I’m someone who usually has trouble giving men compliments because I’m skeptical and find that I fear the other shoe dropping. However, I know that it can be well appreciated by anyone to receive a compliment for doing something well or being a good fit (e.g. being thoughtful, paying attention, or consistently inquisitive). Maybe it’s because this is “rare” behavior that I feel the need to compliment men on it, but is there a way that you ladies recommend me going about that? I don’t want it to seem like I’m used to less-than-stellar behavior but I also do not want to feel like compliments are a no-go completely or that I’m discouraging good behavior by being indifferent.