When consequences catch up

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-01-10T08:57:26+00:00

I got pregnant by a one night stand

Translation: during one of my many unprotected sex ONSes in got knocked up

As soon as my parents knew about my pregnancy I was out

Translation: I was a train wreck daughter already. The pregnancy was the last straw which broke the camel's back for my parents.

Parents do not disown their children lightly.

dhilu3089 · 2022-01-10T08:54:31+00:00

Feel sad for the kid.

meerita · 2022-01-10T08:45:42+00:00

This woman is a train wreck. No family support. She’s the sum of all red flags

Joaquino7997 · 2022-01-10T09:07:24+00:00

If filling out forms made her depressed and anxious, then perhaps she should have considered using birth control...

...or NOT allow random guys to blow her back out with no glove on.

Thoughts and prayers go out to the child.

damn_montana · 2022-01-10T08:15:31+00:00

I feel bad for her. I wonder why she couldn’t do the paperwork

Dispopular-Take · 2022-01-10T09:18:31+00:00

So.... She's never heard of the "Safe surrender" option?

Or, alternate take: all of her explanations are a retroactive, post-hoc defense, for when she realized that childrearing was actual work. That she didn't want to do.

See also: she still has the (alleged) father's # in her phone. Suggesting her priority is reestablishing contact with him, rather than her childs' well-being.

"He didn't take responsibility..." What is this? A bad hentai?

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-01-10T09:03:33+00:00

Condoms? You can tell she didn’t use them because she would certainly have mentioned birth control failure if she had

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-01-10T09:06:25+00:00

I think there are far more people than many realise who leave school without the ability to properly read and write. Not sure why she couldn’t get help with the forms. Perhaps they don’t allow it for certain reasons

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-01-10T09:10:32+00:00

She wants to kill both herself and her baby. Let that sink in

She has decided that because no one wants her (more accurately the father doesn’t) that no one wants an innocent child either (again just because the dad who never agreed to it doesn’t)

This is appalling

Edit: I wonder if the post partum depression is self diagnosed ? I think there is difference between that and feeling like shit for being alone and chucked out by family with a kid you can’t afford

sqorry · 2022-01-10T09:15:41+00:00

Said this earlier this week nut don't they have any consideration for some anti conception materials? It ain't that difficult to aquire them.

Boar_excrement · 2022-01-10T09:42:37+00:00

If she thought a few hours of paperwork would be too much to handle, what did she think an infant would be?

This poor kid never had a chance in life. All you can do is hope her son grows up to be a better person than either parent.

mr_kuk · 2022-01-10T09:57:13+00:00

experiencing the worst wave of being a woman. It's been more than 20 months since my spawn was spawned and I remain my amazing self but my child is constantly in the way of me being my amazing carefree self that Chad loves so much. Chad has no interest in me because of my incel shit lord 20 months old good for nothing dead beat child.I made the one and only right decision in my life (whilst lacking agency) and got pregnant by a one night stand, he basically raped me but I still try to contact him. You know, I'm offended, since when are one night stands not the standard way to start a family? Anyway, he won't reply to my texts. I'm so strong and independent I was unable to get an abortion because men oppress me. Who in their right mind assumes women have money for abortion? I mean, I have money for make up and booze and weed, but an abortion? No women gets pregnant on her own. I tried to give the kid away but they like were not down on their knees thanking. I mean, leave the kid at the local church or fire station? I won't get any victim points for that and this post would already be over. Birth was given through me, I lack agency, I regret birth happening at me (grammar is oppressive). It's even harder that I choose (whilst lacking agency) a one night stand who is a stranger, even his friends and family are strangers. In my mind, one night stands are more family oriented than actual marriage. I'm not wrong, men are wrong!I never took any fat preggo belly photos, because I can't use them on Tinder. To most people, pregnancy is a blessing, but while me (stop oppressing me!) as a woman, it was terrible and it is terrible for all women. It's blessing for me because they get to see women suffer the horrors of pregnancy. Nine fucking months of hell for all women! I don't have friends and everyone (basically strangers) who doesn't know me is not losing any sleep over my lack of well being, I'm not haaaappy and no one gives a fuck! The nerve of those rapists! I can't do anything because I'm a woman and lack agency. No one helps me and I blame everyone. It's not like I choose this because I lack agency. My parents are incel shit lord garbage human beings who won't parent me and my child. I literally can't do anything because I lack agency. I'm depressed and have anxiety, some of you incels might call that being a woman, but to me it's the real deal.

