"As a young single mom, this thread is really depressing." Admits child's father was "schizophrenic and abusive".

UmbrellalikeWetness · 2018-11-16T15:33:47+00:00

She just can't fathom another viewpoint. Literally no ability to empathize.

Which is of course hilariously hypocritical from the gender that loves to claim they're so much better at emotional connection. Turns out... only when they already agree with you.

boisdevie · 2018-11-16T16:01:15+00:00

I don't people suddenly become abusive with mental health problems. I call bullshit. 'Abusive' is a bullshit word that many women use to mean 'he didn't do what I wanted' and I doubt the guy was actually diagnosed for mental health issues.

She chose poorly and now faces the consequences of her own actions. Bit like being a grown up then.

escalover · 2018-11-16T18:34:21+00:00

Man, this is great to see.

Men are getting woke as fuck.

Single moms, if a man is willing to date you, you should be

Humble
Appreciative
Accomodating
Eager to show your appreciation

LewisCross · 2018-11-16T17:27:52+00:00

The woman explains why she "just had to leave" her kids' father.

"Father slowly became [schizophrenic] and abusive."

Bullshit. He was ALWAYS schizophrenic and abusive. He was schizo and abusive before you ever fucked him, on your first date, and during your premarital relationship. You just chose not to see it or you overlooked it or you didn't pay close enough attention.

He was always mentally ill/ a man of poor character. You chose to overlook it because tingles. In fact it's men of poor character and mentally ill men who produce the most tingles in women.

It's always the same. "It isn't my fault, it is never my fault, I didn't cause it, it's all the man's fault, he's crazy, he's abusive, he's this , he's that...."

It is your fault for letting him knock you up. It is your fault for giving in to your tingles. It is your fault for having a kid with him. It is your fault for choosing him. Sorry not sorry.

harharry · 2018-11-16T16:16:06+00:00

If you drink, drive and crash it’s your fault.

This lady can’t take personal responsibility for her decisions. Besides what man would want to take care of a child fathered by a schizophrenic and “abusive” man in the first place?

Seems like a colossal waste of time.

LewisCross · 2018-11-16T19:11:42+00:00

Translate the women's statements:

"Wow, this thread is really revealing. Men are on to us. Men have figured out that we single moms really just want beta simp chumps to write checks and pay the bills.

"Men have figured out that "be a father figure" and "take on a parental/father role" for my kids means "start financing the lifestyle I want and make up my ex husband's/babydaddy's shortfalls". Men have figured out that when we say "relationship", we mean "you bring resources for my use and exploitation, I bring... nothing".

"You mean, men don't really want to write checks and pay bills for us? You mean, these uggo beta simps want sex from us like our baby daddies/ex husbands did? You mean we're going to have to start acting like wives to these simps? We're going to have to give up sex BEFORE we ~~fraud these guys into marriage~~ get serious with them? Shit. SHIT.

"Shit. The jig is up, girls. What new things do we need to say to keep this fraud going so the next crop of upcoming beta simps don't figure this out? Are we actually going to have to, um, start having sex with these men? Do we need to expend our BJ skills on these guys? Welp, better invest in some good weed and coke to numb up so we can suck these guys' cocks, I guess."

PuleaSpataru69 · 2018-11-16T18:36:34+00:00

If the dad is schizophrenic there's a good chance the kids will be too.

Chiliresident · 2018-11-16T22:15:19+00:00

I am going to go against the grain here. The last underlined comment (other than the schitzo excuse) from her is dead on. She is acutely aware of her RMV now with a kid in tow.

Regular readers of this sub are aware the modern brain dead woman always puts the cart before the horse. They can’t or won’t vet their baby daddies by logical criteria. They only want non-baby daddies to raise their bastards. Everything in 2018 is bass ackwards.

kyledontcare · 2018-11-17T06:10:11+00:00

Also, remember: In some places lending assistance or doing something for a single mother can make you liable for child support at a judge's order even if you never even had sex with her, or lived with her, and even if you can show 100% it's not your child.

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2018-11-17T05:11:26+00:00

Schizophrenia runs in the familia, homes!

kyledontcare · 2018-11-17T06:05:55+00:00

Speaking of responsibility the perfect thing to do would be to stay away from jerks and keep her legs closed. But even that was too much for her. And going forward there's no guarantee she'll show better judgement and jump some other guy's bones in the future.

kyledontcare · 2018-11-18T23:23:16+00:00

"The father was abusive." She must have liked the beatings and choking while fantasizing about future rape sex with him. Stupid slut.

SeawardLips · 2018-11-20T18:03:08+00:00

Funny how she never answered the question if she would date a single guy with kids.

I saw that question asked 3-4 times.

throwaway323450 · 2018-11-17T01:55:12+00:00

Let's hope none of you ever end up with an abusive partner.

Title	"As a young single mom, this thread is really depressing." Admits child's father was "schizophrenic and abusive".
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	86
Comments	47
Date	November 16, 2018 3:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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