The Default Defense

The_Stumper · 2018-07-08T23:02:04+00:00

And the follow up default defence is:

“Who hurt you?”

SilverGryphon · 2018-07-09T04:29:03+00:00

AskMen, a male sub with female mods...sholud change it to AskCucks

KingRobotPrince · 2018-07-09T05:13:16+00:00

1, and there's nothing wrong with men having a preference.

2, the classic excuse: some men sleep around, so all women can.

Gross.

The_Stumper · 2018-07-09T00:42:00+00:00

Translated: “used cars never sell at MSRP.”

Ladies gotta know about the consequences of their actions. When she says “please accept my past”, she acknowledges that she has made mistakes in her past but still refuses to make the attitude and life changes necessary to come to terms with her past relations. Basically she’ll be a bitch with experience in dealing with asshole dudes that she did in the past.

Pretty sad, like entering a Ferrari in a monster truck competition.

wellimout · 2018-07-09T12:05:58+00:00

She is (perhaps unconsciously) pulling a little switchero here. I see it a lot and it's worth calling out. But, it requires a bit of setup: imagine two women, same age, same personality, approximately the same physical attractiveness.

The first woman has been single for five years. Like all attractive women, she can get a date in five minutes on Tinder. But, she's selective about it, so when she's actively looking for a date, she might give one new guy per week a shot. She also has reasonable standards, so she's not sleeping with all of these guys - in fact, most of these dates go nowhere. But sometimes (maybe 25% of the time) there's chemistry and mutual attraction, so they have sex. Now, sometimes the sex is no good so she doesn't want to see him again. Sometimes things just fizzle out, or the guy ghosts on her. Sometimes they're together for several months - trying to work toward a real relationship. Sometimes she goes back to Tinder and finds better options there so she politely lets the multi-month guy down (and maybe they even stay friends).

So you see, woman number 1 isn't being unreasonable. She isn't "whoring it up" or whatever. If you average all of that out, it's probably only about one new sexual partner per month, on average. And given all that work (and the occasional multi-month breaks), it doesn't seem like much at all. Over five years, that's 60 men.

The second woman has been in a committed monogamous relationship for the last five years. Here's the kicker: she's had more sex. She fucks her man morning, noon, and night. They have a very healthy sexual relationship - but then they break up for whatever reason, maybe he cheats on her.

Which woman do you think most men would prefer to date? Will they prefer the woman who has had more sex with one man, or the woman who has had less sex overall, but with more men?

In the screenshot above, op says "screwed hundreds of men." He's talking about the first woman. She replies, "women have sex for pleasure." She's conflating these two women - men don't do that. We really aren't bothered by "sex for pleasure," in fact, that's a good thing. I doubt that Lord of the Air, or any man, is put off by the second woman, who has had more sex for pleasure than the first.

LewisCross · 2018-07-09T17:24:00+00:00

Just remember

A man has every right to judge women using any criteria he wants. Rest assured - women are judging you. They're judging me. They're constantly assessing you, evaluating you, measuring you, taking stock of what you do, who you are. Everything. Everything you say and do is under her microscope. Everything you are, say and do is put into her scales for measurement and deemed worthy, unworthy, acceptable, unacceptable, good, or bad.

So judge them. Judge women without apology or excuse. Take what you want. Leave the rest. If she won't give you what you want or need at that time, KICK HER TO THE CURB and REJECT HER.

wrestleholic_jericho · 2018-07-09T10:10:53+00:00

I was banned from that subreddit, shitposted saying "lol you're a fag" and that hurt their feefees. /r/AskMen has become a bad joke.

the_unseen_one · 2018-07-10T02:57:06+00:00

Lol, I just got like 300+ down votes for saying sluts aren't worth commitment, because why pay full price for what she gives away for free? They hate hearing that being a slut has any sort of consequence.

SoulLess-1 · 2018-07-09T10:01:09+00:00

Drug addicts take drugs for pleasure, just like these women do, doesn't mean you are gonna just accept a guy who's a drug addict.

civilizedfrog · 2018-07-10T10:31:08+00:00

I remember a quote I read a few months back-

A man would choose a girl who slept with one guy a million times over a girl that sleeps with 100 guys one time.

AllahHatesFags · 2018-07-10T20:06:21+00:00

A key that can open many locks is valuable and is called a master key.

A lock that is opened by many keys is worthless.

A man is to be really exceptional to get many sexual partners. A woman just has to show up and spread her legs. If these cunts can't understand this difference they are either disingenuous or stupid.

Schraelnick · 2018-07-09T19:51:40+00:00

Rephrase that to-

"That the woman I'm dating hasn't slept with more than 10 guys"

Usually the damage is done by that point. No need to go past 10

thewrecker8 · 2018-07-14T17:53:33+00:00

A key that can open many locks is a master key.

A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock

Richard-Long · 2018-08-17T03:35:22+00:00

I'm late to the post but fuck it recently I've been feeling like an asshole but sometimes people need a asshole to tell them how it really is

Mrapocalisse · 2018-07-09T22:24:35+00:00

He is kind of an asshole though.

Title	The Default Defense
Author	Lord_of_the_Air
Upvotes	368
Comments	65
Date	July 8, 2018 10:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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