35 Year old carousel rider complains about getting cheated on, abused and pregnant by multiple men

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2020-01-05T22:24:12+00:00

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askmrcia · 2020-01-05T23:11:16+00:00

A few other relationships happened along the way that weren't really traumatizing

So I know this individual personally. Straight out of her own mouth over drinks one day "I had a slut phase in my 20s"

Also for context, she wrote this after her pro athlete "boyfriend" cheated on her. This boyfriend she KNEW during her marriage and they started dating as soon as the divorce happened.

She left a lot of things out of the blog to make it look like she did nothing wrong in what type of guys she was going after.

RRFdev · 2020-01-06T01:56:37+00:00

My personal analysis...highlighting important parts cause it's too long.

Throughout my teenage years I was so wrapped up in my eating disorders and sports that dating wasn't really a thing.

Damaged, from the start.

I had a million guy friends but I really didn't date.

Listen. Guys do not have females as friends, unless the female is really pleasant and has qualities as a friend. This girl is damaged. Damaged women attract nice guys and betas whose prime strategy for mating is to present themselves as 'friends' while orbiting her.

Also take note. If a woman mostly has guy friends, that's a big red flag. That means she repels other women, and the guys are just there because they are orbiters plotting secretly to fuck her.

Then I got to college, a Christian college

A college that is no doubt 100 percent her parents forced her to go, because its Christian. Religious parents are dictators, they don't encourage their children to grow on their own. Religion isn't something to follow out of their own will but forced upon them because mommy and daddy says so. Whatever chances a damaged girl has to fix herself is ruined by her religious upbringing.

and I met HIM, super cute, blah blah blah....

Guys, pay very close attention to this. This is how a girl describes a guy she is genuinely attracted to. Like "I wanna have your babies" attracted, like "I love you forever and ever" attracted, not settling down to have a family attracted.

His cuteness is the FIRST thing she mentioned, not his job, not his stability, not his money, not his status, not his nice guy personalities. His sexual attraction. Literally.

Be handsome. Don't be ugly. Be handsome.

Against my entire family's wishes I moved to FL for him.

Be a dictator to your daughter and she will still defy you for Chad in the end. You had never instilled values on why she shouldn't go for this type of guy, only that she shouldn't because she'll make you mad.

Also, pay close attention to this behavior. A woman will boss you around if you are beta bux material. But here, since she is genuinely attracted to this guy, she submits to him, she obeys him and is willing to follow him to the ends of the Earth.

If she doesn't submit to you and doesn't respect you in a relationship, she is not into you.

It only took a few months before HE started hitting me. Cutting me off from communication with all friends and family, and controlling me. Then the cheating started. I would say over the course of 2 years it was at least 6 women that I knew about.

Women who are genuinely attracted to a man will not only submit to him but will put up with him abusing her. Take note of this, gentlemen. This is just like the behavior of serfs and peasants abused by their knights and lords in a feudal society - ironically chivalry in practice. He is above her in the relationship, so he gets the free pass to act abusive to his partner.

This is the same if you are a beta bux husband in a typical relationshit cohabitation/marriage. Watch Terrence Popp's Redonkulas videos on how husbands get ordered around as a handyman by his wife, do all of the house chores, do all the work to get money while the wife does nothing, and denied sex and get cheated on. See the parallelism here?

Also this girl is damaged and comes from a religious family. Her parents were already dictators, so she puts up with her partner being a dictator to her as well. Like begets like, damaged women attract men who like to damage women further.

But I couldn't do anything, ...

Bull fucking shit. She can call the cops. She can leave the house. But she won't, because tingles. Once again a reminder that women will put up with you abusing them if they are attracted to you.

I moved back to Ohio, got a job, had put on a bunch of weight, blah blah blah

An already damaged girl who has been further damaged by the relationship now shows her symptoms in full force. She begins to expand sideways and becomes a typical fat, bitter alpha widow.

(At this point I wish I could just use OCR to easily quote the rest, but it doesn't matter)

I ended up pregnant with ___ after about a year and a half after moving home and this being the second relationship I was ever in. To be truthful I was not mature enough to handle that. ___ dad is a phenomenal person, blah blah blah.

Yeah, just stop right there. It's already humiliating enough for a guy that a girl doesn't refer to you as handsome. No, she refers to him as a phenomenal person instead and a great dad. How's that for a humiliation as a beta bux provider?

For alpha widows, there are only three recourses for them, 1 - play with cats, 2 - repeat the cycle with more hawt Chads who she will submit to and put up with getting abused, 3 - seek a beta Bux guy. For 3, she will seek marriage really fast, and then leave the marriage just as fast with the most inane and stupid of hamstering. "To be truthful I wasn't mature enough", yeah right. Bull fucking shit.

and I am glad he found and has his current wife and family.

Take note here. A woman who was never genuinely into you and only saw you as beta bux....will not feel sad over you separating from her. In fact, she feels good about it. If you want a further confirmation that the second guy is a beta bux, here it is.

A few other relationships happened along the way that weren't terribly traumatizing.

A few other beta bux guys she sought. Or wait.....hold on....here we gooooooooooooooo......

Let me just say after __ dad I think Ever. Single. Guy. I was in a relationship with cheated on me.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! So the subsequent relationships were with Chads after all! Of course in her mind the cheating weren't terribly traumatizing anymore, cause she's used to it. The damage accumulates further.

I had tried being the "cool" girlfriend, super laid back, ok with whatever. I have tried being the "psycho" jealous, insecure, going through phones...They all result in the same outcome.

One she has never tried is to stop being a slave to Chads and seek a symbiotic relationship with a partner who is her equal so there is a check and balance against one abusing and cheating on the other.

Also stop fucking damaging herself further by getting fat and accumulating STDs and traumatizing her brain with abusive relationships.

