I find it extremely difficult to let any of my friends, let alone a man I barely know, plan things for me. I have OCD and often need to plan every detail for myself in order for me to feel comfortable when I'm participating in an activity etc. As I'm setting out to follow the FDS in my dating life, I find it very difficult to let the guy plan the date. How should I tackle this problem?

Sidebar: I have raised this issue in my OCD therapy, but my therapist unfortunately does not agree with the fact that the man has to be the one to plan the dates and does not see the problem in me planning them (has obviously not read the FDS handbook), so I thought I should see what you lovely ladies have to say about this.