Broken gardening tool lamenting about her predicament

make_reddit_great · 2021-08-16T23:43:32+00:00

I'm engaged in self-destructive behavior. Should I...

(a) stop the bad behavior, or

(b) post about my feelings so random strangers can upvote me and give me meaningless support that will help me rationalize the continuation of my bad behavior?

PirateDocBrown · 2021-08-16T23:11:09+00:00

She sounds great. Tears make me horny.

p3ngwin · 2021-08-17T00:26:30+00:00

<sigh> i'm seeing an increasing trend towards a new word they've latched onto, they are all suddenly struck with a case of being "vulnerable".

A while ago it was them needing help because of being a "minority" and then they demanded support in aid of being "inclusive", because they were "oppressed", and we all needed more "diversity", etc......now it's them labeling themselves as "vulnerable".

Add in all the other nonsense made-up bollocks like "micro aggressions", "stare rape", "manspreading", etc too. They all hate men, and yet victimise themselves.

These women can't stop their hamsters oscillating between asserting how they are "strong and independent - there's no difference between men and women.....", while simultaneously damseling themselves by asserting how they're also "vulnerable", and how they "don't feel safe around men", and "need safe spaces", etc.

The persecution complex is strong with them ....

EDIT:

In doing some background research, i was reminded of the two types of narcissists you encounter, see if one of them seems familiar to this topic:

In our research, we investigated two types of previously identified narcissism: Grandiose and Vulnerable.

Grandiose narcissists are arrogant, dominant and extroverted. They tend to have high self-esteem, be bold and assertive and feel happy and confident about their lives.

Vulnerable narcissists, on the other hand, are withdrawn, neurotic and insecure. They tend to have low self-esteem, be hypersensitive and feel anxious and depressed.

However, these two types of narcissists also have something in common. Both are selfish, feel entitled to special treatment and privileges and relate to others in antagonistic ways.

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1467-6494.2010.00711.x

https://www.lifehacker.com.au/2021/08/heres-how-to-deal-with-different-types-of-narcissists/

Bob_and_Virginia · 2021-08-17T00:15:37+00:00

Bob been through hell too. But women don't care. Women just wait at finish line for winner. Don't care about Bob's struggles.

So haha!

ZarBandit · 2021-08-17T02:52:12+00:00

They always have to be sleeping with someone. It’s pathological. They can’t be alone because then they’re alone with their thoughts and taking stock of their reality, that’s truly a terrifying prospect. It invites some minimal introspection and accountability, like sunlight on a vampire.

Chad’s not interested because she aged out or pilled the pin on the fat grenade. All the hawt men aren’t willing to put up with her nonsense to smash. So now she’s settled for the nearest available smasher, and laments the loss of her ability to draw in Chad interest like the good old days.

But note there’s no interest in bettering herself, mentally or physically.

LondonDude123 · 2021-08-17T02:34:45+00:00

"Never in my life have i had a man actually care about what ive been through or show any level of empathy towards me for the things that made me vulnerable"

Welcome to our world. Fun isnt it...

NBA_MSG · 2021-08-16T23:40:55+00:00

In other news, water is wet

Joaquino7997 · 2021-08-16T23:51:36+00:00

Somebody needs therapy, and it's NOT the men

FaeVandal · 2021-08-17T00:50:23+00:00

Paging captain save-a-hoe clean up on isle three, one severally damaged CC rider with self destructive behavior and no intention of correcting it.

No takers? You mean no man wants to spend his life trying to make someone who doesn't like who they are and has no intention of fixing it happy?

sHoCKiNG.......

Captainbuttman · 2021-08-17T01:05:19+00:00

made me unable to attract good men.

hmmm, sounds like she can still attract men just not good men.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2021-08-17T00:14:44+00:00

Oooookaaaaay?

Why you go pub? Stay home. Drink box wine. Alone.

anon_likes_tendies · 2021-08-17T05:25:49+00:00

The things that made me vulnerable have ruined my life and made me unable to attract good men

Translation: My Christian Grey ideal man isn't swooping in in his $120k Audi to save me. The simp beta orbiters in my life just won't do it for me. I'm entitled to the whole package. Yaaaaasss kweeen!

I have been going there and sleeping with him to feel less alone.

So Chad will pump and dump me but doesn't care otherwise.

My sadness is a turn off to anybody with an ounce of sense

Any good man left willing to commit doesn't want to play Chad's saved game or carry a self admitted amount of baggage that would fill the terminal at LAX Airport.

GiantOfTheSouthSky · 2021-08-17T02:59:01+00:00

I bet there's at least 5 dudes trying to "fix" her but they happen to not have the right set of tools...

