Men can't love

houseoftolstoy · 2020-12-19T20:09:46+00:00

I wonder why so many men are "emotionally unavailable" to women these days. Maybe it is reactions like this! Punishing men for actions women claim to want just makes men not only choose to do the opposite (i.e. what works), it also makes them no longer trust women.

But not all women do that! - some women protest. Perhaps that is the case, but how are we to know who is sincere and who is not among women? For many men, the answer is becoming "who cares?" Ultimately opening up emotionally to a woman has more negative outcomes than positive, so men will opt for the answer that does not lead to sexual frustration.

EvilKlownz2 · 2020-12-19T07:43:05+00:00

It's this toxic attitude by WOMEN that men fear talking about anything that has to do with feelings and mental health. Meanwhile women post " I'm not feeling pretty today" and people run to correct her and feed her ego.

Buchwild · 2020-12-19T09:07:57+00:00

It's almost like, and bear with me, that women are the toxic ones and not men you know? It's almost like the whole toxic masculinity thing is just projection?

2020-12-19T08:36:06+00:00

Bless her. I love and respect women. Such tender hearts. Cant imagine life without their softness and love. It would be a very cruel place indeed.

Chemical_Debt_6127 · 2020-12-19T12:20:57+00:00

Opening up to women is a big turn off to most women and turns them dry. If you need to open up, do that to close male friends.

DevilMF · 2020-12-19T09:01:47+00:00

Pretty much why men don’t show emotion, as BB said we only get burned. And it’s proven everyday.

0mrcynic0 · 2020-12-19T09:23:38+00:00

It's not gay for her if the line was this: "I'd want you to be my hoe tonight so that I can fuck all of your holes."

Jake4523 · 2020-12-19T09:39:53+00:00

And women why men won't interact with them anymore. Look no further.

evergreen35 · 2020-12-19T13:48:48+00:00

Actually: The hardest Red Pill for most guys to swallow is that Women are INCAPABLE of loving Men.

More information HERE

IdrinkandIknowXL · 2020-12-19T07:55:26+00:00

And this fool wants to marry?

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-12-19T15:01:15+00:00

woman: men need to step up and show emotion!!!!

man: I'm almost in tears how much I love you..

woman: OMG NO NOT LIKE THAT SHOW ME GOOD EMOTIONS ONLY EW EW GAYYYYYYYYYYYY

-Fateless- · 2020-12-19T11:35:58+00:00

Well, I guess love is only for us gay men. F in chat for all the straight guys out there.

BantamNorton · 2020-12-19T13:13:46+00:00

Given what men sacrifice for their women and children... love is definitely a male trait.

On the flip side, in my experience it is an exceptional woman who loves anything but money, her pets, and her offspring (yes, that is the order of importance I have seen).

tthisisalljustatestt · 2020-12-20T08:50:51+00:00

Love is actually a masculine trait.

Women cannot love men unless the men do something for them (give them security, feefees etc). It is MEN who love women unconditionally. Men will literally die for their woman.

Women cannot love without a benefit attached, aka they cannot love at all.

Alternative-Ad-1464 · 2020-12-19T11:51:56+00:00

Never share your feeling with people that didnt proofe theire trustworthynes.

Diogenes-- · 2020-12-19T14:38:29+00:00

It's halfway true. I could never love the spoiled, narcissistic, privileged, delusional, hateful, emotionally stunted, alcoholic, baggage-ridden, kids-in-tow, diseased, garbage that women have become in the past ~50 years.

withrowsprings · 2020-12-19T15:25:56+00:00

Nah...Dump him sis.

Find yourself a HVM.

What did he do to get this punishment in life anyway.

bruh_what_the_f · 2020-12-19T21:32:34+00:00

It's so fucking absurd that women want men to be the ravenous creatures we have to be to the world to them as well, the fact that we constantly have to put up a facade of pure brutality is the reason men's suicide rate is so high.

If I can't be vulnerable to the one person who is supposed to entrust themselves to me, then why not just make yourself your caretaker, since they aren't willing to provide any type of support whatsoever? Your literally trading your life, financially, emotionally, opportunely to fuck one person who benefits you in no other way, might as well try your hand at the pickup game.

I_CAPE_RUNTS · 2020-12-20T01:49:56+00:00

Imagine being the lucky guy that gets to come home to that enchanting seductress

Savinasauce · 2020-12-20T17:58:58+00:00

This post is the ultimate example of how today's dating/relationship scene is stet up to favor female hypocrisy and their fickle nature. If you are strong and assertive then you will get the usual feminist shaming language and all of the accusations of "toxic masculinity" but if you show that you have any feelings at all you will be ridiculed and exploited. I recently got into it with several women just like this on a different sub who were arguing that sending roses to a woman that you are dating is "creepy" Women have killed romance. It's okay though, they will get theirs down the road and nobody will have any sympathy for them when they are 75 and dying in bed with their 15 cats.

scholarofpain · 2020-12-20T18:19:33+00:00

Imagine though... After two maybe three years of being together she'll be pressuring him to marry her. Threatening to pull the relationship if they don't get married, citing "Anon we've been together for two years and you havent proposed!".

Just remember guys, you can't please a woman. There is no situation where she will be deep down positive, happy and accepting. You will constantly live under scrutiny. You will have more negativity in your life. Don't believe women can't be pleased? Next time a woman in your life is having a problem, offer her suggestions to fix it. You'll suddenly see not even a simple problem has a possible solution in the thousand you could suggest.

atmus11 · 2020-12-19T15:34:10+00:00

She needs to be thrown out like trash.

MrNeurotypical · 2020-12-20T04:17:53+00:00

Sounds like my mom: "if it's not broken or bleeding, you're not allowed to cry". When I was 5 of course.

orcrist747 · 2020-12-19T16:09:26+00:00

Yep. There is only alpha and everything else.

kyledontcare · 2020-12-21T03:36:25+00:00

When she's 38 and no man she'll be crying over this.

coloradocaniac · 2020-12-19T22:00:47+00:00

The All-American Rejects - Gives You Hell (Full Narrative Version) - YouTube

This is my response to the "lady" at the bottom.

motorbiker1985 · 2020-12-19T22:36:10+00:00

Someone clearly has huge daddy issues...

Aldabruzzo · 2020-12-21T15:03:08+00:00

bUt YoU sHouLD ShOw GiRlZ YoUr feELiNGs cUz ThAt'S sO sExY

Women: "Men feeling or showing love is gay. Men should NEVER feel love, that's for women, that's a female trait"

Also women: "Why are you men so emotionally unavailable?? Why you no love us? Why you use us and throw us away??"

dachengchuan · 2020-12-25T14:10:23+00:00

when a man speaks about his feelings, he is weak, women do not want weak men. Women want you to talk about emotions and feelings is THE BIGGEST shit test. Women do not care about emotions and feelings because it is WHO you are, and women are interested only in WHAT you are and WHAT you have. Learn guys, feelings and emotions are shared with other guys who can really understand you bc they are men. There is nothing feminine in a man and nothing masculine in a women, it is just not possible bc biology reigns, not psychology.

vtec__ · 2020-12-23T01:08:29+00:00

alot of women want to be beat, raped and dominated

Title	Men can't love
Author	Futureman999
Upvotes	308
Comments	71
Date	December 19, 2020 6:13 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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