Ramayri · 2022-01-10T09:56:22+00:00

There is a lot that is "hidden" here.

First off , told my parents and they drew me out on the streets. Now I could be wrong , BUT if she comes from a highly religious family this could be the case OR more likely , even her own parents were sick of their daughter to the point of disowning her. Meaning she was a disaster waiting to happen. Her parents just said "F it" and called it quits before she can ruin their lives even harder.

Second one , the baby daddy. Ok so... random hookup / 1 nightstand , still you have his contact ... so uhm .... ya know start a family maybe or atleast try it ? Huh hu hu ofc not , she has Chad's number in order to cry for money , Chad gives exactly 2 cents about her and his bastard so that is it. Also if you don't speak "womanese" if she is a single mom and her bb daddy isn't there while dodging child sup that man is a classical case of "garbage a man" (this aint men bashing , there are bad people everywhere , it isn't gender restricted) and yet not even 2 sentences about him , just that he gives 0 fucks about them and she is fine with it. SHE KNOWS her real value , her parents knew it and so did he.

Third and last one , this didn't happen over night. She had 9 months to prepare herself for this. What did she do ?

- Ask Chad for abortion money , chad gave her a "have a nice day" instead.

- Try and give it for adoption , failure again .... not because of lack of funds , but because little missy cant be bothered to the paperwork or even worse , at 20 - 21 years old , SHE WAS INCAPABLE of even filling the papers. Let that sink in deep , most of us men , by the time we were 20 (atleast from my experience) had at the very least 1 job and studied or like most folks here did the two jobs. Here we have someone that probably can't even write their own name in an orderly manner.....

- Final solution. What did she learn from her experience as a "mother". Nobody wants hang out with a single mother , not even your so called friends. So do you find more family oriented people or perhaps more mature ones and befriend set people ? NOT BY A LONG SHOT BABY! In her post she lements being left out , but understand why she was. So the only solution is simple ..... get rid of that "pesky" "blocker that ruined her life. While in reality she has been ruining it for years probably judging by her family's reaction (probably theirs as well).

Now most of us have been dealt a bad hand in life once or twice or maybe even more. Even in the darkest of hours , it is expected of us to "man up" and fight through the pain as hard as we can. So that we could grind ourselfs out of the mud. Now don't start thinking this young could do the same. No she can't. Because is the very mud that men get stuck in. Shame for the kid , poor fella did not deserve this..

Ther-Sha · 2022-01-10T10:03:57+00:00

Holy fuck dude, she literally blame it all on the baby. The human being that doesn't have any consciousness until born. She's living in a delusion when it's clearly because of her decisions. If she didn't spread her legs she wouldn't got one at the first place. The guy she slept with is the same. Two scum, one innocent baby.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-10T10:22:58+00:00

Thanks for posting, /u/Marfi09, but removed for the following reasons:

this doesn't fit rule 5, as she's not seeking commitment.
screenshots must tell the full story.

This can fit under the weekend flair "single mom tears". Feel free to resubmit between Friday and Sunday, but only with the full story and flaired correctly.

Selfmade_3127 · 2022-01-10T11:13:44+00:00

in nearly all other 5492 mammal species the females raise the children alone only 32 mammal species have "concealed ovulation" and a weird construct called "relationships" ... in humans the brain size grew over generations together with it's energy consumption until it was impossible for a single female to gather enough food to feed herself and a child ... raising children as a single female became impossible ... so females developed "concealed ovulation" and turned sex into a currency for male goods and services to get help

guess what: * men fuck nearly everything ... but they only invest in their own children * relationships (= provisioning / protection) have to be paid with sex ... that is the system women introduced millions of years ago ... and they selected men as fathers of their children who exactly suit this system so they can stay in control / manipulate them (aka "The Matriarchy")

but this only works if you don't fu** around as woman ... and select your relationship partners carefully

so she pretty much fu**ed up ... no HVM will bail her out

Title	When consequences catch up
Author	Marfi09
Upvotes	15
Comments	25
Date	January 10, 2022 8:08 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/s0evwj/when_consequences_catch_up/
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