PrincessaRusalka · 2021-08-17T03:54:58+00:00

Too much therapy actually does this. It's run by feminists who encourage this behavior.

AFthrowaway3000 · 2021-08-17T01:19:44+00:00

The obliviousness is STUNNING.

yellomachine · 2021-08-17T01:13:04+00:00

Boohoo Carol! It's not our job to fix you and there are plenty of cysturs to hear your wailing.

AmbitiousHornet · 2021-08-17T07:59:52+00:00

Too bad so sad that the consequences of you poor choices in life have come back to haunt you. There are no "no things that made me", there is only you and your choices.

BluepillProfessor · 2021-08-17T15:05:00+00:00

Mass Depression and despair is a natural consequence of violating natural law and the clear rules established by Nature's God. Not to mention observation and common sense.

Women NEED men. Men WANT women. Without a man, women often become unhinged, unmoored, and unhappy. Without a woman, men often are unhappy but they remain moored and attached to reality. Women left alone do not.

Yes, women who dedicate themselves to a profession often live complete lives but almost none of them are happy.

Women who dedicate themselves to a man, bear and raise his children, and help him become successful are by far the happiest women on the planet.

Of course that is not saying much....

ringseller · 2021-08-17T14:33:37+00:00

never in my entire life has a man ever shown me any empathy

pffft, yeah right

smfuel87 · 2021-08-18T02:55:00+00:00

When a girls says "You don't know my story", it's just a tale full of meth and dicks. Its always just meth and dicks.

Guapscotch · 2021-08-17T16:03:07+00:00

Some people don’t need to be searching for love, they need to be searching for forgiveness.

Enzo95 · 2021-08-17T16:17:08+00:00

The things that made me vulnerable have ruined my life and made me unable to attract good men.

Vulnerable to fast food and soft drinks.

Nihi1986 · 2021-08-18T03:12:16+00:00

Some men (the white knights) are attracted to broken women, she just would never date one unless she really needed it, and even then she would probably try to get everything from him without having sex. (Unless she isn't sleeping with someone else).

DrDog09 · 2021-08-17T16:40:17+00:00

The idea of self-reflection and actions - consequences are absent in modern women. The Movement has convinced them it is not required in order for them to reach nirvana.

redditradishman · 2021-08-17T20:35:54+00:00

Good men thank you for your sacrifice.

One-Move · 2021-08-17T22:16:18+00:00

I nearly feel sad for her,

No just kidding

MrNeurotypical · 2021-08-18T00:02:40+00:00

Newsflash: Empathy is a female trait. Men with female traits are unattractive. Fried ice.

CartNip · 2021-08-18T00:09:13+00:00

Self aware atleast ig

TopShelfPrivilege · 2021-08-17T15:15:39+00:00

I can't blame anyone.

Because blaming someone would mean taking responsibility for your poor choices and realizing that you caused the shitty situation in which you currently find yourself.

Harry_Teak · 2021-08-18T00:26:08+00:00

Reads more like "epiphany phase" to me. She's at the appropriate place that her path through life has lead her, a random guy's boner garage.

Sure, she's still bitching about it but it'd be nice if more of these poor broken doves acknowledged their place in the overall scheme of things.

Exotic-Wrap1419 · 2021-08-19T09:16:57+00:00

Thats going to be a great catlady

M133A · 2021-08-19T10:07:16+00:00

wow...this world is a sad place.

Yggdrasill4 · 2021-08-19T12:40:53+00:00

A guy who begins to emphasize with her will be insta non relationship material. Just her personal side therapist.

Krampus1313 · 2021-08-19T16:57:53+00:00

No shit?

AdventurousAd5107 · 2021-08-19T21:00:47+00:00

I’ve learnt men do care and are very caring but they give solutions not reaffirming unproductive mopey stuff

Men don’t like victim mentality women

AdventurousAd5107 · 2021-08-19T21:02:03+00:00

“My sadness is a turnoff to anyone with an ounce of sense”

Okay so why are you complaining then? You said it yourself I don’t understand this

Taryll02 · 2021-08-21T09:47:11+00:00

What about all those men that couldn’t get passed the first step and was bullied well into their adult hood. Where’s the sympathy there. Oh wait there is none. So don’t expect sympathy from us.

WalnutManTrader · 2021-09-04T09:16:50+00:00

Well that’s one way to plug the holes in her heart

Title	Broken gardening tool lamenting about her predicament
Author	Marfi09
Upvotes	554
Comments	120
Date	August 16, 2021 11:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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