Why I no longer read TRP.

Moldy_Gecko · 2015-03-21T09:18:04+00:00

I think your first mistake was thinking It's all about women. Self improvement just naturally brings women. So, the TRP focus is self improvement, and the women are what come with it. That being said, it sounds like you could fit in well with the /r/MGTOW subset of TRP.

redarkane · 2015-03-21T07:57:42+00:00

Women are a waste of time imo. Having gotten cheated on by someone who I thought truly loved me after a span of a three year relationship, I've finally realized they women are like leeches. They take take take. There's so much more to life than relationships and fucking.

_whistler · 2015-03-21T09:16:46+00:00

Posts like this should really be called something like "I Got Stuck at Level 2 and Rage Quit". Reading it is a waste of time.

Read the sidebar instead. Then check out some of the top posts. Realize that it's not all about "getting pussies".

RXRob · 2015-03-21T09:23:49+00:00

But TRP is about far more than sex.

TRP is primarily focused on self improvement.

Reading is not the same as understanding.

Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth · 2015-03-21T08:18:36+00:00

"Getting pussies is fun but guess what, they all have the same taste."

I disagree.

30303030303030 · 2015-03-21T10:03:28+00:00

Redpill is not about getting women.

It looks like it is because majority of men coming in here do not have women and they are working to change that. It's the first need that has to be taken care of. Life without sex is almost unbearable. Once you have that, you move on to bigger things.

I was not surprised to learn that this post, is your only contribution to /r/theredpill

Gekko463 · 2015-03-21T12:30:53+00:00

I have a woman to clean my house. I have another who shops for me. Another woman takes care of my admin and household management. I have employed a few regular very young and attractive sugar babies as well, to take care of my dick, on call if I feel like it. Sometimes I actually make an effort and fuck a few for free if I feel like it. I am a salesman at heart, thus I flirt on Autopilot.

They are all on the payroll and their personal problems are not mine.

I have completely replaced wife/girlfriend with part time employees.

And I highly recommend it. Pussies all taste different. I live in SEA and I've tasted plenty.

I get my work done, and enjoy my own hobbies and intellectual pursuits the rest (80%) of my time.

Thank you Red Pill.

csehszlovakze · 2015-03-21T09:22:17+00:00

Good point, women shouldn't be the only aspect of your life. In my BP days this was my only concern, looking for blogs endlessly, even practicing a bit here and there with varying success. Since I found the manosphere - a local site first, then AVFM, Thumotic (thanks to /u/JonFrost25 for the site) which led me here. Since that I started climbing out of another wave of depression, all my social interactions improved, far more self confidence. Also, now I can reject neoliberalism cause I realized how it really works. Most of my thinking process has changed. This is the first time in my life that I'm sure I can be a happy guy, happy w/o giving up myself. I'm staying because there's more to this sub than women and sex, so many other interesting topics come up which are also politically incorrect yet still true.

RPMahoutsukai · 2015-03-21T09:43:32+00:00

TRP is not only about pussy though? TRP got me so far in life, women were only small part of the overall change.

dr_warlock · 2015-03-21T10:22:06+00:00

This is why learning about the reality of inter-gender dynamics is so important. After a boy's first wank, sex becomes a common thought in his head. Girls become a fixation. You put so much time and effort into getting in her pants, sometimes placing yourself worth upon your abilty to get laid. Most guys fail time and time again and sometimes wind in places like this subreddit. Here, they get a peak behind the curtain. Eager to test our theories, he experiments. To his astonishment, it works consistently. After awhile, this new reality becomes internalized, he doesnt have to fake it. What was once a fantasy has now become a regular occurrence. But what now? Why isn't he as happy as he thought he would be? Isn't this the ultimate dream? Men go through all this trouble learning how to get easy lays just to realize in the end, women dont really matter... He is now free.

Loki_Is_God · 2015-03-21T08:10:35+00:00

Exactly this.

I just started doing this Reddit thing recently. I first learned about female nature and psychology a bit over two years ago. Read a lot, prob had pretty common reactions, though I also was a bit different in that I can say, looking back I realized that as bad as it seemed at the time, my divorce was relatively quick, pain-free, and inexpensive compared to what most men go thru, and the first and only gf I've had since was as close to the mythical NAWALT as I've ever seen. I went a period of time where I actively avoided all contact with females, to the point of being very brusque with waitresses and not using 2 words if one would do.

I still don't bother with 'dating', since its something chumps do to try and buy their way into a woman's pants, but I don't actively avoid interacting any more. Nor do I make any real attempt to fuck them. I'm too busy focusing on myself. Self-improvement (hit the gym 4-7 days a week, depending on hours worked and where I'm at), speeding up my financial recovery from the hole my ex-wife caused, learning new skills and hobbies, picking up old hobbies, and just generally finding whatever enjoyment I can in life.

I've thrown off all the bullshit society conditioned me to believe. I don't white knight, I don't pedestalize pussy, I don't live to be a utility for anyone else, and I most certainly don't base my self-worth on whether or not I have a female in my life.

If you enjoy chasing pussy, go for it. If you enjoy drinking beer and fishing with your friends, go for it. If you enjoy smoking weed and playing video games, or frying on acid or other hallucinogens and watching marathons of Regular Show, Adventure Time, Wizards, and Heavy Metal, by all means, go for it.

_psylock · 2015-03-21T09:01:13+00:00

TRP is supposed to be a self improvement philosophy more than anything else, it's just a means to an end. What you do in the end is up to you.

sterlinghtsmi · 2015-03-21T09:53:25+00:00

If you're going to focus more on improving yourself start with your grammar. And stop trying to control people by telling them what you want them to do.

fentrix2 · 2015-03-21T12:12:26+00:00

Don't be dependent of that shit, focus on your life, your job most of all. Your health, your friends, your hobbies.

I do think this message is put out here, but it seems to get lost a lot in the wave of "I'm a bitch and my bitch isn't in line" posts.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-03-21T13:29:08+00:00

I've always thought that the idea of chasing women as a form of lifestyle is as bad as the sluts people mock. Dependent on external validation.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-03-21T13:21:28+00:00

Unfortunately we live in a world of low quality of BOTH men and women.

Low quality men we call "Beta" that seem clueless of the male-female Heirarchy that Red Pill helps us to understand. We can fix that by improving ourselves. ("Kill the Beta")

But as far as low quality women (women who have no Game, throw constant Shit Tests, think they are the leader and generally lack any Charm) we have little influence in improving them other than withdrawing or punishing bad behavior through a strong Frame.

If all the women studied /r/RedPillWomen and were really Charming the quality would go up and things would be better. If that were to occur there would be a point were Red Pill would no longer be needed.

Until the Misandry Bubble pops and women relearn Charm we need to keep reminding ourselves that the road ahead is long.

There are larger issues in Red Pill than immediate gratification.

And if you get bored here you can go to:

/r/DarkEnlightenment

...which covers politics, philosophy, history, etc.

i2amahandmodel · 2015-03-21T12:44:57+00:00

A man only needs to measure his happiness by the quality of his life. A woman needs to measure her happiness by the quality of man in her life.

alexinikita · 2015-03-21T12:52:14+00:00

So, you leveled up to realize some things like women don't matter. Congrats. Keep going

Spitfire6 · 2015-03-21T13:42:16+00:00

All woman are different, some want to be objects others dont, that all comes down to what you both agree is comfortable.

frrunkis · 2015-03-21T11:32:50+00:00

How many women have you slept with and how old are you?

Title	Why I no longer read TRP.
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Upvotes	22
Comments	38
Date	March 21, 2015 7:36 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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