Dear all,

Last week I had a terrible weekend. My relationship with my ex was full of emotional abuse. I wrote a long ass article on Medium to heal and reflect from my personal experience. However, the article finally came to him through someone who betrayed my trust. He then play pretend on Twitter that I was the abusive one and that he was a victim himself.

I saw the tweet because I intuitively feel like checking. But it hurts me and it affects me so badly that I cried and I couldn't eat. Today, a friend of mine checked his Twitter to see he's made it private. He's never made it private in his lifetime so I guess he has found out that I knew about his tweet.

Ladies, how do I fight against this emotional battle of thinking about him, what he write about me and just really to not care about him?

As an emotional abuse victim, I've clearly been more invested than him that I still had that residual care for him even after the break up till now which has been up to 5 months for a 6 months relationship.

Please advice.