Then I met ___ dad. It was very shortly after a breakup and I probably rushed into it. But he was just too perfect to pass on.

Take note of this. Women who are genuinely attracted to you will rush to fuck you and have a relationship with you. No three dates rule bullshit. No first kiss only on the first date bullshit.

We drank and partied a lot and I ended up pregnant pretty quickly.

This is also bullshit. She tried to pregnancy-trap this guy as part of her asenal to capture a Hawttttt Chad, and it blew up on her face as usual.

Now listen you cannot have a child out of wedlock in my world, let alone another child out of wedlock with a different father. Gasp!

But when another Hawwwwwwwwwwwwttt Chaddasaurus Rex comes prowling and roaring, all rules are thrown in the shitter and you restart your pregnancy trap strategy all over again.

I was reminded of this during this past week when I had a family member talk crap about me to my sister, blah blah blah.

So her family are enemies to her. Take note, a damaged woman comes from a damaged family. But it's already apparent earlier on when I pointed out that her parents are dictators.

It's 2019 Peter Pan, grow up.

Shaming language. Ad hominem. Not really at all covering the fact that she defies her religion, damages herself, allows herself to get abused, drinks, parties, fornicates and has bastard children.

Back to it - Our relationships had a lot of ups and downs, and struggles. I think he and I can both agree that we got married a little too quickly. Yet I still do not regret it. We separated last year

A woman, especially a damaged alpha widow woman, will marry a beta bux quickly, ironically in the same fashion as her fucking a Chad quickly. She will just as quickly divorce that man because "bored", and other bullshit excuses. Also she won't feel anything from the separation, compared to her endlessly reminiscing about Chad even while getting fucked by other men.

How do I deal with this, you ask? Eating. My. Feelings. Yes, and I also like to go drink with my friends to take my mind off things.

And this is why alpha widows always look fat and drunk. Also take note of the absolute lack of any productive hobbies she has. Even her coping mechanism to supposedly fix herself reeks of hedonism and further self-damage.

Not sure if you all know this. If you are a mom you are not allowed to ...

Nah. You are not a Mom. You are a slut, a bastard child sirer, a sinner, a fat lard, and basically someone who doesn't respect herself. That is why you feel shame and feel you are not allowed to be yourself.

Ehhh my fingers are tired, the rest is not really quotable. You know the rest. The viscous cycle repeats over and over.

TaxMeJersey · 2020-01-05T23:11:57+00:00

"Grew up dealing with my eating disorders"...... LOL, eating lots of cocks is bad for you.

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2020-01-05T23:59:24+00:00

I am so sick and tired of women using the "eating disorder" as an EXCUSE for just about everything!

NickTesla2018 · 2020-01-05T23:05:13+00:00

Good old Chad Thunderdong strikes again. They never learn.

moorekom · 2020-01-06T01:12:35+00:00

I do not process pain or hurt the way most do. I eat. And eat.

Sorry to burst your bubble sweetheart. Eating is the most common thing people who are depressed resort to. Although you would like to believe the contrary, you are not special. And you are certainly not tough, even if you are pretending to be for appearance's sake. Most of your misery was your own doing and although you claim that you do not want any pity, you are certainly painting yourself as the victim with your "I had the best of intentions. Life fucked me." narrative, which is, again, a common excuse from whores who lack self control.

EvilKlownz2 · 2020-01-06T03:07:22+00:00

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KingRobotPrince · 2020-01-05T23:05:19+00:00

"If everywhere you go it smells like shit..."

BluepillProfessor · 2020-01-06T20:52:00+00:00

He beat the shit out of me every day.

Really? Tell me more! We may have a prize fighter who can take a real punch! I saw yesterday a dude punched another guy one time and is now in prison for manslaughter. People DIE when men punch them. Every day? Beat the shit out of her.

OK, sure darling. That happened.

I tried being super cool...I tried being psycho jealous

But you never thought to try being an honest, sweet, loving girlfriend? Never?

Also, pro tip for Y'all. If you chase Chad who "all the girls love" then the chances of him being faithful to you are around 0%. You might be able to hook him for marriage and tie him down but guys with options, top of the shelf, almost always cheat. Because they can. And that is who she relentlessly pursues. ONLY those guys.

Falln2pieces · 2020-01-06T13:51:19+00:00

I couldn't even finish reading it because I know girls like this. They over exaggerate and make up bullshit to make themselves look better. My favorite part is when they want pity for staying around for all the abuse, if there was abuse.

otakuzod · 2020-01-06T21:46:25+00:00

Somebody else here put it succinctly. This is what a damaged Alpha Widow looks like.

RunawayGrain · 2020-01-06T17:40:12+00:00

Yeah, when the friends and family are trying to tell them not to do it, it's like waving crack in front of a junkie.

SawsRUs · 2020-01-07T04:29:21+00:00

I wonder why her family didnt approve? they are probably just woman haters

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2020-01-06T04:01:59+00:00

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boytjie · 2020-01-06T13:40:15+00:00

I think its all bullshit by the standard tropes that are invoked. It was copied verbatim from that well-known feminist text, “All men are monsters and all women are victims”.

MRMRising · 2020-01-06T18:15:08+00:00

For a church going girl, she sure does drink and get knocked up out of wedlock a lot.

dwc151 · 2020-01-07T02:52:29+00:00

Laxative abuse? That's a thing?

BluepillProfessor · 2020-01-06T04:05:02+00:00

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alexanderthegroovy · 2020-01-06T02:25:23+00:00

It's almost like humans aren't meant to be monogamous.

Title	35 Year old carousel rider complains about getting cheated on, abused and pregnant by multiple men
Author	askmrcia
Upvotes	105
Comments	53
Date	January 5, 2020 9:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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