-07-18T02:14:57+00:00

Yes, get a hooker. And spend some decent money on a nice looking one too. Get it out of the way or this hang-up will destroy your confidence long term. And don't buy into this bullshit about paying for it being immoral. Feminist hogwash. Practice your game on her, which will be easy since you don't give a shit and aren't trying to win her over.

theozoph · 2014-07-17T12:10:50+00:00

Lift, read, learn, socialize.

Details in the sidebar.

Subtletorious · 2014-07-17T10:10:39+00:00

Have you read the side panel?

Have you done any self-improvement?

You won't learn anything from hookers.

hohamocha · 2014-07-17T18:18:10+00:00

Just start getting as big and lean as you can. And stop being a nice guy, tease girls, insult them, pretend like you could care less about them. Do not smile much.

I would tell you to do a cycle of trenbolone or something, but I'd get downvoted to hell.

If you're still a virgin by age 24, go to a hooker.

Getting laid needs to be the top priority in your head right now. Everything you do should be about increasing your SMV. Right now nature hates you because you aren't doing/ have done your cheif foremost purpose. Get laid by your own efforts before your lizard brain decides that you need to commit suicide.

Catmandoes · 2014-07-17T09:18:31+00:00

Why spend the money to go places to meet chicks when you have some in your own town that want the D? Just go out to a bar with some friends and meet some women.

GraphicSeniorNudity · 2014-07-18T03:25:13+00:00

If you don't feel confident enough in your game to lie about/sidestep/keep secret your sexual history, then why would a hooker help?

Losing it to a hooker is as much, if not more, of a social stigma than being a virgin. They only thing that you could gain from it is sexual experience. And if you manage to get that far with some tinder girl it doesn't matter anyway.

But if you think you're hung up on this enough to need to get it over with just for your own confidence or mental health, then shit, go for it.

CDBaller · 2014-07-17T19:25:57+00:00

Women don't care about inexperience. If you don't want her to know, don't tell her. I lost mine to my current GF about a month ago and she didn't care. Just take things step by step. Drink, talk, socialize, kiss, etc. Don't feel pressured. Just portray pure confidence.

Title	Virgin here, need help.
Author	GreatTitan
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	July 17, 2014 8:42 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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